7.4K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 247 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (97%).
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r/relationships_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/relationships_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| boyfriend | 1.1K (14.8%) | 3 | 8 |
| relationship | 921 (12.4%) | 1 | 5 |
| girlfriend | 482 (6.5%) | 2 | 8 |
| advice | 478 (6.5%) | 1 | 4 |
| need | 442 (6.0%) | 1 | 4 |
| know | 412 (5.6%) | 1 | 5 |
| feel | 368 (5.0%) | 2 | 5 |
| partner | 368 (5.0%) | 2 | 8 |
| friend | 360 (4.9%) | 2 | 6 |
| years | 291 (3.9%) | 2 | 5 |
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r/relationships_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/relationships_advice
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Update: My boyfriend micromanages everything I do
My girlfriend just bought me flowers
If ur partner says this to some one else is it considered cheating?
Me [23M] and my girlfriend [22F] are having a conflict over her birthday expectations
Ex-wife living in car. Girl friend angry. Me sad.
Am I overreacting?
My boyfriend says he cannot accept my vegetarianism, and I’m not sure how to approach this
My girlfriend found out i’m not a virgin and now she’s pissed
I (M32) slapped my girlfriend (F26)… how could I do something like this?
Boyfriend (31) had anal and Vaginal sex with me Female (26) while I was asleep.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Update: My boyfriend micromanages everything I do | 1.1K | 190 | image | Sep 11 |
| My girlfriend just bought me flowers | 253 | 62 | image | Sep 28 |
| If ur partner says this to some one else is it considered cheating? | 152 | 327 | image | Sep 30 |
| Me [23M] and my girlfriend [22F] are having a conflict over her birthday expectations | 132 | 402 | text | Sep 19 |
| Ex-wife living in car. Girl friend angry. Me sad. | 121 | 120 | text | Sep 1 |
| Am I overreacting? | 115 | 94 | image | Sep 9 |
| My boyfriend says he cannot accept my vegetarianism, and I’m not sure how to approach this | 74 | 589 | text | Sep 4 |
| My girlfriend found out i’m not a virgin and now she’s pissed | 71 | 102 | text | Sep 4 |
| I (M32) slapped my girlfriend (F26)… how could I do something like this? | 64 | 184 | text | Sep 20 |
| Boyfriend (31) had anal and Vaginal sex with me Female (26) while I was asleep. | 62 | 70 | text | Sep 29 |
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r/relationships_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/relationships_advice
What's the best time to post on r/relationships_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/relationships_advice is most active on Tuesdays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/relationships_advice?
r/relationships_advice averages 247 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/relationships_advice get?
Posts on r/relationships_advice average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/relationships_advice get most?
On r/relationships_advice, most posts are text posts (97%)