8.7K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 282 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Saturdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly link posts (75%).
r/BDSMpersonals Traffic & Engagement r/BDSMpersonals Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/BDSMpersonals Most Active Times When r/BDSMpersonals Is Most Active
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r/BDSMpersonals Flair Performance r/BDSMpersonals Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F | 5.5K (63.2%) | 1 |
| F4M | 1.2K (14.2%) | 2 |
| M4A | 628 (7.2%) | 1 |
| F4A | 337 (3.9%) | 2 |
| F4F | 251 (2.9%) | 1 |
| M4M | 156 (1.8%) | 1 |
| T4A | 145 (1.7%) | 1 |
| Other - (Edit to include your tags) | 129 (1.5%) | 1 |
| NB4A | 96 (1.1%) | 1 |
| T4M | 73 (0.8%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/BDSMpersonals Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/BDSMpersonals
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 5.1K (58.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| looking | 4.6K (52.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| online | 3.5K (40.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| dom | 2.1K (24.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| usa | 2.0K (23.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| sub | 1.8K (21.1%) | 1 | 1 |
| seeking | 1.2K (13.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| f4m | 1.1K (12.6%) | 2 | 1 |
| submissive | 1.0K (11.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| daddy | 614 (7.0%) | 2 | 1 |
r/BDSMpersonals Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/BDSMpersonals
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| weheartbdsm.com | 6.5K | 1 |
| redgifs.com | 12 | 1 |
| fetlife.com | 3 | 1 |
r/BDSMpersonals Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/BDSMpersonals
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
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19 [F4M] #online — Sub looking for long term relationship
30 [F4M] #online nerdy alt babygirl seeking intelligent and compassionate Daddy
24 [F4M] #nashvillearea #tn #usa — 24 (please be willing to visit decently often) - cute sarcastic and goofy sub/little looking for her daddy dom
23 [F4M] #online #europe #madrid - Looking for a serious, real dom
19 [F4A] #ONLINE - Let's play!
19 [F4M] #Europe— I'm looking for someone to talk to often
22 [F4M] #online — Looking for an older dom to control the inexperienced me
40 [F4M] #Netherlands — Looking for a Dominant or Switch for an Ongoing In Person Dynamic 30+ only
24 [F4M] #Europe | Looking for a serious D/s dynamic with a capable, exacting man
r/BDSMpersonals Audience Overlap r/BDSMpersonals Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/BDSMpersonals FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/BDSMpersonals
What's the best time to post on r/BDSMpersonals?
Based on posting volume, r/BDSMpersonals is most active on Saturdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/BDSMpersonals?
r/BDSMpersonals averages 282 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/BDSMpersonals get?
Posts on r/BDSMpersonals average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/BDSMpersonals get most?
On r/BDSMpersonals, most posts are link posts (75%)
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r/BDSMpersonals
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