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Averages 77 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).

Posts / Day Average posts per day this month. Arrow is change vs the prior calendar month.
77 20%
Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post this month (upvotes minus downvotes). Arrow is change vs the prior month.
5 31%
Avg Comments Mean number of comments per post this month. Arrow is change vs the prior month when that month’s data is available.
11 10%
Activity Rank #1,280 by posts/day among 90,883 tracked SFW subreddits as of Sep 2026 (Top 5%). Arrow is spots gained or lost vs the prior month.
#1,280 360
Top 5%
Posts w/ Links The percentage of posts that link off-site. This counts true link posts plus text posts with a URL in the body. Image and video posts are not counted.
1%
Low-Reply Rate Share of posts with 0 or 1 comment. A single comment is often an automated mod reply rather than real community discussion.
15%

r/AITA_Relationships Traffic & Engagement

Volume and engagement over time

Posts/DayAvg Upvotes05010015002.557.510Sep 1Sep 8Sep 15Sep 22Sep 29
Posts/Day Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post in this bucket.

Post Format

Top Post Type Text
Typical Title Length Medium (67 chars)
Peak Day Saturday

Upvote Distribution

How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.

2–9
72%
10–99
24%
100–999
4%
1K+
0%
Posts that get upvoted Share of posts that received at least one upvote (2+ net upvotes). Most posts at 1 upvote are excluded. 32%
Median upvoted post Median upvotes among posts that received upvotes. Differs from Avg Upvotes in the snapshot, which includes every post. 3
Top post Highest upvote count on a single post this month. 300

r/AITA_Relationships Most Active Times

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#1 Top 3 activity windows

Most Active by Day

Sun 1 PM
Mon 10 PM
Tue 1 PM
Wed 5 PM
Thu 11 AM
Fri 11 AM
Sat 12 PM

r/AITA_Relationships Flair Performance

Upvotes and volume by flair

Flair Posts Upvotes
NTA898 (57.5%)11
YTA299 (19.1%)2
NAH95 (6.1%)3
ESH84 (5.4%)5
TL;DR79 (5.1%)1
No Judgment Left71 (4.5%)1
INFO33 (2.1%)2
YWBTA3 (0.2%)1

Post Type Breakdown

Share by text, image, or link

100%text posts

r/AITA_Relationships Trending Keywords

Ranked by how often they appear

KeywordMentions ▼UpvotesComments
aita
1.8K (77.2%)
611
boyfriend
347 (15.1%)
613
aitah
323 (14.0%)
59
friend
273 (11.8%)
36
wanting
239 (10.4%)
510
telling
182 (7.9%)
1215
girlfriend
172 (7.5%)
719
husband
144 (6.3%)
1718
relationship
139 (6.0%)
410
friends
116 (5.0%)
27

r/AITA_Relationships Mentioned Domains

Most linked sites

This community doesn't link off-site.

Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.

r/AITA_Relationships Top Posts

Highest-performing posts

r/AITA_Relationships Audience Overlap

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r/AITA_Relationships FAQ

What's the best time to post on r/AITA_Relationships?

Based on posting volume, r/AITA_Relationships is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.

How active is r/AITA_Relationships?

r/AITA_Relationships averages 77 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.

How many upvotes do posts on r/AITA_Relationships get?

Posts on r/AITA_Relationships average about 5 upvotes this month (net score per post).

What kind of posts does r/AITA_Relationships get most?

On r/AITA_Relationships, most posts are text posts (100%)