1.5K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 48 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Thursdays around 10 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (84%).
r/DatingOlder Traffic & Engagement r/DatingOlder Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/DatingOlder Most Active Times When r/DatingOlder Is Most Active
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r/DatingOlder Flair Performance r/DatingOlder Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F | 1.0K (79.5%) | 1 |
| F4M | 145 (11.4%) | 4 |
| looking for a relationship | 37 (2.9%) | 1 |
| looking for online only | 34 (2.7%) | 1 |
| looking for casual chat and who knows | 16 (1.3%) | 3 |
| looking for sugar | 13 (1.0%) | 3 |
| M4A | 10 (0.8%) | 1 |
| M4M | 5 (0.4%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/DatingOlder Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DatingOlder
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 1.2K (83.3%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 591 (39.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| older | 292 (19.7%) | 1 | 1 |
| younger | 254 (17.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 228 (15.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| woman | 223 (15.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| f4m | 197 (13.3%) | 5 | 3 |
| fun | 153 (10.3%) | 1 | 0 |
| girl | 151 (10.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| man | 150 (10.1%) | 1 | 1 |
r/DatingOlder Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DatingOlder
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DatingOlder Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DatingOlder
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18 [F4M] #NC - i think a wrote a little too much
18 [F4M] #online/scandinavia Future tradwife, seeking men 30s-50s.
25 [F4M] #chicago || artsy student teacher lookin for her muse
21 [F4M] #anywhere
24 [F4M] #westvirginia Anyone else with a breeding kink? Or in heat? 24f
23 [F4M] #Online/Willing to Relocate - Any Older Men Interested in an Asian Tradwife? :P
25 [F4M] #Norway Chubby Goth norwegian girl looking for older guy!
18 [F4M] #Canada
19 [F4M] #Michigan Seeking long term, open to short term
18 [F4M] #Europe I want an older man
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 18 [F4M] #NC - i think a wrote a little too much | 120 | 28 | image | Aug 10 |
| 18 [F4M] #online/scandinavia Future tradwife, seeking men 30s-50s. | 42 | 15 | image | Aug 1 |
| 25 [F4M] #chicago || artsy student teacher lookin for her muse | 42 | 6 | image | Aug 19 |
| 21 [F4M] #anywhere | 33 | 12 | image | Aug 6 |
| 24 [F4M] #westvirginia Anyone else with a breeding kink? Or in heat? 24f | 28 | 15 | image | Aug 30 |
| 23 [F4M] #Online/Willing to Relocate - Any Older Men Interested in an Asian Tradwife? :P | 26 | 8 | image | Aug 6 |
| 25 [F4M] #Norway Chubby Goth norwegian girl looking for older guy! | 24 | 11 | image | Aug 12 |
| 18 [F4M] #Canada | 23 | 4 | text | Jul 31 |
| 19 [F4M] #Michigan Seeking long term, open to short term | 20 | 4 | image | Aug 2 |
| 18 [F4M] #Europe I want an older man | 19 | 10 | text | Aug 18 |
r/DatingOlder Audience Overlap r/DatingOlder Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DatingOlder FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DatingOlder
What's the best time to post on r/DatingOlder?
Based on posting volume, r/DatingOlder is most active on Thursdays around 10 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DatingOlder?
r/DatingOlder averages 48 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DatingOlder get?
Posts on r/DatingOlder average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DatingOlder get most?
On r/DatingOlder, most posts are text posts (84%)
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