16.6K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 553 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Mondays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement
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r/dating_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/dating_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 1.8K (10.7%) | 12 | 22 |
| date | 1.2K (7.3%) | 16 | 28 |
| advice | 1.1K (6.6%) | 3 | 9 |
| guy | 939 (5.7%) | 7 | 17 |
| girl | 923 (5.6%) | 8 | 16 |
| relationship | 921 (5.5%) | 7 | 10 |
| need | 841 (5.1%) | 2 | 7 |
| someone | 760 (4.6%) | 7 | 14 |
| first | 643 (3.9%) | 12 | 21 |
| know | 603 (3.6%) | 10 | 10 |
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r/dating_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/dating_advice
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my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off
"Dating in your 30s as a man is so much easier" I've found this to be a total lie
She noticed I take first dates to the same place and now I feel kinda exposed
People please clean your house before having dates over
I recommend Speed Dating, and don't understand why it's not popular
If you’re in a relationship, you should be thankful
Gf was drunk and told me her body count…
Am I unreasonable for disliking my date after asked to split the bill?
"Women get a lot of matches, but the quality isn't good"
Has "Modern Dating" become an interview process for a 5-person roster? I feel completely lost
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off | 2.6K | 2.1K | text | Jun 19 |
| "Dating in your 30s as a man is so much easier" I've found this to be a total lie | 2.3K | 2.1K | text | Jun 21 |
| She noticed I take first dates to the same place and now I feel kinda exposed | 2.2K | 703 | text | Jun 25 |
| People please clean your house before having dates over | 2.0K | 389 | text | Jun 25 |
| I recommend Speed Dating, and don't understand why it's not popular | 1.6K | 697 | text | Jun 15 |
| If you’re in a relationship, you should be thankful | 1.6K | 1.0K | text | Jun 23 |
| Gf was drunk and told me her body count… | 1.4K | 1.8K | text | Jun 29 |
| Am I unreasonable for disliking my date after asked to split the bill? | 1.4K | 418 | text | Jun 8 |
| "Women get a lot of matches, but the quality isn't good" | 1.3K | 1.2K | text | Jun 9 |
| Has "Modern Dating" become an interview process for a 5-person roster? I feel completely lost | 1.3K | 1.1K | text | Jun 17 |
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r/dating_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/dating_advice
What's the best time to post on r/dating_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/dating_advice is most active on Mondays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/dating_advice?
r/dating_advice averages 553 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/dating_advice get?
Posts on r/dating_advice average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/dating_advice get most?
On r/dating_advice, most posts are text posts (100%)