1.1K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 34 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Fridays around 9 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (93%).
r/bdsmr4r Traffic & Engagement r/bdsmr4r Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/bdsmr4r Most Active Times When r/bdsmr4r Is Most Active
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r/bdsmr4r Flair Performance r/bdsmr4r Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F Online | 100 (22.7%) | 1 |
| M4F United Kingdom | 43 (9.8%) | 1 |
| M4F California | 26 (5.9%) | 1 |
| F4M Online | 20 (4.5%) | 3 |
| M4F Germany | 17 (3.9%) | 1 |
| M4F New York | 17 (3.9%) | 1 |
| M4F Netherlands | 13 (3.0%) | 1 |
| M4F California / Online | 13 (3.0%) | 2 |
| M4F Wisconsin | 8 (1.8%) | 1 |
| M4F New Jersey | 8 (1.8%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/bdsmr4r Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/bdsmr4r
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 522 (49.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 358 (33.9%) | 1 | 0 |
| online | 339 (32.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| removed | 315 (29.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| moderator | 315 (29.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| dom | 177 (16.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 159 (15.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| sub | 131 (12.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| submissive | 105 (9.9%) | 1 | 0 |
| dominant | 67 (6.3%) | 1 | 0 |
r/bdsmr4r Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/bdsmr4r
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/bdsmr4r Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/bdsmr4r
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28 (F4M) looking for an #online Dom/Bull for me and my cuckold bf
39 [M4F] #SouthernCali #LA/IE — Fit, clean, tattooed, and hung Dominant Daddy looking for his submissive, BWC loving playmate
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29 [F4M] #online help a bratty sub get back into it please?
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41 [F4M] #Ontario - Online submissive seeking Dominant
44 [M4F] #SF, California/online - Looking for a masochistic service sub/slave who likes to cuddle
31 [F4M] #Online # Alabama - New Bratty Sub looking for her Dom- Open to Couples
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r/bdsmr4r Audience Overlap r/bdsmr4r Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/bdsmr4r FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/bdsmr4r
What's the best time to post on r/bdsmr4r?
Based on posting volume, r/bdsmr4r is most active on Fridays around 9 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/bdsmr4r?
r/bdsmr4r averages 34 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/bdsmr4r get?
Posts on r/bdsmr4r average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/bdsmr4r get most?
On r/bdsmr4r, most posts are text posts (93%)
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