1.2K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 39 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Sundays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/datingoverthirty Traffic & Engagement r/datingoverthirty Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/datingoverthirty Most Active Times When r/datingoverthirty Is Most Active
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r/datingoverthirty Flair Performance r/datingoverthirty Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Rule 3 Violation | 15 (71.4%) | 1 |
| Rule 2 Violation | 3 (14.3%) | 1 |
| Rule 2 Violation Rule 3 Violation | 3 (14.3%) | 1 |
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r/datingoverthirty Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingoverthirty
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 216 (17.8%) | 2 | 4 |
| date | 100 (8.3%) | 2 | 4 |
| looking | 85 (7.0%) | 2 | 2 |
| someone | 71 (5.9%) | 3 | 6 |
| relationship | 59 (4.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| women | 58 (4.8%) | 2 | 3 |
| advice | 55 (4.5%) | 2 | 2 |
| feel | 43 (3.5%) | 4 | 9 |
| need | 39 (3.2%) | 2 | 2 |
| guy | 39 (3.2%) | 1 | 1 |
r/datingoverthirty Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingoverthirty
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/datingoverthirty Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingoverthirty
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Anyone else just...get tired?
Is anybody else actually having a good time dating?
What if I want love before sex?
Ladies, what’s your age and the youngest you’ll date?
Navigating finances as a high-earning woman?
How do you deal with impatience and ambiguity?
Can pursuing a longtime friend this way genuinely feel completely casual to someone?
Maybe someone has the same problem as me
I feel gaslit by modern dating; am I completely wrong?
36 M Hinge Profile Review
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Anyone else just...get tired? | 288 | 138 | text | Aug 2 |
| Is anybody else actually having a good time dating? | 164 | 219 | text | Aug 25 |
| What if I want love before sex? | 146 | 138 | text | Aug 26 |
| Ladies, what’s your age and the youngest you’ll date? | 127 | 255 | text | Aug 26 |
| Navigating finances as a high-earning woman? | 113 | 188 | text | Aug 20 |
| How do you deal with impatience and ambiguity? | 84 | 117 | text | Aug 29 |
| Can pursuing a longtime friend this way genuinely feel completely casual to someone? | 72 | 83 | text | Aug 10 |
| Maybe someone has the same problem as me | 66 | 116 | text | Aug 1 |
| I feel gaslit by modern dating; am I completely wrong? | 57 | 244 | text | Aug 24 |
| 36 M Hinge Profile Review | 52 | 79 | text | Aug 22 |
r/datingoverthirty Audience Overlap r/datingoverthirty Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingoverthirty FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingoverthirty
What's the best time to post on r/datingoverthirty?
Based on posting volume, r/datingoverthirty is most active on Sundays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingoverthirty?
r/datingoverthirty averages 39 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingoverthirty get?
Posts on r/datingoverthirty average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingoverthirty get most?
On r/datingoverthirty, most posts are text posts (100%)