1.4K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 45 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Mondays around 11 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/DecidingToBeBetter Traffic & Engagement r/DecidingToBeBetter Traffic & Engagement
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r/DecidingToBeBetter Flair Performance r/DecidingToBeBetter Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking Advice | 963 (70.8%) | 7 |
| Discussion | 209 (15.4%) | 10 |
| Sharing Helpful Tips | 87 (6.4%) | 6 |
| Progress Update | 49 (3.6%) | 5 |
| Spreading Positivity | 32 (2.4%) | 9 |
| Success Story | 21 (1.5%) | 20 |
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r/DecidingToBeBetter Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DecidingToBeBetter
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| life | 144 (10.6%) | 11 | 6 |
| stop | 121 (8.9%) | 9 | 7 |
| feel | 105 (7.7%) | 11 | 5 |
| myself | 90 (6.6%) | 5 | 4 |
| better | 76 (5.6%) | 5 | 3 |
| want | 75 (5.5%) | 7 | 5 |
| people | 68 (5.0%) | 12 | 8 |
| help | 65 (4.8%) | 7 | 5 |
| change | 64 (4.7%) | 7 | 4 |
| know | 63 (4.6%) | 6 | 5 |
r/DecidingToBeBetter Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DecidingToBeBetter
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DecidingToBeBetter Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DecidingToBeBetter
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I spent 3 sleepless days watching my mom die begging for vodka, but I still obey anyone who raises their voice. I'm 21 and done living like a coward.
How can I stop being jealous of my perfect friend?
The lessons I've learned after making a woman feel unsafe
Ruined my life at a party
I was cruel to a pet as a child and teenager and feel stuck
Being cool is actually super easy
I've been doing excercise on a daily basis for the past 3 months and I'm feeling great
For people who used to be chronic people-pleasers, what actually changed?
What's the best habit you've built that changed your daily life?
How do I become disciplined and be an actual adult
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I spent 3 sleepless days watching my mom die begging for vodka, but I still obey anyone who raises their voice. I'm 21 and done living like a coward. | 372 | 77 | text | Sep 5 |
| How can I stop being jealous of my perfect friend? | 365 | 66 | text | Sep 28 |
| The lessons I've learned after making a woman feel unsafe | 326 | 51 | text | Sep 26 |
| Ruined my life at a party | 264 | 98 | text | Sep 21 |
| I was cruel to a pet as a child and teenager and feel stuck | 244 | 39 | text | Sep 15 |
| Being cool is actually super easy | 160 | 19 | text | Sep 12 |
| I've been doing excercise on a daily basis for the past 3 months and I'm feeling great | 150 | 8 | text | Sep 2 |
| For people who used to be chronic people-pleasers, what actually changed? | 141 | 82 | text | Sep 29 |
| What's the best habit you've built that changed your daily life? | 137 | 165 | text | Sep 17 |
| How do I become disciplined and be an actual adult | 135 | 35 | text | Sep 10 |
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r/DecidingToBeBetter FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DecidingToBeBetter
What's the best time to post on r/DecidingToBeBetter?
Based on posting volume, r/DecidingToBeBetter is most active on Mondays around 11 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DecidingToBeBetter?
r/DecidingToBeBetter averages 45 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DecidingToBeBetter get?
Posts on r/DecidingToBeBetter average about 8 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DecidingToBeBetter get most?
On r/DecidingToBeBetter, most posts are text posts (100%)