1.5K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 50 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (58%).
r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/datingadviceformen Most Active Times When r/datingadviceformen Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Specific situation | 746 (49.9%) | 1 |
| General question | 408 (27.3%) | 2 |
| Discussion | 220 (14.7%) | 2 |
| Advice to others | 88 (5.9%) | 1 |
| Post of the day | 25 (1.7%) | 1 |
| Field Report | 9 (0.6%) | 1 |
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r/datingadviceformen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingadviceformen
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| girl | 265 (17.7%) | 1 | 7 |
| dating | 153 (10.2%) | 2 | 9 |
| advice | 113 (7.5%) | 1 | 3 |
| need | 111 (7.4%) | 1 | 3 |
| date | 91 (6.1%) | 1 | 8 |
| help | 83 (5.5%) | 1 | 3 |
| women | 81 (5.4%) | 2 | 11 |
| relationship | 65 (4.3%) | 2 | 4 |
| first | 64 (4.3%) | 2 | 6 |
| know | 60 (4.0%) | 1 | 4 |
r/datingadviceformen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingadviceformen
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 4 | 1 |
r/datingadviceformen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingadviceformen
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'?
My roommate knew I was pursuing a girl, then took her out himself. Am I wrong for being bothered by both of them?
I’m so tired of people saying women care more about personality than looks
Dating is not a meritocracy
NYC/LA/Chicago dating apps - Have “serious relationship” tags on Hinge/Bumble become meaningless?
I'm tired of being rejected by literally every woman I've asked out since I was a kid.
I'm done with dating. Giving up
31/M beaten up 6’4” guy - feeling super down and discouraged about the complete lack of female companionship in my life and starting to think it’s my face.
Between The League and Hinge, which one actually leads to real dates in NYC?
i went on 47 first dates in 18 months and figured out the one thing that killed almost every single one of them. it wasn't what i said. it was what i was trying to prove
r/datingadviceformen Audience Overlap r/datingadviceformen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingadviceformen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingadviceformen
What's the best time to post on r/datingadviceformen?
Based on posting volume, r/datingadviceformen is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingadviceformen?
r/datingadviceformen averages 50 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingadviceformen get?
Posts on r/datingadviceformen average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingadviceformen get most?
On r/datingadviceformen, most posts are text posts (58%)