332 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 11 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (62%).
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r/selfesteem Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/selfesteem
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| feel | 57 (17.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| self | 32 (9.6%) | 1 | 1 |
| ugly | 30 (9.0%) | 1 | 0 |
| people | 25 (7.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| myself | 19 (5.7%) | 1 | 1 |
| insecure | 18 (5.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| feeling | 17 (5.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| hate | 16 (4.8%) | 1 | 1 |
| esteem | 15 (4.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| confidence | 15 (4.5%) | 1 | 0 |
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r/selfesteem Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/selfesteem
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What moment in your life made you realize nobody wanted you, and how did you cope with it?
My self-esteem is at rock bottom
feel like shit
I want to believe im pretty but deep down I know Im not
how can I improve if I have no redeeming qualities?
I’m 34 and I feel like I peaked in my 20s. Now I compare myself to everyone and sometimes just want to hide.
Why do I act more myself online?
How can I accept being liked?
i feel ugly.
This is not very important but I need it out somewhere.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| What moment in your life made you realize nobody wanted you, and how did you cope with it? | 5 | 3 | text | Sep 2 |
| My self-esteem is at rock bottom | 4 | 1 | text | Sep 5 |
| feel like shit | 4 | 1 | text | Sep 12 |
| I want to believe im pretty but deep down I know Im not | 4 | 0 | text | Sep 19 |
| how can I improve if I have no redeeming qualities? | 4 | 4 | text | Sep 10 |
| I’m 34 and I feel like I peaked in my 20s. Now I compare myself to everyone and sometimes just want to hide. | 4 | 2 | text | Sep 14 |
| Why do I act more myself online? | 3 | 0 | text | Sep 5 |
| How can I accept being liked? | 3 | 1 | text | Sep 6 |
| i feel ugly. | 3 | 1 | text | Sep 1 |
| This is not very important but I need it out somewhere. | 3 | 2 | text | Sep 10 |
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r/selfesteem FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/selfesteem
What's the best time to post on r/selfesteem?
Based on posting volume, r/selfesteem is most active on Tuesdays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/selfesteem?
r/selfesteem averages 11 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/selfesteem get?
Posts on r/selfesteem average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/selfesteem get most?
On r/selfesteem, most posts are text posts (62%)