22.8K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 761 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/relationship_advice Traffic & Engagement r/relationship_advice Traffic & Engagement
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r/relationship_advice Most Active Times When r/relationship_advice Is Most Active
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r/relationship_advice Flair Performance r/relationship_advice Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Posting Too Frequently | 145 (100.0%) | 1 |
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r/relationship_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/relationship_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| boyfriend | 3.9K (17.3%) | 11 | 14 |
| relationship | 3.2K (13.9%) | 8 | 9 |
| girlfriend | 2.2K (9.8%) | 14 | 17 |
| years | 1.9K (8.1%) | 15 | 14 |
| partner | 1.8K (7.8%) | 8 | 12 |
| friend | 1.7K (7.4%) | 10 | 9 |
| know | 1.6K (7.1%) | 12 | 13 |
| feel | 1.4K (6.2%) | 8 | 9 |
| 22f | 1.3K (5.8%) | 9 | 10 |
| advice | 1.3K (5.8%) | 5 | 8 |
r/relationship_advice Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/relationship_advice
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/relationship_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/relationship_advice
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I F31 got pregnant with my BFF’s M34 child. How TF do I tell him?
Bf's [M 42] grumpiness ruined our date... AGAIN. I [F 33] have reached the point where I can't accept this anymore.
I (32M) caught my SIL (25F) and FIL (65M) behind a year-long “joke.” My wife (30F) wants me to forgive them
I (41F) can’t get over what boyfriend (M45) said in front of everyone
Update: I (43F) have been quietly planning to leave my husband (45M). Now I found remote access software on my laptop and I am scared.
My fiancée (25F) and I (24M) disagree on moving states to take 300K job offer - how should we approach this decision?
I 38M got wrongfully accused of cheating by wife 39F in front of my kids. How to proceed? (Update)
I’m (25F) conventionally attractive. The guy I’m seeing (34M) is not, and he makes it weird.
My husband's (36M) daughter (20F) made a fake report to CPS about me and he has shown zero concern for me or our children since. I (34F) feel like I wasted my life with this man?
Update: Cryptic pregnancy, found out at almost 7 months. My BF (25M) is accusing me of lying and I (22F) don’t know what to do. Do I even try to salvage this?
r/relationship_advice Audience Overlap r/relationship_advice Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/relationship_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/relationship_advice
What's the best time to post on r/relationship_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/relationship_advice is most active on Tuesdays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/relationship_advice?
r/relationship_advice averages 761 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/relationship_advice get?
Posts on r/relationship_advice average about 11 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/relationship_advice get most?
On r/relationship_advice, most posts are text posts (100%)