1.6K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 52 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 7 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/datingadvice Traffic & Engagement r/datingadvice Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/datingadvice Most Active Times When r/datingadvice Is Most Active
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r/datingadvice Flair Performance r/datingadvice Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| I need advice | 777 (90.3%) | 1 |
| Advice | 83 (9.7%) | 2 |
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r/datingadvice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/datingadvice
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| date | 167 (10.7%) | 2 | 5 |
| dating | 148 (9.5%) | 1 | 4 |
| guy | 141 (9.1%) | 1 | 4 |
| advice | 106 (6.8%) | 1 | 3 |
| girl | 100 (6.4%) | 2 | 4 |
| first | 80 (5.1%) | 2 | 4 |
| need | 78 (5.0%) | 1 | 3 |
| someone | 70 (4.5%) | 2 | 3 |
| know | 65 (4.2%) | 1 | 3 |
| relationship | 57 (3.7%) | 1 | 3 |
r/datingadvice Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/datingadvice
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/datingadvice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/datingadvice
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I believe size does matter
How do you get an ex to leave you alone when blocking isn’t enough?
Is it weird to not give someone your real number until after a few dates?
Being judged for my job
Have you ever been dating someone you find physically unattractive?
'choked' me on our first date. red flag?
Google your dates BEFORE you go out with them
Am I being too sensitive?
Are stretch marks big deal for men?
I've been a professional matchmaker for ten years. Ask me anything!
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I believe size does matter | 26 | 35 | text | Sep 15 |
| How do you get an ex to leave you alone when blocking isn’t enough? | 23 | 9 | text | Sep 30 |
| Is it weird to not give someone your real number until after a few dates? | 21 | 9 | text | Sep 22 |
| Being judged for my job | 18 | 22 | text | Sep 10 |
| Have you ever been dating someone you find physically unattractive? | 13 | 17 | text | Sep 15 |
| 'choked' me on our first date. red flag? | 12 | 47 | text | Sep 27 |
| Google your dates BEFORE you go out with them | 12 | 10 | text | Sep 4 |
| Am I being too sensitive? | 11 | 17 | text | Sep 23 |
| Are stretch marks big deal for men? | 11 | 14 | text | Sep 12 |
| I've been a professional matchmaker for ten years. Ask me anything! | 10 | 23 | text | Sep 12 |
r/datingadvice Audience Overlap r/datingadvice Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/datingadvice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/datingadvice
What's the best time to post on r/datingadvice?
Based on posting volume, r/datingadvice is most active on Wednesdays around 7 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/datingadvice?
r/datingadvice averages 52 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/datingadvice get?
Posts on r/datingadvice average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/datingadvice get most?
On r/datingadvice, most posts are text posts (100%)