755 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 25 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 5 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (97%).
r/boyfriends Traffic & Engagement r/boyfriends Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/boyfriends Most Active Times When r/boyfriends Is Most Active
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r/boyfriends Flair Performance r/boyfriends Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| General Question | 193 (25.9%) | 1 |
| Lying / Cheating | 134 (18.0%) | 1 |
| Breakup | 78 (10.5%) | 1 |
| Relationship Struggle | 75 (10.1%) | 1 |
| Intimacy/Sex | 60 (8.1%) | 1 |
| Relationship Advice | 54 (7.2%) | 1 |
| Long Distance | 35 (4.7%) | 1 |
| Love Him A Lot | 34 (4.6%) | 1 |
| Money Matter | 23 (3.1%) | 1 |
| Odd Behavior | 18 (2.4%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/boyfriends Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/boyfriends
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| boyfriend | 351 (46.5%) | 1 | 3 |
| relationship | 153 (20.3%) | 1 | 2 |
| years | 80 (10.6%) | 1 | 2 |
| months | 80 (10.6%) | 1 | 2 |
| advice | 59 (7.8%) | 1 | 3 |
| 19f | 59 (7.8%) | 1 | 2 |
| year | 52 (6.9%) | 2 | 3 |
| 20m | 49 (6.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| need | 48 (6.4%) | 1 | 4 |
| together | 48 (6.4%) | 1 | 2 |
r/boyfriends Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/boyfriends
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/boyfriends Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/boyfriends
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
My bf dries his socks like this. Is anyone else’s boyfriend doing similar weird stuff?
How does your boyfriend celebrate your birthday?
This was the second time I woke up to my boyfriend fingering me in my sleep.
my bf [25m] wanted to cook this for me [30f] for dinner tonight … and yes he was dead ass serious 💀 in a relationship 1 year
17F and 17M in a relationship for 1 year and 11 months today 🥹
NEED HELP ASAP!
(25M) and (24F)
19 . [19F] [19M]HELP!!! Immediately for my sake
Boyf hanging out with Ex
My boyfriend[17M] watches porn and compares me[16F] to other women . Relationship 7months
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| My bf dries his socks like this. Is anyone else’s boyfriend doing similar weird stuff? | 34 | 34 | image | Jun 29 |
| How does your boyfriend celebrate your birthday? | 17 | 28 | image | Jun 6 |
| This was the second time I woke up to my boyfriend fingering me in my sleep. | 11 | 12 | text | Jun 30 |
| my bf [25m] wanted to cook this for me [30f] for dinner tonight … and yes he was dead ass serious 💀 in a relationship 1 year | 10 | 30 | image | Jun 18 |
| 17F and 17M in a relationship for 1 year and 11 months today 🥹 | 10 | 1 | image | Jun 25 |
| NEED HELP ASAP! | 8 | 79 | image | Jun 8 |
| (25M) and (24F) | 5 | 3 | image | Jun 24 |
| 19 . [19F] [19M]HELP!!! Immediately for my sake | 5 | 31 | image | Jun 21 |
| Boyf hanging out with Ex | 5 | 5 | image | Jun 19 |
| My boyfriend[17M] watches porn and compares me[16F] to other women . Relationship 7months | 5 | 18 | text | Jun 20 |
r/boyfriends Audience Overlap r/boyfriends Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/boyfriends FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/boyfriends
What's the best time to post on r/boyfriends?
Based on posting volume, r/boyfriends is most active on Mondays around 5 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/boyfriends?
r/boyfriends averages 25 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/boyfriends get?
Posts on r/boyfriends average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/boyfriends get most?
On r/boyfriends, most posts are text posts (97%)