1.9K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 62 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Sundays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (65%).
r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/datingadviceformen Most Active Times When r/datingadviceformen Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Specific situation | 915 (47.9%) | 2 |
| General question | 574 (30.0%) | 2 |
| Discussion | 298 (15.6%) | 3 |
| Advice to others | 93 (4.9%) | 4 |
| Post of the day | 25 (1.3%) | 1 |
| Field Report | 7 (0.4%) | 1 |
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r/datingadviceformen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingadviceformen
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| girl | 289 (15.1%) | 2 | 10 |
| advice | 147 (7.7%) | 1 | 5 |
| dating | 146 (7.6%) | 4 | 14 |
| need | 119 (6.2%) | 1 | 4 |
| date | 106 (5.5%) | 2 | 13 |
| women | 106 (5.5%) | 4 | 19 |
| know | 99 (5.2%) | 1 | 5 |
| relationship | 83 (4.3%) | 1 | 5 |
| help | 81 (4.2%) | 1 | 5 |
| first | 80 (4.2%) | 2 | 10 |
r/datingadviceformen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingadviceformen
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 6 | 1 |
r/datingadviceformen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingadviceformen
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
the biggest thing that changed my dating life was asking women out way sooner than felt comfortable
How to approach a girl in real life (as a girl who has been approached)
Empathy for men in dating
Went on Grindr and my world got turned upside down.
Never be this desperate, boys. This is so embarasssing
Forgive her or just move on
Kinda believe this is true..
Why am I so bad at talking to girls?
Dating apps are selling most men on a lie
I Think Texting Has Made Dating Way More Complicated Than It Needs to Be
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| the biggest thing that changed my dating life was asking women out way sooner than felt comfortable | 181 | 83 | text | Aug 7 |
| How to approach a girl in real life (as a girl who has been approached) | 133 | 158 | text | Aug 16 |
| Empathy for men in dating | 74 | 96 | text | Aug 28 |
| Went on Grindr and my world got turned upside down. | 63 | 63 | text | Aug 8 |
| Never be this desperate, boys. This is so embarasssing | 56 | 288 | image | Aug 14 |
| Forgive her or just move on | 52 | 205 | image | Aug 25 |
| Kinda believe this is true.. | 50 | 47 | image | Aug 30 |
| Why am I so bad at talking to girls? | 49 | 28 | image | Aug 21 |
| Dating apps are selling most men on a lie | 43 | 146 | text | Aug 20 |
| I Think Texting Has Made Dating Way More Complicated Than It Needs to Be | 41 | 19 | text | Aug 20 |
r/datingadviceformen Audience Overlap r/datingadviceformen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingadviceformen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingadviceformen
What's the best time to post on r/datingadviceformen?
Based on posting volume, r/datingadviceformen is most active on Sundays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingadviceformen?
r/datingadviceformen averages 62 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingadviceformen get?
Posts on r/datingadviceformen average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingadviceformen get most?
On r/datingadviceformen, most posts are text posts (65%)