172 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 6 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Fridays around 8 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (72%).
r/WhatMenDontSay Traffic & Engagement r/WhatMenDontSay Traffic & Engagement
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r/WhatMenDontSay Most Active Times When r/WhatMenDontSay Is Most Active
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r/WhatMenDontSay Flair Performance r/WhatMenDontSay Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Discussion | 59 (36.0%) | 4 |
| Advice | 47 (28.7%) | 2 |
| Venting | 22 (13.4%) | 9 |
| Men’s Input Only | 10 (6.1%) | 1 |
| Off My Chest | 8 (4.9%) | 7 |
| Mental Health Struggles | 5 (3.0%) | 6 |
| Tough Conversations | 5 (3.0%) | 10 |
| Desperate To Chat | 5 (3.0%) | 2 |
| Relationship Advice | 3 (1.8%) | 1 |
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r/WhatMenDontSay Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/WhatMenDontSay
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| men | 27 (15.7%) | 2 | 11 |
| women | 19 (11.1%) | 8 | 15 |
| man | 12 (7.0%) | 9 | 17 |
| guys | 12 (7.0%) | 2 | 12 |
| life | 11 (6.4%) | 5 | 7 |
| feel | 10 (5.8%) | 2 | 4 |
| sex | 10 (5.8%) | 3 | 16 |
r/WhatMenDontSay Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/WhatMenDontSay
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| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtu.be | 3 | 0 |
r/WhatMenDontSay Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/WhatMenDontSay
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Women are also responsible for the reinforcing of toxic beauty standards.
I hate being a man in modern society
Why I stopped being a nice guy
I got an IUD without telling my husband
I think I'm starting to hate women.
Society should tackle the problem of incels from a perspective of empathy rather than derision.
When Accountability Has a Gender
It’s exhausting being a man sometimes
Im scared to show vunerabilltiy around woman is there a fix for this
What are we doing about blatant man haters hidden among us?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Women are also responsible for the reinforcing of toxic beauty standards. | 47 | 58 | text | Sep 2 |
| I hate being a man in modern society | 45 | 39 | text | Sep 8 |
| Why I stopped being a nice guy | 45 | 34 | text | Sep 17 |
| I got an IUD without telling my husband | 43 | 45 | image | Sep 13 |
| I think I'm starting to hate women. | 37 | 39 | text | Sep 8 |
| Society should tackle the problem of incels from a perspective of empathy rather than derision. | 32 | 15 | text | Sep 24 |
| When Accountability Has a Gender | 30 | 5 | text | Sep 7 |
| It’s exhausting being a man sometimes | 26 | 35 | text | Sep 18 |
| Im scared to show vunerabilltiy around woman is there a fix for this | 26 | 37 | image | Sep 17 |
| What are we doing about blatant man haters hidden among us? | 25 | 33 | text | Sep 13 |
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r/WhatMenDontSay FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/WhatMenDontSay
What's the best time to post on r/WhatMenDontSay?
Based on posting volume, r/WhatMenDontSay is most active on Fridays around 8 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/WhatMenDontSay?
r/WhatMenDontSay averages 6 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/WhatMenDontSay get?
Posts on r/WhatMenDontSay average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/WhatMenDontSay get most?
On r/WhatMenDontSay, most posts are text posts (72%)