480 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 16 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Fridays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/gayrelationships Traffic & Engagement r/gayrelationships Traffic & Engagement
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r/gayrelationships Most Active Times When r/gayrelationships Is Most Active
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r/gayrelationships Flair Performance r/gayrelationships Flair Performance
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r/gayrelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/gayrelationships
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| moderator | 166 (34.6%) | 1 | 1 |
| removed | 166 (34.6%) | 1 | 1 |
| relationship | 71 (14.8%) | 2 | 2 |
| boyfriend | 36 (7.5%) | 4 | 5 |
| gay | 28 (5.8%) | 2 | 2 |
| advice | 27 (5.6%) | 1 | 3 |
| years | 24 (5.0%) | 4 | 4 |
| feel | 22 (4.6%) | 6 | 5 |
| m24 | 21 (4.4%) | 2 | 3 |
| guy | 20 (4.2%) | 2 | 2 |
r/gayrelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/gayrelationships
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r/gayrelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/gayrelationships
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My boyfriend (M36) loves me (M23), but I never feel sexually desired by him. Am I asking for too much?
M37 -Partner cheated after 12++ years together and I just feel numb, confused, and lost
My (30M) BF (31M) is seeing another guy 30M each week for “language exchange” and I feel uncomfortable with their relationship.
30M feeling like a parent to my 27M partner after 9 years together. Do I leave?
Am I being too controlling/high-maintenance, or am I asking for the bare minimum from my boyfriend? 37m
[M50] Together 20+ years, married 10+. [M45] stagnant, one wants more.
[26M] Emotionally exhausted in my relationship, considering breaking up
My partner [45M] doesn’t recognize me [53M] as family after 21 years
38M — What were the red flags you didn’t realize were red flags until after the breakup?
[M39] For guys who wanted one person and an ordinary life together, where did you actually find him?
r/gayrelationships Audience Overlap r/gayrelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/gayrelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/gayrelationships
What's the best time to post on r/gayrelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/gayrelationships is most active on Fridays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/gayrelationships?
r/gayrelationships averages 16 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/gayrelationships get?
Posts on r/gayrelationships average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/gayrelationships get most?
On r/gayrelationships, most posts are text posts (100%)