1.6K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 52 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 9 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (63%).
r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/datingadviceformen Most Active Times When r/datingadviceformen Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Specific situation | 798 (49.6%) | 1 |
| General question | 447 (27.8%) | 2 |
| Discussion | 246 (15.3%) | 2 |
| Advice to others | 80 (5.0%) | 3 |
| Post of the day | 25 (1.6%) | 1 |
| Field Report | 14 (0.9%) | 1 |
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r/datingadviceformen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingadviceformen
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| girl | 237 (14.7%) | 2 | 7 |
| dating | 138 (8.6%) | 3 | 12 |
| advice | 131 (8.1%) | 2 | 6 |
| women | 99 (6.2%) | 2 | 23 |
| need | 93 (5.8%) | 2 | 5 |
| date | 87 (5.4%) | 2 | 9 |
| know | 79 (4.9%) | 1 | 9 |
| girls | 70 (4.3%) | 3 | 20 |
| help | 68 (4.2%) | 1 | 5 |
| relationship | 61 (3.8%) | 1 | 4 |
r/datingadviceformen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingadviceformen
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 5 | 1 |
r/datingadviceformen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingadviceformen
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
How Guys Are getting Approached by girls
The Case Against Relying on Online Dating Apps for Men
Dating apps are truly awful for the average to below average looking man
This happened a few months ago how did I do for my first DM?
I feel like these single mom’s are taking advantage of my kindness and money
Dating has been difficult for a wild.
How do you actually keep a conversation going with a girl without sounding boring?
I'm a woman, so here's my advice.
Did I already fumble be honest
If apps are the dominant way of meeting, and they are largely visual, isn't improving your looks the highest ROI activity a man can do to improve his dating odds?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| How Guys Are getting Approached by girls | 84 | 253 | image | Jul 21 |
| The Case Against Relying on Online Dating Apps for Men | 62 | 137 | text | Jul 24 |
| Dating apps are truly awful for the average to below average looking man | 58 | 201 | text | Jul 8 |
| This happened a few months ago how did I do for my first DM? | 57 | 72 | image | Jul 30 |
| I feel like these single mom’s are taking advantage of my kindness and money | 52 | 136 | text | Jul 14 |
| Dating has been difficult for a wild. | 46 | 31 | image | Jul 10 |
| How do you actually keep a conversation going with a girl without sounding boring? | 31 | 57 | text | Jul 25 |
| I'm a woman, so here's my advice. | 30 | 63 | text | Jul 26 |
| Did I already fumble be honest | 28 | 50 | image | Jul 6 |
| If apps are the dominant way of meeting, and they are largely visual, isn't improving your looks the highest ROI activity a man can do to improve his dating odds? | 25 | 106 | text | Jul 2 |
r/datingadviceformen Audience Overlap r/datingadviceformen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingadviceformen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingadviceformen
What's the best time to post on r/datingadviceformen?
Based on posting volume, r/datingadviceformen is most active on Wednesdays around 9 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingadviceformen?
r/datingadviceformen averages 52 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingadviceformen get?
Posts on r/datingadviceformen average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingadviceformen get most?
On r/datingadviceformen, most posts are text posts (63%)