156 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 5 posts/day, top 50% activity. Most active Sundays around 1 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (63%).
r/Romance_for_men Traffic & Engagement r/Romance_for_men Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/Romance_for_men Most Active Times When r/Romance_for_men Is Most Active
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r/Romance_for_men Flair Performance r/Romance_for_men Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Request | 70 (47.0%) | 18 |
| Promotion: Harem | 32 (21.5%) | 23 |
| Discussion | 18 (12.1%) | 25 |
| Review / Gush | 12 (8.1%) | 19 |
| Promotion: General RFM | 8 (5.4%) | 34 |
| Erotica | 6 (4.0%) | 9 |
| What was that book? | 3 (2.0%) | 3 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/Romance_for_men Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Romance_for_men
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| romance | 26 (16.7%) | 32 | 15 |
| book | 20 (12.8%) | 22 | 6 |
| looking | 20 (12.8%) | 15 | 9 |
| books | 12 (7.7%) | 44 | 23 |
| fantasy | 10 (6.4%) | 21 | 5 |
| harem | 10 (6.4%) | 16 | 8 |
r/Romance_for_men Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Romance_for_men
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Romance_for_men Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Romance_for_men
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Can you guys recommend me novels with a taller, protective LI?
The secret lives of men who read romance books: ‘My life is full of love, so I’m drawn to them’ | Romance books
Anything like this?
Shifts a Novella by Colin Graves
Moneymaker Book 1 is LIVE on KU/Paperback! (+Book 2 Love Interest image)
[Book Release] Sterling Grove Club: Vol. 1 – A Contemporary Gentle Femdom Romance (52k words / KU)
Breaking the Ice out now! Hockey harem romance for men
Fortune Favors the Brave -- Harsh Starlight Vol. 2 Coming October 5th. Pre-Order Today!
Scrapped! A spicy sci-fi MONO-romance that really delivers on the sci-fi is on discounted preorder!
Male Pleasure in Romance
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Can you guys recommend me novels with a taller, protective LI? | 223 | 33 | image | Sep 10 |
| The secret lives of men who read romance books: ‘My life is full of love, so I’m drawn to them’ | Romance books | 147 | 31 | link | Sep 30 |
| Anything like this? | 141 | 3 | image | Sep 1 |
| Shifts a Novella by Colin Graves | 96 | 10 | image | Sep 10 |
| Moneymaker Book 1 is LIVE on KU/Paperback! (+Book 2 Love Interest image) | 86 | 10 | image | Sep 3 |
| [Book Release] Sterling Grove Club: Vol. 1 – A Contemporary Gentle Femdom Romance (52k words / KU) | 78 | 18 | image | Sep 14 |
| Breaking the Ice out now! Hockey harem romance for men | 67 | 26 | image | Sep 29 |
| Fortune Favors the Brave -- Harsh Starlight Vol. 2 Coming October 5th. Pre-Order Today! | 67 | 9 | image | Sep 27 |
| Scrapped! A spicy sci-fi MONO-romance that really delivers on the sci-fi is on discounted preorder! | 61 | 10 | image | Sep 22 |
| Male Pleasure in Romance | 57 | 88 | text | Sep 13 |
r/Romance_for_men Audience Overlap r/Romance_for_men Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Romance_for_men FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Romance_for_men
What's the best time to post on r/Romance_for_men?
Based on posting volume, r/Romance_for_men is most active on Sundays around 1 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Romance_for_men?
r/Romance_for_men averages 5 posts per day and ranks in the top 50% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Romance_for_men get?
Posts on r/Romance_for_men average about 21 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Romance_for_men get most?
On r/Romance_for_men, most posts are text posts (63%)