1.9K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 64 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (94%).
r/BPDlovedones Traffic & Engagement r/BPDlovedones Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/BPDlovedones Most Active Times When r/BPDlovedones Is Most Active
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r/BPDlovedones Flair Performance r/BPDlovedones Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| BPD Behaviors & Traits | 183 (22.0%) | 19 |
| Uncoupling Journey | 151 (18.2%) | 17 |
| Learning about BPD | 105 (12.6%) | 11 |
| Getting ready to leave | 79 (9.5%) | 11 |
| Non-Romantic interactions | 77 (9.3%) | 10 |
| Focusing on Me :redditgold: | 72 (8.7%) | 16 |
| Family Members | 47 (5.7%) | 8 |
| Healthy romantic & non-romantic interactions postBPD | 32 (3.9%) | 15 |
| Quiet Borderlines | 27 (3.2%) | 11 |
| Divorce | 23 (2.8%) | 7 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/BPDlovedones Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/BPDlovedones
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| bpd | 396 (20.6%) | 13 | 12 |
| pwbpd | 92 (4.8%) | 13 | 15 |
| feel | 87 (4.5%) | 17 | 13 |
| relationship | 74 (3.9%) | 19 | 12 |
| anyone | 66 (3.4%) | 20 | 13 |
| know | 63 (3.3%) | 11 | 14 |
| need | 60 (3.1%) | 7 | 6 |
| someone | 60 (3.1%) | 15 | 13 |
| years | 58 (3.0%) | 18 | 9 |
| partner | 54 (2.8%) | 13 | 12 |
r/BPDlovedones Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/BPDlovedones
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/BPDlovedones Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/BPDlovedones
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
The 3-second switch when the waiter walked over
It’s funny how much Cluster B’s hate this sub
Ran into BPD ex after 10 years, what I said to her.
They don’t like You - they like your role
How to have a long-term relationship with a pwBPD
The instant mood reset after a 4-hour fight broke my brain more than the screaming
A person who ruins your mental health can't be the love of your life.
I'm really starting to believe that splitting and all that entails is 100% a choice.
BPD Through Their Own Eyes: The Discard
Your nervous system is fried, and nobody talks enough about the healing afterward
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The 3-second switch when the waiter walked over | 361 | 56 | text | Sep 14 |
| It’s funny how much Cluster B’s hate this sub | 352 | 121 | text | Sep 3 |
| Ran into BPD ex after 10 years, what I said to her. | 278 | 47 | text | Sep 14 |
| They don’t like You - they like your role | 259 | 46 | text | Sep 21 |
| How to have a long-term relationship with a pwBPD | 249 | 54 | text | Sep 18 |
| The instant mood reset after a 4-hour fight broke my brain more than the screaming | 244 | 53 | text | Sep 16 |
| A person who ruins your mental health can't be the love of your life. | 237 | 42 | text | Sep 17 |
| I'm really starting to believe that splitting and all that entails is 100% a choice. | 220 | 71 | text | Sep 4 |
| BPD Through Their Own Eyes: The Discard | 214 | 80 | text | Sep 22 |
| Your nervous system is fried, and nobody talks enough about the healing afterward | 212 | 57 | text | Sep 13 |
r/BPDlovedones Audience Overlap r/BPDlovedones Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/BPDlovedones FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/BPDlovedones
What's the best time to post on r/BPDlovedones?
Based on posting volume, r/BPDlovedones is most active on Tuesdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/BPDlovedones?
r/BPDlovedones averages 64 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/BPDlovedones get?
Posts on r/BPDlovedones average about 16 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/BPDlovedones get most?
On r/BPDlovedones, most posts are text posts (94%)