2.4K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 80 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (58%).
r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement r/datingadviceformen Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/datingadviceformen Most Active Times When r/datingadviceformen Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance r/datingadviceformen Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Specific situation | 1.1K (47.7%) | 1 |
| General question | 753 (31.5%) | 2 |
| Discussion | 358 (15.0%) | 2 |
| Advice to others | 102 (4.3%) | 6 |
| Post of the day | 25 (1.0%) | 1 |
| Field Report | 14 (0.6%) | 7 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/datingadviceformen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingadviceformen
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| girl | 337 (14.1%) | 1 | 7 |
| dating | 226 (9.4%) | 2 | 13 |
| advice | 192 (8.0%) | 1 | 6 |
| date | 148 (6.2%) | 2 | 12 |
| need | 142 (5.9%) | 1 | 5 |
| women | 125 (5.2%) | 2 | 21 |
| know | 113 (4.7%) | 1 | 9 |
| help | 101 (4.2%) | 1 | 7 |
| someone | 98 (4.1%) | 1 | 5 |
| relationship | 98 (4.1%) | 2 | 7 |
r/datingadviceformen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingadviceformen
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtu.be | 5 | 1 |
| youtube.com | 3 | 1 |
r/datingadviceformen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingadviceformen
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Fellas: It’s not hard when she likes you. It’s not confusing when she likes you. It’s not a choreographed dance when she likes you.
She’s looking at 400, you’re looking at 20.
How I got banned
Why Gen Z and Millennial Men Aren’t Making the First Move Anymore
Gen Z dating trouble
Always shoot your shot
I Think I Care More About Clarity Than Rejection
Is this the best most men can hope for?
Your life will improve if you get off the apps
Where can you even meet women when all your hobbies are male dominated or are too old.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Fellas: It’s not hard when she likes you. It’s not confusing when she likes you. It’s not a choreographed dance when she likes you. | 305 | 102 | text | Sep 21 |
| She’s looking at 400, you’re looking at 20. | 89 | 271 | text | Sep 29 |
| How I got banned | 66 | 38 | text | Sep 18 |
| Why Gen Z and Millennial Men Aren’t Making the First Move Anymore | 63 | 41 | link | Sep 6 |
| Gen Z dating trouble | 56 | 281 | text | Sep 28 |
| Always shoot your shot | 45 | 3 | text | Sep 22 |
| I Think I Care More About Clarity Than Rejection | 42 | 10 | text | Sep 3 |
| Is this the best most men can hope for? | 39 | 109 | image | Sep 19 |
| Your life will improve if you get off the apps | 36 | 66 | text | Sep 10 |
| Where can you even meet women when all your hobbies are male dominated or are too old. | 36 | 114 | text | Sep 16 |
r/datingadviceformen Audience Overlap r/datingadviceformen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingadviceformen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingadviceformen
What's the best time to post on r/datingadviceformen?
Based on posting volume, r/datingadviceformen is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingadviceformen?
r/datingadviceformen averages 80 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingadviceformen get?
Posts on r/datingadviceformen average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingadviceformen get most?
On r/datingadviceformen, most posts are text posts (58%)