522 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 17 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (99%).
r/retroactivejealousy Traffic & Engagement r/retroactivejealousy Traffic & Engagement
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r/retroactivejealousy Most Active Times When r/retroactivejealousy Is Most Active
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r/retroactivejealousy Flair Performance r/retroactivejealousy Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| In need of advice | 245 (47.0%) | 3 |
| Help with obsessive thinking | 180 (34.5%) | 3 |
| Rant | 32 (6.1%) | 6 |
| Discussion | 29 (5.6%) | 6 |
| Giving Advice | 13 (2.5%) | 7 |
| Recovery and progress | 11 (2.1%) | 9 |
| Trigger warning | 5 (1.0%) | 2 |
| Not related to a “sexual” past | 3 (0.6%) | 1 |
| Misc | 3 (0.6%) | 7 |
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r/retroactivejealousy Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/retroactivejealousy
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| past | 110 (21.1%) | 3 | 5 |
| jealousy | 59 (11.3%) | 3 | 4 |
| retroactive | 44 (8.4%) | 3 | 4 |
| girlfriend | 44 (8.4%) | 2 | 1 |
| relationship | 31 (5.9%) | 4 | 4 |
| stop | 31 (5.9%) | 4 | 3 |
| help | 28 (5.4%) | 4 | 5 |
| feel | 28 (5.4%) | 7 | 8 |
| struggling | 25 (4.8%) | 4 | 6 |
| need | 23 (4.4%) | 3 | 1 |
r/retroactivejealousy Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/retroactivejealousy
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r/retroactivejealousy Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/retroactivejealousy
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You guys told me that my real problem is that I think her previous partners (who were jerks) got to sleep with her for "free", while I am kind and respectful towards her and this makes me feel like I'm less of a man. But isn't it kind of true?
I can’t help but feel disgust towards her when I remember her body count.
My RJ was killing me. And I fixed it.
Devastated wife can’t change her past
found something i did not want to see
Realizing i "waited" for sex because i showed too early on interest in her as a potential GF, whereas she had immediately sex with other guys because they only saw her as sex, helps me with my RJ
If you suffer from RJ, what is your bodycount?
I can’t stop picturing my bf having sex with his ex
I ended the relationship
Everything gets tied to sexual past
r/retroactivejealousy Audience Overlap r/retroactivejealousy Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/retroactivejealousy FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/retroactivejealousy
What's the best time to post on r/retroactivejealousy?
Based on posting volume, r/retroactivejealousy is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/retroactivejealousy?
r/retroactivejealousy averages 17 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/retroactivejealousy get?
Posts on r/retroactivejealousy average about 3 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/retroactivejealousy get most?
On r/retroactivejealousy, most posts are text posts (99%)