2.7K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 91 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AskMenRelationships Traffic & Engagement r/AskMenRelationships Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/AskMenRelationships Most Active Times When r/AskMenRelationships Is Most Active
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r/AskMenRelationships Flair Performance r/AskMenRelationships Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Dating | 1.5K (55.7%) | 3 |
| Love | 619 (22.7%) | 3 |
| Breakup | 154 (5.7%) | 2 |
| Friendship | 103 (3.8%) | 1 |
| Platonic | 89 (3.3%) | 1 |
| Infidelity | 55 (2.0%) | 1 |
| Family | 55 (2.0%) | 2 |
| Work | 46 (1.7%) | 1 |
| Update | 30 (1.1%) | 1 |
| Adversarial | 20 (0.7%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/AskMenRelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AskMenRelationships
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| men | 417 (15.3%) | 4 | 33 |
| guy | 188 (6.9%) | 3 | 16 |
| relationship | 180 (6.6%) | 2 | 14 |
| boyfriend | 148 (5.4%) | 2 | 17 |
| woman | 144 (5.3%) | 7 | 43 |
| man | 128 (4.7%) | 2 | 21 |
| want | 127 (4.7%) | 5 | 25 |
| women | 126 (4.6%) | 5 | 38 |
| feel | 113 (4.2%) | 2 | 17 |
| sex | 107 (3.9%) | 4 | 25 |
r/AskMenRelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AskMenRelationships
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/AskMenRelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AskMenRelationships
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Why do a lot of men say they want to be with a natural woman but then on social media all of the women they follow are very obviously enhanced?
I asked a guy if he was single at the grocery store after thinking he was interested. How do you get better at interpreting interest?
What’s the hottest thing a woman has ever done for/to you emotionally.
Why do men pull back when the woman starts to like them back?
Men, what makes you lose the fear of losing your girlfriend?
Men of Reddit, what does sex actually feel like for you?
Men, do you genuinely not notice when a woman is giving you signs that she wants you to make a move?
For those of you who got a chance with your dream girl, and fumbled, what happened?
Too wet a thing?
Men who don’t want kids?
r/AskMenRelationships Audience Overlap r/AskMenRelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AskMenRelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AskMenRelationships
What's the best time to post on r/AskMenRelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/AskMenRelationships is most active on Tuesdays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AskMenRelationships?
r/AskMenRelationships averages 91 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AskMenRelationships get?
Posts on r/AskMenRelationships average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AskMenRelationships get most?
On r/AskMenRelationships, most posts are text posts (100%)