5.6K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 180 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (96%).
r/relationships_advice Traffic & Engagement r/relationships_advice Traffic & Engagement
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r/relationships_advice Flair Performance r/relationships_advice Flair Performance
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r/relationships_advice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/relationships_advice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| boyfriend | 846 (15.2%) | 2 | 8 |
| relationship | 668 (12.0%) | 1 | 5 |
| advice | 399 (7.2%) | 1 | 4 |
| girlfriend | 388 (7.0%) | 7 | 13 |
| need | 334 (6.0%) | 1 | 3 |
| know | 314 (5.6%) | 2 | 5 |
| feel | 269 (4.8%) | 2 | 6 |
| partner | 269 (4.8%) | 3 | 9 |
| love | 224 (4.0%) | 1 | 4 |
| years | 224 (4.0%) | 3 | 6 |
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r/relationships_advice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/relationships_advice
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Girlfriend refuses to live in my paid-off house and wants me to sell it so we can buy with a mortgage. Am I being unreasonable?
Is my bf gay ?
I made this for the woman I’ve been seeing since about February. We have been going pretty slow, and that’s fine. What do you think of this gift I made her for her birthday? 37M - 40F is it too much?
UPDATE: We talked – she will pay 45%, I pay 55%, and she wants to buy 10% of my house
boyfriend just sent me this out of NOWHERE. i’m heartbroken
My boyfriend of 2 years got chlamyida
I’m (32M) feeling betrayed after partner of 1.5 years (30M) disclosed he is positive and knew the whole time. Am I overreacting?
My bf thinks I'm cheating because I shaved my butthole
bf (21) broke a sentimental plate and is now hinting a breakup bc of my (18) autism?
My 24F boyfriend 24M wants to throw away any pantry food we won’t eat within a week—is this reasonable?
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r/relationships_advice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/relationships_advice
What's the best time to post on r/relationships_advice?
Based on posting volume, r/relationships_advice is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/relationships_advice?
r/relationships_advice averages 180 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/relationships_advice get?
Posts on r/relationships_advice average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/relationships_advice get most?
On r/relationships_advice, most posts are text posts (96%)