1.1K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 36 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/BDSMcommunity Traffic & Engagement r/BDSMcommunity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/BDSMcommunity Most Active Times When r/BDSMcommunity Is Most Active
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r/BDSMcommunity Flair Performance r/BDSMcommunity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking advice | 313 (48.8%) | 10 |
| Discussion | 234 (36.4%) | 14 |
| Other | 45 (7.0%) | 8 |
| TW: CNC r*pe play | 22 (3.4%) | 4 |
| TW: extreme, advanced play | 17 (2.6%) | 20 |
| TW: blood, knives, needles | 6 (0.9%) | 1 |
| TW: consent violations | 5 (0.8%) | 2 |
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r/BDSMcommunity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/BDSMcommunity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| bdsm | 101 (9.3%) | 11 | 9 |
| dom | 89 (8.2%) | 11 | 10 |
| kink | 85 (7.9%) | 13 | 10 |
| sub | 82 (7.6%) | 9 | 10 |
| looking | 80 (7.4%) | 3 | 2 |
| advice | 45 (4.2%) | 7 | 8 |
| need | 44 (4.1%) | 2 | 4 |
| play | 43 (4.0%) | 6 | 7 |
| submissive | 40 (3.7%) | 10 | 12 |
| want | 40 (3.7%) | 3 | 7 |
r/BDSMcommunity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/BDSMcommunity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/BDSMcommunity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/BDSMcommunity
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I tried CNC (consensual non consent) for the first time and wanted to say the safe word but didn’t/couldn’t!
It sucks to be kinky and have demi-sexual tendencies and to be monogamous.
What is a small thing that made you acknowledge that you are REALLY into BDSM?
Is there a name for a male Dom who is very masculine and sexually dominant, but deeply devoted to his woman outside the bedroom?
Brats, what’s the worst punishment you’ve ever received?
My sub has anorgasmia - advice please
I tried rope bondage for the first time and I cried during aftercare
Kink without connection is driving me crazy
Does anyone else find objectification weirdly affirming?
Share your silly/goofy BDSM experiences
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I tried CNC (consensual non consent) for the first time and wanted to say the safe word but didn’t/couldn’t! | 269 | 122 | text | Sep 4 |
| It sucks to be kinky and have demi-sexual tendencies and to be monogamous. | 252 | 73 | text | Sep 3 |
| What is a small thing that made you acknowledge that you are REALLY into BDSM? | 250 | 89 | text | Sep 18 |
| Is there a name for a male Dom who is very masculine and sexually dominant, but deeply devoted to his woman outside the bedroom? | 223 | 101 | text | Sep 13 |
| Brats, what’s the worst punishment you’ve ever received? | 205 | 99 | text | Sep 5 |
| My sub has anorgasmia - advice please | 187 | 118 | text | Sep 6 |
| I tried rope bondage for the first time and I cried during aftercare | 170 | 21 | text | Sep 7 |
| Kink without connection is driving me crazy | 169 | 26 | text | Sep 12 |
| Does anyone else find objectification weirdly affirming? | 165 | 19 | text | Sep 27 |
| Share your silly/goofy BDSM experiences | 161 | 50 | text | Sep 14 |
r/BDSMcommunity Audience Overlap r/BDSMcommunity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/BDSMcommunity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/BDSMcommunity
What's the best time to post on r/BDSMcommunity?
Based on posting volume, r/BDSMcommunity is most active on Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/BDSMcommunity?
r/BDSMcommunity averages 36 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/BDSMcommunity get?
Posts on r/BDSMcommunity average about 9 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/BDSMcommunity get most?
On r/BDSMcommunity, most posts are text posts (100%)
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r/BDSMcommunity
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