727 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 24 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Sundays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (96%).
r/boyfriends Traffic & Engagement r/boyfriends Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/boyfriends Most Active Times When r/boyfriends Is Most Active
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r/boyfriends Flair Performance r/boyfriends Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| General Question | 166 (23.0%) | 1 |
| Lying / Cheating | 145 (20.1%) | 1 |
| Breakup | 80 (11.1%) | 1 |
| Relationship Struggle | 60 (8.3%) | 1 |
| Relationship Advice | 45 (6.2%) | 1 |
| Odd Behavior | 41 (5.7%) | 2 |
| Long Distance | 34 (4.7%) | 1 |
| Intimacy/Sex | 32 (4.4%) | 1 |
| Money Matter | 25 (3.5%) | 1 |
| A Rant | 20 (2.8%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/boyfriends Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/boyfriends
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| boyfriend | 307 (42.2%) | 2 | 4 |
| relationship | 141 (19.4%) | 1 | 3 |
| months | 70 (9.6%) | 1 | 5 |
| years | 56 (7.7%) | 1 | 5 |
| advice | 51 (7.0%) | 1 | 3 |
| feel | 50 (6.9%) | 1 | 3 |
| year | 40 (5.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| 20f | 40 (5.5%) | 2 | 3 |
| 19f | 38 (5.2%) | 1 | 4 |
| know | 37 (5.1%) | 2 | 4 |
r/boyfriends Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/boyfriends
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/boyfriends Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/boyfriends
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My boyfriend (25M) says he doesn't know if he sees a long-term future with me (26F). I'm not sure how to move forward
My (20F) boyfriend (22M) is hanging out alone with a girl that likes him
Looked through my bf’s phone, need the most devious revenge
Update: If any of you remember my post from a few days ago about my boyfriend writing horrible things about me to Grok, this is an update. I deleted the original because I got overwhelmed by the responses. [18F] and [22M]
Is my boyfriend 23 a loser or am I 19f over exaggerating?
Dropping gf (22F) off at the mechanic to pick up car on your (27M) day off - princess treatment?
27f, 29m. 3 years together, guys look at how my boyfriend described me , anyone else man do this 😂
I found a girl's pics in the hidden of my bf's gallery
Boyfriend lied about body count
Does anyone else’s boyfriend just let you untie his shoelaces?
r/boyfriends Audience Overlap r/boyfriends Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/boyfriends FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/boyfriends
What's the best time to post on r/boyfriends?
Based on posting volume, r/boyfriends is most active on Sundays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/boyfriends?
r/boyfriends averages 24 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/boyfriends get?
Posts on r/boyfriends average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/boyfriends get most?
On r/boyfriends, most posts are text posts (96%)