1.8K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 59 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AskMenRelationships Traffic & Engagement r/AskMenRelationships Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/AskMenRelationships Most Active Times When r/AskMenRelationships Is Most Active
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r/AskMenRelationships Flair Performance r/AskMenRelationships Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Dating | 1.0K (55.1%) | 2 |
| Love | 480 (26.3%) | 2 |
| Breakup | 106 (5.8%) | 1 |
| Friendship | 67 (3.7%) | 2 |
| Infidelity | 36 (2.0%) | 2 |
| Platonic | 33 (1.8%) | 2 |
| Work | 29 (1.6%) | 1 |
| Family | 28 (1.5%) | 2 |
| Addiction | 13 (0.7%) | 1 |
| Update | 12 (0.7%) | 2 |
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r/AskMenRelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AskMenRelationships
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| men | 297 (16.3%) | 3 | 26 |
| relationship | 133 (7.3%) | 2 | 13 |
| guy | 117 (6.4%) | 2 | 16 |
| women | 92 (5.0%) | 3 | 36 |
| man | 84 (4.6%) | 2 | 22 |
| need | 81 (4.4%) | 1 | 9 |
| advice | 80 (4.4%) | 1 | 7 |
| woman | 79 (4.3%) | 3 | 27 |
| feel | 78 (4.3%) | 4 | 17 |
| sex | 78 (4.3%) | 4 | 26 |
r/AskMenRelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AskMenRelationships
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/AskMenRelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AskMenRelationships
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Expecting the guy to pay for every single date in 2026 is getting completely unreasonable
My (26F) boyfriend (28M) has been secretly paying his ex’s rent for 8 months while we aggressively save for a house. I feel like an absolute idiot.
would you be okay with your partner waking you up in the middle of the night for sex?
Men, what makes you go from "I like her" to "I want a relationship with her"?
Do you really care about what a vagina looks like?
How good does it feel to cum in a vagina?
Men who knowingly entertain women while in a committed relationship, why?
If a woman says she “Needs a Real Man” do you take that as a red flag?
Are men really that simple?
Men who slept around, how was it, and, how did it feel when you eventually found the "one"?
r/AskMenRelationships Audience Overlap r/AskMenRelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AskMenRelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AskMenRelationships
What's the best time to post on r/AskMenRelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/AskMenRelationships is most active on Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AskMenRelationships?
r/AskMenRelationships averages 59 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AskMenRelationships get?
Posts on r/AskMenRelationships average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AskMenRelationships get most?
On r/AskMenRelationships, most posts are text posts (100%)