15.4K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 514 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement r/dating_advice Traffic & Engagement
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r/dating_advice Most Active Times When r/dating_advice Is Most Active
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r/dating_advice Flair Performance r/dating_advice Flair Performance
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r/dating_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/dating_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 1.8K (11.6%) | 21 | 44 |
| date | 1.3K (8.3%) | 18 | 42 |
| guy | 1.1K (6.9%) | 15 | 35 |
| advice | 818 (5.3%) | 5 | 13 |
| relationship | 797 (5.2%) | 6 | 14 |
| girl | 794 (5.2%) | 23 | 39 |
| someone | 750 (4.9%) | 13 | 22 |
| need | 612 (4.0%) | 3 | 10 |
| first | 572 (3.7%) | 9 | 26 |
| women | 541 (3.5%) | 18 | 67 |
r/dating_advice Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/dating_advice
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r/dating_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/dating_advice
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Girl I’m seeing showed up 40 minutes early to see how I actually live
The woman I'm dating has a "no photos together until we're exclusive" rule. Is that actually normal?
"Why is dating so difficult in 2026?" - A response
I wore makeup to a waterpark and my date ended with him ghosting me
Texting someone for two weeks before meeting in person is the single biggest waste of time in modern dating.
She accidentally showed me the notes she keeps on every guy she dates
Wife admitted she sometimes looks at dating apps but says browsing isnt cheating
Went on a date yesterday and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten this many icks from one person
I can't unsee it and now I don't know what to do
i really f*cking hate this
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Girl I’m seeing showed up 40 minutes early to see how I actually live | 4.2K | 2.3K | text | Sep 7 |
| The woman I'm dating has a "no photos together until we're exclusive" rule. Is that actually normal? | 4.1K | 2.4K | text | Sep 20 |
| "Why is dating so difficult in 2026?" - A response | 3.2K | 1.1K | text | Sep 7 |
| I wore makeup to a waterpark and my date ended with him ghosting me | 2.9K | 772 | text | Sep 4 |
| Texting someone for two weeks before meeting in person is the single biggest waste of time in modern dating. | 2.8K | 841 | text | Sep 4 |
| She accidentally showed me the notes she keeps on every guy she dates | 2.1K | 1.4K | text | Sep 9 |
| Wife admitted she sometimes looks at dating apps but says browsing isnt cheating | 2.0K | 2.6K | text | Sep 28 |
| Went on a date yesterday and I don’t think I’ve ever gotten this many icks from one person | 1.7K | 823 | text | Sep 14 |
| I can't unsee it and now I don't know what to do | 1.6K | 939 | text | Sep 30 |
| i really f*cking hate this | 1.6K | 503 | text | Sep 13 |
r/dating_advice Audience Overlap r/dating_advice Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/dating_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/dating_advice
What's the best time to post on r/dating_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/dating_advice is most active on Tuesdays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/dating_advice?
r/dating_advice averages 514 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/dating_advice get?
Posts on r/dating_advice average about 10 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/dating_advice get most?
On r/dating_advice, most posts are text posts (100%)