16.9K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 545 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Sundays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement
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r/dating_advice Most Active Times When r/dating_advice Is Most Active
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r/dating_advice Flair Performance r/dating_advice Flair Performance
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r/dating_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/dating_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 1.8K (10.9%) | 13 | 30 |
| date | 1.3K (7.7%) | 11 | 35 |
| guy | 1.0K (6.0%) | 8 | 31 |
| advice | 963 (5.7%) | 2 | 9 |
| relationship | 921 (5.5%) | 5 | 14 |
| girl | 825 (4.9%) | 15 | 27 |
| someone | 810 (4.8%) | 6 | 18 |
| need | 706 (4.2%) | 3 | 10 |
| women | 616 (3.6%) | 12 | 56 |
| first | 605 (3.6%) | 14 | 29 |
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r/dating_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/dating_advice
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Might be finished with dinner dates...
Adult dating has no magic.
Person I started seeing still won’t let me call her by her first name
Am I crazy or are 80% of people undateable, and nobody wants to admit it?
Girl at gym asked me to check her form....
Went on 3 great dates with this girl. She casually mentioned she's seeing 4 other guys. Am I wrong for being turned off by this
Girl I'm dating gave her sister my number so she could basically interview me
We were never supposed to meet or even see this many potential partners in a lifetime
Girl I’m seeing wants me to lie to her friends about how we met
Why do I find almost every woman I see so beautiful and attractive? Am I ovulating as a man? 😭
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Might be finished with dinner dates... | 2.5K | 1.6K | text | Aug 7 |
| Adult dating has no magic. | 2.2K | 1.1K | text | Aug 18 |
| Person I started seeing still won’t let me call her by her first name | 1.9K | 2.3K | text | Aug 1 |
| Am I crazy or are 80% of people undateable, and nobody wants to admit it? | 1.6K | 361 | text | Aug 3 |
| Girl at gym asked me to check her form.... | 1.5K | 379 | text | Aug 17 |
| Went on 3 great dates with this girl. She casually mentioned she's seeing 4 other guys. Am I wrong for being turned off by this | 1.5K | 1.3K | text | Aug 1 |
| Girl I'm dating gave her sister my number so she could basically interview me | 1.3K | 602 | text | Aug 26 |
| We were never supposed to meet or even see this many potential partners in a lifetime | 1.2K | 420 | text | Aug 18 |
| Girl I’m seeing wants me to lie to her friends about how we met | 1.2K | 877 | text | Aug 3 |
| Why do I find almost every woman I see so beautiful and attractive? Am I ovulating as a man? 😭 | 1.1K | 697 | text | Aug 31 |
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r/dating_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/dating_advice
What's the best time to post on r/dating_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/dating_advice is most active on Sundays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/dating_advice?
r/dating_advice averages 545 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/dating_advice get?
Posts on r/dating_advice average about 8 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/dating_advice get most?
On r/dating_advice, most posts are text posts (100%)