5.5K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 184 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/sex Traffic & Engagement r/sex Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
Post Format
Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/sex Most Active Times When r/sex Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
Most Active by Day
r/sex Flair Performance r/sex Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Beginner | 702 (12.7%) | 6 |
| I can't find a flair that fits | 474 (8.6%) | 12 |
| Intimacy and Connection | 381 (6.9%) | 13 |
| Communication | 282 (5.1%) | 18 |
| Oral sex | 275 (5.0%) | 23 |
| Kinks | 265 (4.8%) | 9 |
| Orgasm Issues | 230 (4.2%) | 9 |
| Masturbation | 184 (3.3%) | 3 |
| Anal sex | 182 (3.3%) | 8 |
| Boundaries and Standards | 174 (3.2%) | 10 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/sex Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/sex
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| sex | 1.1K (19.8%) | 13 | 10 |
| removed | 694 (12.6%) | 3 | 3 |
| moderator | 689 (12.5%) | 3 | 3 |
| partner | 202 (3.7%) | 23 | 14 |
| feel | 189 (3.4%) | 24 | 11 |
| advice | 181 (3.3%) | 8 | 7 |
| first | 173 (3.1%) | 9 | 5 |
| help | 162 (2.9%) | 4 | 5 |
| time | 157 (2.9%) | 7 | 7 |
| need | 153 (2.8%) | 7 | 8 |
r/sex Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/sex
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/sex Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/sex
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Girl I recently started dating keeps peeing on me during sex.
Is it normal to feel weird about cumming inside someone else even when my girlfriend is encouraging it, or am I overthinking this?
How many orgasms have you had in one session?
How do I ask my friend if I could suck him off?
Have i created a monster?
I (33M) was having threesomes with a married couple (38M, 34F). They stopped while trying for a baby, now she’s pregnant and they want me to come over again.
Want to have an orgy with friends
Should I F23 offer to take my best friends M24 virginity?
Pushing down on lower stomach
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| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Girl I recently started dating keeps peeing on me during sex. | 1.3K | 372 | text | Sep 18 |
| Is it normal to feel weird about cumming inside someone else even when my girlfriend is encouraging it, or am I overthinking this? | 1.3K | 205 | text | Sep 11 |
| How many orgasms have you had in one session? | 1.2K | 156 | text | Sep 9 |
| How do I ask my friend if I could suck him off? | 1.2K | 206 | text | Sep 16 |
| Have i created a monster? | 1.2K | 56 | text | Sep 13 |
| I (33M) was having threesomes with a married couple (38M, 34F). They stopped while trying for a baby, now she’s pregnant and they want me to come over again. | 1.2K | 126 | text | Sep 2 |
| Want to have an orgy with friends | 929 | 112 | text | Sep 19 |
| Should I F23 offer to take my best friends M24 virginity? | 886 | 481 | text | Sep 23 |
| Pushing down on lower stomach | 856 | 123 | text | Sep 6 |
| [ Removed by moderator ] | 855 | 184 | text | Sep 11 |
r/sex Audience Overlap r/sex Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
Overlapping audiences Communities with overlapping audiences
r/sex FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/sex
What's the best time to post on r/sex?
Based on posting volume, r/sex is most active on Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/sex?
r/sex averages 184 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/sex get?
Posts on r/sex average about 11 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/sex get most?
On r/sex, most posts are text posts (100%)