900 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 29 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Sundays around 10 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/lesbianr4r Traffic & Engagement r/lesbianr4r Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
Post Format
Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/lesbianr4r Most Active Times When r/lesbianr4r Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
Most Active by Day
r/lesbianr4r Flair Performance r/lesbianr4r Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| searching | 868 (96.4%) | 4 |
| discussion | 26 (2.9%) | 2 |
| success | 6 (0.7%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/lesbianr4r Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/lesbianr4r
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| looking | 429 (47.7%) | 3 | 1 |
| f4f | 173 (19.2%) | 5 | 1 |
| friends | 100 (11.1%) | 3 | 1 |
| femme | 68 (7.6%) | 5 | 1 |
| online | 67 (7.4%) | 5 | 1 |
| masc | 57 (6.3%) | 3 | 1 |
| seeking | 55 (6.1%) | 7 | 2 |
| someone | 51 (5.7%) | 5 | 1 |
| anywhere | 50 (5.6%) | 6 | 2 |
| something | 43 (4.8%) | 3 | 1 |
r/lesbianr4r Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/lesbianr4r
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/lesbianr4r Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/lesbianr4r
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Why is it so hard to find someone who genuinely wants to choose you?
35yo soft butch seeking wife
39 [F4F] looking for my safe space
32F [F4F] | Online/Anywhere | Let’s make friends and romanticise the littlest of things.
27F, new to the community.
33F physician looking for genuine connection
36F - NY - Looking For Someone Worth Writing Songs About
33F Femme Looking For My Wife
37F4F - Pennsylvania, USA or Online - sitting in my garden & seeking conversation
39F - Old soul poet looking for her honey/MN, Twin Cities
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Why is it so hard to find someone who genuinely wants to choose you? | 98 | 33 | text | Aug 15 |
| 35yo soft butch seeking wife | 58 | 17 | text | Aug 24 |
| 39 [F4F] looking for my safe space | 47 | 12 | text | Aug 17 |
| 32F [F4F] | Online/Anywhere | Let’s make friends and romanticise the littlest of things. | 42 | 12 | text | Aug 16 |
| 27F, new to the community. | 37 | 9 | text | Aug 8 |
| 33F physician looking for genuine connection | 36 | 10 | text | Aug 17 |
| 36F - NY - Looking For Someone Worth Writing Songs About | 34 | 12 | text | Aug 23 |
| 33F Femme Looking For My Wife | 33 | 13 | text | Aug 26 |
| 37F4F - Pennsylvania, USA or Online - sitting in my garden & seeking conversation | 33 | 3 | text | Aug 9 |
| 39F - Old soul poet looking for her honey/MN, Twin Cities | 33 | 10 | text | Aug 25 |
r/lesbianr4r Audience Overlap r/lesbianr4r Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
Overlapping audiences Communities with overlapping audiences
r/lesbianr4r FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/lesbianr4r
What's the best time to post on r/lesbianr4r?
Based on posting volume, r/lesbianr4r is most active on Sundays around 10 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/lesbianr4r?
r/lesbianr4r averages 29 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/lesbianr4r get?
Posts on r/lesbianr4r average about 3 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/lesbianr4r get most?
On r/lesbianr4r, most posts are text posts (100%)