1.1K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 35 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (98%).
r/GayMen Traffic & Engagement r/GayMen Traffic & Engagement
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r/GayMen Most Active Times When r/GayMen Is Most Active
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r/GayMen Flair Performance r/GayMen Flair Performance
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r/GayMen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/GayMen
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| gay | 169 (15.9%) | 14 | 13 |
| men | 75 (7.1%) | 9 | 12 |
| guys | 54 (5.1%) | 12 | 14 |
| guy | 51 (4.8%) | 9 | 13 |
| looking | 46 (4.3%) | 1 | 4 |
| anyone | 40 (3.8%) | 2 | 4 |
| advice | 39 (3.7%) | 6 | 7 |
| need | 38 (3.6%) | 5 | 6 |
| i'm | 35 (3.3%) | 11 | 11 |
| feel | 34 (3.2%) | 8 | 8 |
r/GayMen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/GayMen
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| outsports.com | 4 | 131 |
r/GayMen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/GayMen
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My twin brother came out
Gay Texas exchange student was asked by a classmate to be his football homecoming date. He said yes.
Guys, wash your hands after you use the bathroom. I beg of you.
Gay pro rugby player braced for hate after sharing wedding photo. Instead, he felt the love.
My boyfriend thinks we’re saving for a vacation. I’m actually saving for his ring.
I thought my first erection was an allergic reaction.
Non sexual reasons. What do you like about being a gay guy?
Takahashi Rui, a well-known Japanese volleyball player, comes out as gay.
I did stuff for the first time, ever.
Ok, what is with this influx of "I'm attracted to 🍆 but not actual men" posts that I keep seeing?
r/GayMen Audience Overlap r/GayMen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/GayMen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/GayMen
What's the best time to post on r/GayMen?
Based on posting volume, r/GayMen is most active on Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/GayMen?
r/GayMen averages 35 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/GayMen get?
Posts on r/GayMen average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/GayMen get most?
On r/GayMen, most posts are text posts (98%)