250 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 8 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Fridays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (61%).
r/comingout Traffic & Engagement r/comingout Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/comingout Most Active Times When r/comingout Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/comingout Flair Performance r/comingout Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice Needed | 137 (55.5%) | 4 |
| Story | 59 (23.9%) | 7 |
| Help | 16 (6.5%) | 2 |
| Question | 14 (5.7%) | 5 |
| Other | 11 (4.5%) | 6 |
| Meta | 10 (4.0%) | 61 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/comingout Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/comingout
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| coming | 63 (25.2%) | 3 | 1 |
| come | 40 (16.0%) | 3 | 1 |
| came | 35 (14.0%) | 8 | 2 |
| gay | 28 (11.2%) | 5 | 2 |
| parents | 25 (10.0%) | 3 | 1 |
| i'm | 23 (9.2%) | 3 | 1 |
| mom | 20 (8.0%) | 3 | 1 |
| advice | 17 (6.8%) | 4 | 2 |
| tell | 15 (6.0%) | 4 | 3 |
| trans | 12 (4.8%) | 7 | 1 |
r/comingout Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/comingout
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/comingout Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/comingout
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Do you believe that world can exist?
Let's fight for our rights as transgander refugees
Justice for lgbtq people in comps
I came out my younger brother and it was his reaction...
Should I get into being a femboy? Do I have the look?
Do i have MTF/femboy potential? Be honest
I had to cut off my family members because of transphobia.
Came out as trans to 4friends of mine; and this how they’ve respond
Coming out live on air
How's my makeup??
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Do you believe that world can exist? | 232 | 7 | image | Sep 16 |
| Let's fight for our rights as transgander refugees | 173 | 2 | image | Sep 21 |
| Justice for lgbtq people in comps | 161 | 1 | image | Sep 10 |
| I came out my younger brother and it was his reaction... | 66 | 7 | text | Sep 10 |
| Should I get into being a femboy? Do I have the look? | 53 | 18 | image | Sep 13 |
| Do i have MTF/femboy potential? Be honest | 51 | 15 | image | Sep 19 |
| I had to cut off my family members because of transphobia. | 46 | 6 | image | Sep 30 |
| Came out as trans to 4friends of mine; and this how they’ve respond | 46 | 9 | image | Sep 29 |
| Coming out live on air | 40 | 2 | image | Sep 2 |
| How's my makeup?? | 38 | 8 | image | Sep 14 |
r/comingout Audience Overlap r/comingout Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/comingout FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/comingout
What's the best time to post on r/comingout?
Based on posting volume, r/comingout is most active on Fridays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/comingout?
r/comingout averages 8 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/comingout get?
Posts on r/comingout average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/comingout get most?
On r/comingout, most posts are text posts (61%)