2.5K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 82 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Sundays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (99%).
r/gayfriendfinder Traffic & Engagement r/gayfriendfinder Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/gayfriendfinder Most Active Times When r/gayfriendfinder Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/gayfriendfinder Flair Performance r/gayfriendfinder Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| 🎮 GAYMER 🎮 | 786 (31.1%) | 2 |
| 🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 | 193 (7.6%) | 2 |
| 🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 | 167 (6.6%) | 2 |
| 🍿 MOVIE BUFF 🍿 | 133 (5.3%) | 3 |
| 📚 BOOKWORM 📚 | 133 (5.3%) | 3 |
| 🏆 ATHLETE 🏆 | 119 (4.7%) | 2 |
| 👨🏫 NERD 👨🏫 | 97 (3.8%) | 2 |
| 🤓 GEEK 🤓 | 90 (3.6%) | 2 |
| 👨🍳 FOODIE 👨🍳 | 85 (3.4%) | 2 |
| 🌲 OUTDOORSMAN 🌲 | 70 (2.8%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/gayfriendfinder Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/gayfriendfinder
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| looking | 1.7K (65.3%) | 2 | 2 |
| friends | 964 (38.0%) | 2 | 2 |
| chat | 323 (12.7%) | 2 | 2 |
| gay | 221 (8.7%) | 2 | 3 |
| guy | 197 (7.8%) | 3 | 2 |
| friend | 181 (7.1%) | 2 | 3 |
| people | 160 (6.3%) | 2 | 2 |
| long | 151 (6.0%) | 2 | 2 |
| genuine | 146 (5.8%) | 2 | 2 |
| term | 133 (5.3%) | 2 | 2 |
r/gayfriendfinder Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/gayfriendfinder
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| i.imgur.com | 14 | 21 |
| cdn.discordapp.com | 9 | 1 |
r/gayfriendfinder Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/gayfriendfinder
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
27 recently divorced bi guy from Texas looking for friends or maybe more
(25) colombian half human half bear
35 in Michigan always looking to connect
[43, yes I'm old 🤷🏻] [M4A] Just looking for a real connection and someone to talk to (feeling a bit low lately)
24 years from Germany! Need some friends and some gaming friends! 😊
(45) elder millenial looking to connect with others who find themselves in that weird space in between generations
34 recently divorced dad of one looking to meet new people
Hey! Straight guy that reached out a couple days ago… you guys have been awesome!
Life is lonely and depressing😪
M 27 UK Straight - in need of a new gay friend lol (read below)
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 27 recently divorced bi guy from Texas looking for friends or maybe more | 54 | 13 | image | Aug 26 |
| (25) colombian half human half bear | 49 | 13 | image | Aug 17 |
| 35 in Michigan always looking to connect | 46 | 20 | image | Aug 15 |
| [43, yes I'm old 🤷🏻] [M4A] Just looking for a real connection and someone to talk to (feeling a bit low lately) | 26 | 18 | text | Aug 2 |
| 24 years from Germany! Need some friends and some gaming friends! 😊 | 25 | 5 | image | Aug 28 |
| (45) elder millenial looking to connect with others who find themselves in that weird space in between generations | 24 | 13 | text | Aug 3 |
| 34 recently divorced dad of one looking to meet new people | 24 | 18 | text | Aug 29 |
| Hey! Straight guy that reached out a couple days ago… you guys have been awesome! | 23 | 8 | text | Aug 4 |
| Life is lonely and depressing😪 | 23 | 12 | image | Aug 25 |
| M 27 UK Straight - in need of a new gay friend lol (read below) | 23 | 16 | text | Aug 10 |
r/gayfriendfinder Audience Overlap r/gayfriendfinder Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/gayfriendfinder FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/gayfriendfinder
What's the best time to post on r/gayfriendfinder?
Based on posting volume, r/gayfriendfinder is most active on Sundays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/gayfriendfinder?
r/gayfriendfinder averages 82 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/gayfriendfinder get?
Posts on r/gayfriendfinder average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/gayfriendfinder get most?
On r/gayfriendfinder, most posts are text posts (99%)