464 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 16 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (99%).
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r/gayrelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/gayrelationships
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| removed | 135 (29.1%) | 1 | 1 |
| moderator | 135 (29.1%) | 1 | 1 |
| relationship | 49 (10.6%) | 3 | 5 |
| boyfriend | 36 (7.8%) | 3 | 9 |
| partner | 29 (6.3%) | 3 | 4 |
| advice | 23 (5.0%) | 2 | 3 |
| m27 | 20 (4.3%) | 2 | 2 |
| dating | 18 (3.9%) | 2 | 4 |
| years | 17 (3.7%) | 3 | 4 |
| guy | 17 (3.7%) | 2 | 5 |
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r/gayrelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/gayrelationships
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My (34M) partner (34M) of 4 years is ending things over a dead bedroom right as our lease ends. Looking for perspective.
M38 | Does sex inevitably decline in long-term monogamous relationships?
[M33] I lose sexual attraction when I'm in a serious relationship
M40 struggling with opening relationship
I'm [M33] married to [M38] And I'm going insane or Is he sexually bored of me? I need Advice.
[M18] How to be clean…?
I'm [29M], he's [33M] - 2-year closeted bi situationship.
[M22] here, my boyfriend is of [M36]. Is it too much of an age gap?
Relationship with no sex, how to handle it? [35M] [29M]
M25 gays
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| My (34M) partner (34M) of 4 years is ending things over a dead bedroom right as our lease ends. Looking for perspective. | 33 | 42 | text | Sep 6 |
| M38 | Does sex inevitably decline in long-term monogamous relationships? | 28 | 19 | text | Sep 3 |
| [M33] I lose sexual attraction when I'm in a serious relationship | 25 | 33 | text | Sep 1 |
| M40 struggling with opening relationship | 22 | 26 | text | Sep 14 |
| I'm [M33] married to [M38] And I'm going insane or Is he sexually bored of me? I need Advice. | 20 | 10 | text | Sep 23 |
| [M18] How to be clean…? | 18 | 6 | text | Aug 31 |
| I'm [29M], he's [33M] - 2-year closeted bi situationship. | 16 | 15 | text | Sep 21 |
| [M22] here, my boyfriend is of [M36]. Is it too much of an age gap? | 16 | 26 | text | Sep 29 |
| Relationship with no sex, how to handle it? [35M] [29M] | 15 | 44 | text | Sep 5 |
| M25 gays | 14 | 11 | text | Sep 27 |
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r/gayrelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/gayrelationships
What's the best time to post on r/gayrelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/gayrelationships is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/gayrelationships?
r/gayrelationships averages 16 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/gayrelationships get?
Posts on r/gayrelationships average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/gayrelationships get most?
On r/gayrelationships, most posts are text posts (99%)