1.0K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 35 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (94%).
r/bdsmr4r Traffic & Engagement r/bdsmr4r Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/bdsmr4r Most Active Times When r/bdsmr4r Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
Most Active by Day
r/bdsmr4r Flair Performance r/bdsmr4r Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F Online | 112 (25.5%) | 1 |
| M4F United Kingdom | 40 (9.1%) | 1 |
| M4F California | 30 (6.8%) | 1 |
| M4F New York | 17 (3.9%) | 1 |
| F4M Online | 15 (3.4%) | 3 |
| M4F Netherlands | 14 (3.2%) | 1 |
| M4F California / Online | 13 (3.0%) | 2 |
| M4F United Kingdom / Online | 11 (2.5%) | 1 |
| M4F Wisconsin | 10 (2.3%) | 1 |
| M4F Pennsylvania | 8 (1.8%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/bdsmr4r Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/bdsmr4r
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 523 (50.6%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 349 (33.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| online | 343 (33.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| removed | 321 (31.0%) | 1 | 1 |
| moderator | 321 (31.0%) | 1 | 1 |
| dom | 198 (19.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 129 (12.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| sub | 122 (11.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| submissive | 113 (10.9%) | 1 | 0 |
| girl | 71 (6.9%) | 1 | 0 |
r/bdsmr4r Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/bdsmr4r
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/bdsmr4r Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/bdsmr4r
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
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44 F4M sub spotted in Atlanta. Appears lost & directionless
r/bdsmr4r Audience Overlap r/bdsmr4r Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/bdsmr4r FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/bdsmr4r
What's the best time to post on r/bdsmr4r?
Based on posting volume, r/bdsmr4r is most active on Wednesdays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/bdsmr4r?
r/bdsmr4r averages 35 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/bdsmr4r get?
Posts on r/bdsmr4r average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/bdsmr4r get most?
On r/bdsmr4r, most posts are text posts (94%)
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