460 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 15 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Saturdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
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| Meta | 20 (100.0%) | 12 |
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r/AskGayMen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AskGayMen
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
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| gay | 45 (9.8%) | 11 | 15 |
| sex | 33 (7.2%) | 20 | 18 |
| anyone | 30 (6.5%) | 16 | 11 |
| guy | 25 (5.4%) | 15 | 18 |
| men | 23 (5.0%) | 6 | 13 |
| first | 21 (4.6%) | 12 | 13 |
| guys | 18 (3.9%) | 4 | 9 |
| time | 17 (3.7%) | 12 | 8 |
| feel | 16 (3.5%) | 12 | 15 |
| bottom | 15 (3.3%) | 17 | 30 |
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Is mutual masturbation underrated?
Anyone else Precums really excessively?
Am I gay or am I just overthinking this?
I ate out a guy and got shiga toxin inducing E. coli AND norovirus. Has anyone else had this happen?
Gay life hacks you wish you knew earlier?
[M33] I found years—possibly terabytes—of meticulously organized porn on my partner's computer. Should I be concerned?
Tops, what are some things that bottoms do during sex that you dislike/hate?
How do they manage to have sex whenever they want, at any time or day, without worrying about having a dirty ass?
My boyfriend lost his libido and I don’t think it’s ever coming back. What do I do?
Boyfriend doesn't like recip?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Is mutual masturbation underrated? | 178 | 44 | text | Aug 9 |
| Anyone else Precums really excessively? | 125 | 93 | text | Aug 15 |
| Am I gay or am I just overthinking this? | 124 | 69 | text | Aug 22 |
| I ate out a guy and got shiga toxin inducing E. coli AND norovirus. Has anyone else had this happen? | 123 | 51 | text | Aug 19 |
| Gay life hacks you wish you knew earlier? | 116 | 74 | text | Aug 12 |
| [M33] I found years—possibly terabytes—of meticulously organized porn on my partner's computer. Should I be concerned? | 105 | 60 | text | Aug 24 |
| Tops, what are some things that bottoms do during sex that you dislike/hate? | 98 | 79 | text | Aug 14 |
| How do they manage to have sex whenever they want, at any time or day, without worrying about having a dirty ass? | 92 | 40 | text | Aug 9 |
| My boyfriend lost his libido and I don’t think it’s ever coming back. What do I do? | 88 | 39 | text | Aug 20 |
| Boyfriend doesn't like recip? | 82 | 28 | text | Aug 17 |
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r/AskGayMen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AskGayMen
What's the best time to post on r/AskGayMen?
Based on posting volume, r/AskGayMen is most active on Saturdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AskGayMen?
r/AskGayMen averages 15 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AskGayMen get?
Posts on r/AskGayMen average about 12 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AskGayMen get most?
On r/AskGayMen, most posts are text posts (100%)
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