495 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 16 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Thursdays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (79%).
r/raisedbyborderlines Traffic & Engagement r/raisedbyborderlines Traffic & Engagement
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r/raisedbyborderlines Flair Performance r/raisedbyborderlines Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| ADVICE NEEDED | 93 (32.0%) | 17 |
| VENT/RANT | 93 (32.0%) | 41 |
| SUPPORT THREAD | 15 (5.2%) | 15 |
| ENCOURAGEMENT | 14 (4.8%) | 55 |
| SHARE YOUR STORY | 11 (3.8%) | 46 |
| TRANSLATE THIS? | 10 (3.4%) | 32 |
| *THIS* IS BPD! | 10 (3.4%) | 54 |
| HUMOR | 8 (2.7%) | 83 |
| SEEKING VALIDATION | 8 (2.7%) | 65 |
| PLEASE WELCOME...! | 5 (1.7%) | 15 |
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r/raisedbyborderlines Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/raisedbyborderlines
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| mom | 74 (14.9%) | 31 | 14 |
| bpd | 67 (13.5%) | 28 | 12 |
| mother | 45 (9.1%) | 18 | 8 |
| ubpd | 24 (4.8%) | 24 | 11 |
| parent | 23 (4.7%) | 34 | 18 |
| anyone | 20 (4.0%) | 52 | 24 |
| contact | 20 (4.0%) | 28 | 12 |
| feel | 20 (4.0%) | 41 | 14 |
| family | 19 (3.8%) | 47 | 24 |
| parents | 17 (3.4%) | 54 | 21 |
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r/raisedbyborderlines Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/raisedbyborderlines
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Making my Wedding Day her Death Day
Wrote an article about my bpd mom and she showed up in the comments
Anyone else have “funny” childhood family stories that are actually pretty fucked up looking back as an adult?
I have a theory that PWBPD all have arrested development, and that they will never see their children as adults older than whatever age they got "stuck" at
Once you see BPD, you'll never unsee it
NC for over a year and thought things could maybe get better 🙃
The breaking point with toxic father
Anyone else expected to treat their parents like toddlers?
Finally set a strong boundary with my mom. She estranged herself then blamed me.
Apparently I'm bad for not acknowledging how hard it was for her to hear about my abuse
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Making my Wedding Day her Death Day | 683 | 211 | image | Jul 27 |
| Wrote an article about my bpd mom and she showed up in the comments | 404 | 148 | image | Jul 21 |
| Anyone else have “funny” childhood family stories that are actually pretty fucked up looking back as an adult? | 333 | 232 | text | Jul 13 |
| I have a theory that PWBPD all have arrested development, and that they will never see their children as adults older than whatever age they got "stuck" at | 306 | 84 | text | Jul 7 |
| Once you see BPD, you'll never unsee it | 302 | 22 | text | Jul 27 |
| NC for over a year and thought things could maybe get better 🙃 | 273 | 74 | image | Jul 25 |
| The breaking point with toxic father | 243 | 28 | image | Jul 28 |
| Anyone else expected to treat their parents like toddlers? | 221 | 45 | text | Jul 6 |
| Finally set a strong boundary with my mom. She estranged herself then blamed me. | 191 | 75 | image | Jul 9 |
| Apparently I'm bad for not acknowledging how hard it was for her to hear about my abuse | 191 | 47 | image | Jul 26 |
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r/raisedbyborderlines FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/raisedbyborderlines
What's the best time to post on r/raisedbyborderlines?
Based on posting volume, r/raisedbyborderlines is most active on Thursdays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/raisedbyborderlines?
r/raisedbyborderlines averages 16 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/raisedbyborderlines get?
Posts on r/raisedbyborderlines average about 32 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/raisedbyborderlines get most?
On r/raisedbyborderlines, most posts are text posts (79%)