512 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 17 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 6 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AskGayMen Traffic & Engagement r/AskGayMen Traffic & Engagement
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r/AskGayMen Flair Performance r/AskGayMen Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
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| Meta | 15 (100.0%) | 6 |
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r/AskGayMen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AskGayMen
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| gay | 61 (11.9%) | 11 | 14 |
| men | 43 (8.4%) | 9 | 14 |
| guys | 38 (7.4%) | 15 | 20 |
| anyone | 34 (6.6%) | 5 | 8 |
| guy | 32 (6.3%) | 18 | 18 |
| first | 28 (5.5%) | 10 | 16 |
| feel | 25 (4.9%) | 9 | 11 |
| sex | 23 (4.5%) | 8 | 10 |
| someone | 22 (4.3%) | 11 | 16 |
| know | 19 (3.7%) | 6 | 10 |
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r/AskGayMen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AskGayMen
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I really like this guy, he is trans. I'm gay and scared I won't be attracted to non-typical male anatomy, any advice?
Would you consider it deceptive to list yourself as HIV-negative when you’re actually HIV-positive and undetectable?
What's the gayest non-sexual thing you've ever done with another man?
Cumming too fast when bottoming. How do I stop?
What do y'all think about my 20-year-old son telling me just started seeing a 56-year-old man?
Why is some semen watery while other is thick like slime? And why does the volume vary so much?
Why can't guys understand that Not everyone is into Sex?
It's probably a compliment but why are condoms so bad?
Is it bad that I want a guy to sleep with his cock inside of my ass nightly?
Blowjobbers: Do you prefer to do it eyes open or shut?
r/AskGayMen Audience Overlap r/AskGayMen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AskGayMen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AskGayMen
What's the best time to post on r/AskGayMen?
Based on posting volume, r/AskGayMen is most active on Tuesdays around 6 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AskGayMen?
r/AskGayMen averages 17 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AskGayMen get?
Posts on r/AskGayMen average about 9 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AskGayMen get most?
On r/AskGayMen, most posts are text posts (100%)
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