5.0K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 160 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Mondays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/raisedbynarcissists Traffic & Engagement r/raisedbynarcissists Traffic & Engagement
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r/raisedbynarcissists Flair Performance r/raisedbynarcissists Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| [Rant/Vent, Advice OK] | 2.2K (43.5%) | 25 |
| [Advice Request] | 1.2K (23.9%) | 11 |
| [Question] | 547 (11.0%) | 27 |
| [Supportive Responses Only, Advice OK] | 357 (7.2%) | 15 |
| [Rant/Vent, No Advice] | 208 (4.2%) | 71 |
| [Trigger Warning] | 127 (2.6%) | 21 |
| [Progress] | 74 (1.5%) | 58 |
| [Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse] | 54 (1.1%) | 6 |
| [Supportive Responses Only, No Advice] | 50 (1.0%) | 31 |
| [Happy/Funny] | 35 (0.7%) | 98 |
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r/raisedbynarcissists Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/raisedbynarcissists
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| mom | 565 (11.4%) | 29 | 8 |
| parents | 544 (11.0%) | 33 | 11 |
| mother | 375 (7.6%) | 26 | 7 |
| narcissistic | 269 (5.4%) | 24 | 9 |
| anyone | 239 (4.8%) | 32 | 12 |
| dad | 235 (4.7%) | 22 | 6 |
| family | 235 (4.7%) | 27 | 7 |
| feel | 200 (4.0%) | 15 | 5 |
| i'm | 188 (3.8%) | 23 | 5 |
| narcissist | 183 (3.7%) | 28 | 11 |
r/raisedbynarcissists Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/raisedbynarcissists
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r/raisedbynarcissists Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/raisedbynarcissists
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Friend's Ndad accidentally killed himself...because of a tantrum.
My therapist explained my butterfly-phobia and that's CRAZY af
It finally happened. The mask slipped, the veil lifted, everyone sees who she is, and it’s glorious.
MY THERAPIST BLEW MY MIND!!!!
When you treat your parents the exact same way they’ve treated you, you’ll find they get furious.
Watched my covert narcissist mother run her whole playbook on my kids this week. 40 years of fog lifted in one morning.
The week my mom died was the best week we’ve had at my dad’s house in years
My mom keeps doing it with my little sister in the room
They let a complete stranger into the bathroom while I was showering. I am a teenager.
FIRST GRANDCHILD DISAPPOINTMENT
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Friend's Ndad accidentally killed himself...because of a tantrum. | 4.2K | 181 | text | Aug 31 |
| My therapist explained my butterfly-phobia and that's CRAZY af | 2.1K | 220 | text | Aug 8 |
| It finally happened. The mask slipped, the veil lifted, everyone sees who she is, and it’s glorious. | 1.7K | 33 | text | Aug 4 |
| MY THERAPIST BLEW MY MIND!!!! | 1.4K | 79 | text | Aug 3 |
| When you treat your parents the exact same way they’ve treated you, you’ll find they get furious. | 1.2K | 115 | text | Aug 9 |
| Watched my covert narcissist mother run her whole playbook on my kids this week. 40 years of fog lifted in one morning. | 1.1K | 82 | text | Aug 9 |
| The week my mom died was the best week we’ve had at my dad’s house in years | 1.1K | 68 | text | Aug 21 |
| My mom keeps doing it with my little sister in the room | 1.1K | 60 | text | Aug 16 |
| They let a complete stranger into the bathroom while I was showering. I am a teenager. | 988 | 65 | text | Aug 19 |
| FIRST GRANDCHILD DISAPPOINTMENT | 974 | 86 | text | Aug 10 |
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r/raisedbynarcissists FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/raisedbynarcissists
What's the best time to post on r/raisedbynarcissists?
Based on posting volume, r/raisedbynarcissists is most active on Mondays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/raisedbynarcissists?
r/raisedbynarcissists averages 160 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/raisedbynarcissists get?
Posts on r/raisedbynarcissists average about 25 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/raisedbynarcissists get most?
On r/raisedbynarcissists, most posts are text posts (100%)