961 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 31 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/BDSMAdvice Traffic & Engagement r/BDSMAdvice Traffic & Engagement
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r/BDSMAdvice Most Active Times When r/BDSMAdvice Is Most Active
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r/BDSMAdvice Flair Performance r/BDSMAdvice Flair Performance
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r/BDSMAdvice Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/BDSMAdvice
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dom | 96 (10.0%) | 11 | 17 |
| advice | 88 (9.2%) | 6 | 11 |
| bdsm | 72 (7.5%) | 4 | 10 |
| kink | 65 (6.8%) | 11 | 15 |
| sub | 63 (6.6%) | 3 | 11 |
| play | 55 (5.7%) | 11 | 13 |
| looking | 43 (4.5%) | 2 | 5 |
| help | 41 (4.3%) | 4 | 9 |
| dynamic | 41 (4.3%) | 7 | 12 |
| need | 37 (3.9%) | 10 | 12 |
r/BDSMAdvice Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/BDSMAdvice
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r/BDSMAdvice Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/BDSMAdvice
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I think he used something to numb me
My gf is into cnc but refuses a safeword, told her I wont play
I dread having sex with my boyfriend and I feel super guilty about it.
My boyfriend claims I misuse the safe word
How to say you’re kinky on Hinge without saying it?
Gf accidentally activated a kink in me, need advice
My Dom tasked me with shaving, and now I feel like I betrayed myself
Dom got angry during a disagreement and sent me home mid-scene/night. Would this affect your trust?
Dom violated limit mid-scene, but I didn't safeword. How to navigate post-scene?
Is kink play possible without the expectation of penetration or any kind of genital intercourse?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I think he used something to numb me | 380 | 102 | text | Aug 27 |
| My gf is into cnc but refuses a safeword, told her I wont play | 255 | 122 | text | Aug 9 |
| I dread having sex with my boyfriend and I feel super guilty about it. | 198 | 59 | text | Aug 6 |
| My boyfriend claims I misuse the safe word | 190 | 136 | text | Aug 19 |
| How to say you’re kinky on Hinge without saying it? | 141 | 130 | text | Aug 30 |
| Gf accidentally activated a kink in me, need advice | 132 | 54 | text | Aug 12 |
| My Dom tasked me with shaving, and now I feel like I betrayed myself | 119 | 113 | text | Aug 22 |
| Dom got angry during a disagreement and sent me home mid-scene/night. Would this affect your trust? | 118 | 93 | text | Aug 29 |
| Dom violated limit mid-scene, but I didn't safeword. How to navigate post-scene? | 98 | 42 | text | Aug 5 |
| Is kink play possible without the expectation of penetration or any kind of genital intercourse? | 94 | 64 | text | Aug 3 |
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r/BDSMAdvice FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/BDSMAdvice
What's the best time to post on r/BDSMAdvice?
Based on posting volume, r/BDSMAdvice is most active on Mondays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/BDSMAdvice?
r/BDSMAdvice averages 31 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/BDSMAdvice get?
Posts on r/BDSMAdvice average about 8 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/BDSMAdvice get most?
On r/BDSMAdvice, most posts are text posts (100%)