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Averages 43 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Thursdays around 1 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).

Posts / Day Average posts per day this month. Arrow is change vs the prior calendar month.
43 0%
Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post this month (upvotes minus downvotes). Arrow is change vs the prior month.
1 16%
Avg Comments Mean number of comments per post this month. Arrow is change vs the prior month when that month’s data is available.
2 1%
Activity Rank #2,590 by posts/day among 33,249 tracked NSFW subreddits as of Sep 2026 (Top 10%). Arrow is spots gained or lost vs the prior month.
#2,590 83
Top 10%
Posts w/ Links The percentage of posts that link off-site. This counts true link posts plus text posts with a URL in the body. Image and video posts are not counted.
2%
Low-Reply Rate Share of posts with 0 or 1 comment. A single comment is often an automated mod reply rather than real community discussion.
83%

r/SanDiegoR4R Traffic & Engagement

Volume and engagement over time

Posts/DayAvg Upvotes02040600123Sep 1Sep 8Sep 15Sep 22Sep 29
Posts/Day Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post in this bucket.

Post Format

Top Post Type Text
Typical Title Length Medium (61 chars)
Peak Day Tuesday

Upvote Distribution

How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.

2–9
89%
10–99
11%
100–999
0%
1K+
0%
Posts that get upvoted Share of posts that received at least one upvote (2+ net upvotes). Most posts at 1 upvote are excluded. 13%
Median upvoted post Median upvotes among posts that received upvotes. Differs from Avg Upvotes in the snapshot, which includes every post. 2
Top post Highest upvote count on a single post this month. 29

r/SanDiegoR4R Most Active Times

Peak posting by day and hour (UTC)

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#1 Top 3 activity windows

Most Active by Day

Sun 9 PM
Mon 6 PM
Tue 9 PM
Wed 2 PM
Thu 1 AM
Fri 7 PM
Sat 8 PM

r/SanDiegoR4R Flair Performance

Upvotes and volume by flair

Flair Posts Upvotes
Male Seeking Females442 (34.8%)1
Male Seeking Males262 (20.6%)1
Female Seeking Males171 (13.5%)3
{{New Account}}123 (9.7%)1
Male Seeking Redditor103 (8.1%)1
{{Body Too Short}}64 (5.0%)1
Trans Seeking Males25 (2.0%)3
Male Seeking Couples22 (1.7%)1
Couple Seeking Males17 (1.3%)3
Couple Seeking Females12 (0.9%)1

Post Type Breakdown

Share by text, image, or link

100%text posts

r/SanDiegoR4R Trending Keywords

Ranked by how often they appear

KeywordMentions ▼UpvotesComments
looking
486 (38.1%)
12
m4f
454 (35.5%)
11
m4m
259 (20.3%)
12
f4m
166 (13.0%)
34
sandiego
155 (12.1%)
12
fun
133 (10.4%)
12
m4a
99 (7.8%)
11
fwb
82 (6.4%)
13
lamesa
79 (6.2%)
12
bottom
72 (5.6%)
12

r/SanDiegoR4R Mentioned Domains

Most linked sites

This community doesn't link off-site.

Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.

r/SanDiegoR4R Top Posts

Highest-performing posts

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r/SanDiegoR4R Audience Overlap

Overlapping audiences

r/SanDiegoR4R FAQ

What's the best time to post on r/SanDiegoR4R?

Based on posting volume, r/SanDiegoR4R is most active on Thursdays around 1 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.

How active is r/SanDiegoR4R?

r/SanDiegoR4R averages 43 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.

How many upvotes do posts on r/SanDiegoR4R get?

Posts on r/SanDiegoR4R average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).

What kind of posts does r/SanDiegoR4R get most?

On r/SanDiegoR4R, most posts are text posts (100%)