2.7K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 90 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Mondays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/ExNoContact Traffic & Engagement r/ExNoContact Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/ExNoContact Most Active Times When r/ExNoContact Is Most Active
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r/ExNoContact Flair Performance r/ExNoContact Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Help | 594 (54.7%) | 3 |
| Vent | 348 (32.1%) | 5 |
| Motivation | 51 (4.7%) | 11 |
| Letters to whom | 45 (4.1%) | 4 |
| Encouragement | 24 (2.2%) | 7 |
| Great news | 19 (1.8%) | 8 |
| Quote | 4 (0.4%) | 14 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/ExNoContact Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/ExNoContact
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| contact | 389 (14.5%) | 5 | 4 |
| back | 183 (6.8%) | 6 | 5 |
| broke | 138 (5.1%) | 3 | 3 |
| still | 133 (5.0%) | 4 | 3 |
| months | 129 (4.8%) | 4 | 4 |
| breakup | 126 (4.7%) | 6 | 5 |
| years | 126 (4.7%) | 3 | 2 |
| break | 107 (4.0%) | 6 | 4 |
| need | 99 (3.7%) | 2 | 2 |
| relationship | 86 (3.2%) | 3 | 2 |
r/ExNoContact Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/ExNoContact
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/ExNoContact Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/ExNoContact
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
I will never ever ever ever take an ex back if they’ve been with someone else
Ever dated someone who vanished after the breakup? No calls, no text. Just clean silence like you were never part of their life?
do not break no contact
not stalking is also part of no contact
Ex reached out to masturbate
My ex blocked me on all socials, got married and now is reaching out. What would you do?
You don’t really want them
They don't always come back
Sometimes you can follow all of the advice and still be obsessed with your ex. Feeling pretty defeated today.
For those who want them to come back...
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I will never ever ever ever take an ex back if they’ve been with someone else | 263 | 58 | text | Jun 2 |
| Ever dated someone who vanished after the breakup? No calls, no text. Just clean silence like you were never part of their life? | 181 | 117 | text | Jun 3 |
| do not break no contact | 155 | 30 | text | Jun 5 |
| not stalking is also part of no contact | 128 | 32 | text | Jun 2 |
| Ex reached out to masturbate | 114 | 44 | text | Jun 29 |
| My ex blocked me on all socials, got married and now is reaching out. What would you do? | 112 | 68 | text | Jun 23 |
| You don’t really want them | 94 | 30 | text | Jun 25 |
| They don't always come back | 91 | 15 | text | Jun 2 |
| Sometimes you can follow all of the advice and still be obsessed with your ex. Feeling pretty defeated today. | 86 | 35 | text | Jun 11 |
| For those who want them to come back... | 82 | 32 | text | Jun 11 |
r/ExNoContact Audience Overlap r/ExNoContact Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/ExNoContact FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/ExNoContact
What's the best time to post on r/ExNoContact?
Based on posting volume, r/ExNoContact is most active on Mondays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/ExNoContact?
r/ExNoContact averages 90 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/ExNoContact get?
Posts on r/ExNoContact average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/ExNoContact get most?
On r/ExNoContact, most posts are text posts (100%)