332 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 11 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts.
r/DatingHell Traffic & Engagement r/DatingHell Traffic & Engagement
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r/DatingHell Most Active Times When r/DatingHell Is Most Active
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r/DatingHell Flair Performance r/DatingHell Flair Performance
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r/DatingHell Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DatingHell
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| date | 51 (15.4%) | 21 | 19 |
| dating | 41 (12.3%) | 3 | 6 |
| guy | 34 (10.2%) | 11 | 13 |
| first | 32 (9.6%) | 12 | 13 |
| relationship | 21 (6.3%) | 1 | 4 |
| ever | 18 (5.4%) | 10 | 11 |
| someone | 18 (5.4%) | 3 | 8 |
| ghosted | 14 (4.2%) | 1 | 3 |
| red | 13 (3.9%) | 9 | 7 |
| men | 13 (3.9%) | 1 | 2 |
r/DatingHell Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DatingHell
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Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DatingHell Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DatingHell
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"coffee shop dates never lead to a second date"
Had a bizarre first date with a successful property guy and I still don’t understand what happened…
The guy seemed completely normal online… then I met him in person
“Foreplay Starts at the Dinner Table” What Do You Think?
I went on a date with a guy who told me he used to be popular in HS and College cus he was “the quarterback”…
A nasty little surprise in my sink...
One of the worst first date I have ever been
I had a date yesterday and now I feel so disgusting and I hate myself
Told her we're done on the second date
First date reveals he’s a walking red flag parade and laughs about what a deadbeat he is
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| "coffee shop dates never lead to a second date" | 264 | 66 | text | Sep 11 |
| Had a bizarre first date with a successful property guy and I still don’t understand what happened… | 135 | 190 | text | Sep 7 |
| The guy seemed completely normal online… then I met him in person | 103 | 53 | text | Sep 16 |
| “Foreplay Starts at the Dinner Table” What Do You Think? | 88 | 28 | text | Sep 29 |
| I went on a date with a guy who told me he used to be popular in HS and College cus he was “the quarterback”… | 75 | 40 | text | Sep 15 |
| A nasty little surprise in my sink... | 64 | 41 | text | Sep 28 |
| One of the worst first date I have ever been | 62 | 76 | text | Sep 26 |
| I had a date yesterday and now I feel so disgusting and I hate myself | 62 | 30 | text | Sep 2 |
| Told her we're done on the second date | 61 | 31 | text | Sep 14 |
| First date reveals he’s a walking red flag parade and laughs about what a deadbeat he is | 60 | 10 | text | Sep 15 |
r/DatingHell Audience Overlap r/DatingHell Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DatingHell FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DatingHell
What's the best time to post on r/DatingHell?
Based on posting volume, r/DatingHell is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DatingHell?
r/DatingHell averages 11 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DatingHell get?
Posts on r/DatingHell average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DatingHell get most?
On r/DatingHell, posts are a mix of formats, mostly text posts