1.2K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 41 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/datingoverthirty Traffic & Engagement r/datingoverthirty Traffic & Engagement
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r/datingoverthirty Most Active Times When r/datingoverthirty Is Most Active
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r/datingoverthirty Flair Performance r/datingoverthirty Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Rule 3 Violation | 33 (68.8%) | 1 |
| Rule 2 Violation | 7 (14.6%) | 1 |
| Rule 1 Violation | 5 (10.4%) | 1 |
| Rule 3 Violation Rule 10 Violation | 3 (6.3%) | 1 |
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r/datingoverthirty Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingoverthirty
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 232 (18.8%) | 6 | 8 |
| date | 101 (8.2%) | 5 | 8 |
| looking | 70 (5.7%) | 5 | 4 |
| someone | 63 (5.1%) | 4 | 8 |
| relationship | 59 (4.8%) | 2 | 4 |
| guy | 58 (4.7%) | 9 | 11 |
| advice | 54 (4.4%) | 4 | 2 |
| single | 52 (4.2%) | 3 | 2 |
| first | 50 (4.0%) | 3 | 10 |
| men | 46 (3.7%) | 2 | 3 |
r/datingoverthirty Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingoverthirty
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/datingoverthirty Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingoverthirty
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Lack of attraction when looking at app photos.
Regarding recent issues - A state of the sub update
Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you
being into interesting people as a boring person
The Other Bennet Sister is healing (for me at least)
I asked the girl I was dating how she felt about progressing physically and I think I ruined it.....
Dating a great guy, but concerned about his daily drinking
Advice for dealing with loneliness but keeping an open heart?
Would you continue dating a man who admitted he cheated in the past?
How do you move on when your brain won't let go?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Lack of attraction when looking at app photos. | 243 | 119 | text | Jun 5 |
| Regarding recent issues - A state of the sub update | 236 | 78 | text | Jun 3 |
| Dating a guy whose much more social/extroverted then you | 205 | 145 | text | Jun 19 |
| being into interesting people as a boring person | 187 | 131 | text | Jun 17 |
| The Other Bennet Sister is healing (for me at least) | 168 | 22 | text | Jun 3 |
| I asked the girl I was dating how she felt about progressing physically and I think I ruined it..... | 148 | 130 | text | Jun 25 |
| Dating a great guy, but concerned about his daily drinking | 132 | 209 | text | Jun 22 |
| Advice for dealing with loneliness but keeping an open heart? | 130 | 34 | text | Jun 1 |
| Would you continue dating a man who admitted he cheated in the past? | 128 | 159 | text | Jun 21 |
| How do you move on when your brain won't let go? | 122 | 100 | text | Jun 7 |
r/datingoverthirty Audience Overlap r/datingoverthirty Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingoverthirty FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingoverthirty
What's the best time to post on r/datingoverthirty?
Based on posting volume, r/datingoverthirty is most active on Tuesdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingoverthirty?
r/datingoverthirty averages 41 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingoverthirty get?
Posts on r/datingoverthirty average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingoverthirty get most?
On r/datingoverthirty, most posts are text posts (100%)