876 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 29 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Thursdays around 8 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (98%).
r/GayMen Traffic & Engagement r/GayMen Traffic & Engagement
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r/GayMen Most Active Times When r/GayMen Is Most Active
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r/GayMen Flair Performance r/GayMen Flair Performance
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r/GayMen Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/GayMen
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| gay | 156 (17.8%) | 8 | 13 |
| men | 46 (5.3%) | 4 | 12 |
| advice | 44 (5.0%) | 4 | 6 |
| looking | 39 (4.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| guys | 31 (3.5%) | 5 | 9 |
| guy | 29 (3.3%) | 4 | 9 |
| need | 28 (3.2%) | 3 | 7 |
| first | 27 (3.1%) | 16 | 9 |
| anyone | 27 (3.1%) | 3 | 6 |
| time | 24 (2.7%) | 17 | 10 |
r/GayMen Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/GayMen
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r/GayMen Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/GayMen
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Friendly reminder, you should be replacing your towels once a week
Former NRL star Kane Evans, who played at two Rugby League World Cups, has come out as gay, having struggled with being gay for 20 years.
Went to a gay bar for the first time
Slept with a man for the first time
Woke up with my “straight?”friend snugging up to me (gay). And we have to share the bed again tonight. What to do if I like him?
Saw my ex at pride yesterday and I can’t stop crying
Update - so we slept again in the same bed again
I was physically assaulted during a hookup
I finally said the words
Happy pride month
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Friendly reminder, you should be replacing your towels once a week | 180 | 39 | text | Jun 17 |
| Former NRL star Kane Evans, who played at two Rugby League World Cups, has come out as gay, having struggled with being gay for 20 years. | 143 | 3 | link | Jun 8 |
| Went to a gay bar for the first time | 91 | 26 | text | Jun 27 |
| Slept with a man for the first time | 91 | 19 | text | Jun 21 |
| Woke up with my “straight?”friend snugging up to me (gay). And we have to share the bed again tonight. What to do if I like him? | 87 | 38 | text | Jun 11 |
| Saw my ex at pride yesterday and I can’t stop crying | 84 | 27 | text | Jun 29 |
| Update - so we slept again in the same bed again | 84 | 11 | text | Jun 14 |
| I was physically assaulted during a hookup | 79 | 22 | text | Jun 14 |
| I finally said the words | 75 | 21 | text | Jun 2 |
| Happy pride month | 66 | 14 | text | Jun 3 |
r/GayMen Audience Overlap r/GayMen Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/GayMen FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/GayMen
What's the best time to post on r/GayMen?
Based on posting volume, r/GayMen is most active on Thursdays around 8 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/GayMen?
r/GayMen averages 29 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/GayMen get?
Posts on r/GayMen average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/GayMen get most?
On r/GayMen, most posts are text posts (98%)