356 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 12 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 7 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (71%).
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r/selfesteem Most Active Times When r/selfesteem Is Most Active
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r/selfesteem Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/selfesteem
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| feel | 53 (14.9%) | 2 | 1 |
| myself | 44 (12.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| ugly | 38 (10.7%) | 1 | 1 |
| self | 35 (9.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| insecure | 21 (5.9%) | 1 | 0 |
| want | 18 (5.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| esteem | 18 (5.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| hate | 17 (4.8%) | 1 | 1 |
| think | 15 (4.2%) | 2 | 1 |
| else | 15 (4.2%) | 2 | 0 |
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r/selfesteem Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/selfesteem
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Anyone else feel like if they weren’t a girl, they’d be a massive loser?
i feel like everyone is lying to me about my looks
Maladaptive Daydreaming
To everyone in here, I love you
I feel too ugly for everything
how do people cope with being ugly?
Is it normal to feel like a lesser being when I see someone better than me at something?
How can I regain my self-confidence when I’m feeling down?
Feeling the need to constantly change myself
Books on accepting being ugly
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Anyone else feel like if they weren’t a girl, they’d be a massive loser? | 9 | 4 | text | Jul 27 |
| i feel like everyone is lying to me about my looks | 5 | 11 | text | Jul 14 |
| Maladaptive Daydreaming | 5 | 0 | text | Jul 4 |
| To everyone in here, I love you | 5 | 1 | text | Jul 19 |
| I feel too ugly for everything | 4 | 4 | text | Jul 9 |
| how do people cope with being ugly? | 3 | 4 | link | Jul 18 |
| Is it normal to feel like a lesser being when I see someone better than me at something? | 3 | 1 | text | Jul 28 |
| How can I regain my self-confidence when I’m feeling down? | 3 | 0 | text | Jul 30 |
| Feeling the need to constantly change myself | 3 | 1 | text | Jul 11 |
| Books on accepting being ugly | 3 | 9 | text | Jul 15 |
r/selfesteem Audience Overlap r/selfesteem Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/selfesteem FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/selfesteem
What's the best time to post on r/selfesteem?
Based on posting volume, r/selfesteem is most active on Wednesdays around 7 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/selfesteem?
r/selfesteem averages 12 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/selfesteem get?
Posts on r/selfesteem average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/selfesteem get most?
On r/selfesteem, most posts are text posts (71%)