982 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 33 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Mondays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
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r/BDSMAdvice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/BDSMAdvice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| advice | 127 (12.9%) | 4 | 8 |
| dom | 98 (10.0%) | 7 | 13 |
| sub | 78 (7.9%) | 5 | 11 |
| bdsm | 69 (7.0%) | 4 | 9 |
| kink | 65 (6.6%) | 8 | 13 |
| help | 50 (5.1%) | 6 | 9 |
| need | 42 (4.3%) | 5 | 8 |
| play | 42 (4.3%) | 8 | 10 |
| dynamic | 40 (4.1%) | 4 | 10 |
| looking | 37 (3.8%) | 2 | 5 |
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r/BDSMAdvice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/BDSMAdvice
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Predators Among Us - No. 34 [Mod Message]
Do you guys prep each time before anal?
My partner didn’t use safe word and said I assualted them after we broke up.
Returning to the scene after a break and feeling discouraged by the rise of toxic/financial "Doms"
My first time subbing left me crying and unable to feel my hands. What happened?
My wife wants to be collared by her Dom – advice on making a kink relationship and vanilla relationship work
Need to tell my partner about a kink I'm ashamed of. Please help me plan for their response?
Daddy calls wanting more time entitled and it hurts a little bit :(
Physically safe clit torture ingredients?
Eternity collar and daily life
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Predators Among Us - No. 34 [Mod Message] | 250 | 44 | text | Jun 8 |
| Do you guys prep each time before anal? | 154 | 55 | text | Jun 15 |
| My partner didn’t use safe word and said I assualted them after we broke up. | 99 | 66 | text | Jun 26 |
| Returning to the scene after a break and feeling discouraged by the rise of toxic/financial "Doms" | 96 | 40 | text | Jun 13 |
| My first time subbing left me crying and unable to feel my hands. What happened? | 92 | 28 | text | Jun 11 |
| My wife wants to be collared by her Dom – advice on making a kink relationship and vanilla relationship work | 78 | 51 | text | Jun 28 |
| Need to tell my partner about a kink I'm ashamed of. Please help me plan for their response? | 76 | 37 | text | Jun 22 |
| Daddy calls wanting more time entitled and it hurts a little bit :( | 73 | 77 | text | Jun 2 |
| Physically safe clit torture ingredients? | 66 | 33 | text | Jun 12 |
| Eternity collar and daily life | 65 | 42 | text | Jun 20 |
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r/BDSMAdvice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/BDSMAdvice
What's the best time to post on r/BDSMAdvice?
Based on posting volume, r/BDSMAdvice is most active on Mondays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/BDSMAdvice?
r/BDSMAdvice averages 33 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/BDSMAdvice get?
Posts on r/BDSMAdvice average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/BDSMAdvice get most?
On r/BDSMAdvice, most posts are text posts (100%)