259 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 8 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Mondays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (96%).
r/theotherwoman Traffic & Engagement r/theotherwoman Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/theotherwoman Most Active Times When r/theotherwoman Is Most Active
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r/theotherwoman Flair Performance r/theotherwoman Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| 🙀 Confused 🙀 | 51 (20.6%) | 1 |
| Thoughts :snoo_thoughtful: | 39 (15.7%) | 4 |
| In My Feels :snoo_dealwithit: | 38 (15.3%) | 2 |
| Question ❓️ :snoo_dealwithit: | 25 (10.1%) | 1 |
| Done! 🙁 | 20 (8.1%) | 9 |
| Ventilation :snoo_angry: | 18 (7.3%) | 3 |
| Gone NC 🫢 | 14 (5.6%) | 5 |
| 😜 Antics - Fun or Romantic 🥰 | 13 (5.2%) | 1 |
| Discussion :snoo_dealwithit: | 11 (4.4%) | 2 |
| 😎 Going Legit 😎 | 5 (2.0%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/theotherwoman Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/theotherwoman
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| need | 16 (6.2%) | 3 | 2 |
| time | 14 (5.4%) | 1 | 2 |
| love | 14 (5.4%) | 3 | 3 |
| woman | 13 (5.0%) | 1 | 2 |
| relationship | 13 (5.0%) | 2 | 3 |
| married | 13 (5.0%) | 1 | 1 |
| affair | 13 (5.0%) | 1 | 2 |
| man | 12 (4.6%) | 1 | 1 |
| don | 12 (4.6%) | 2 | 4 |
| advice | 11 (4.3%) | 1 | 1 |
r/theotherwoman Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/theotherwoman
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/theotherwoman Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/theotherwoman
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
A perspective from the MM who loved and lost - hopefully this is encouraging for the OWs and MMs too
Thank you, and Goodbye
I ended things with MM
He had to block me.
A message to everyone in NC (one that I need to read as well)
Looking back
Were you in love with them, or with the relationship you believed was coming?
They are losers? Manipulation and Control in these dynamics
MM was “that guy”
Vent away
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| A perspective from the MM who loved and lost - hopefully this is encouraging for the OWs and MMs too | 73 | 52 | text | Aug 24 |
| Thank you, and Goodbye | 54 | 14 | text | Aug 29 |
| I ended things with MM | 51 | 5 | text | Aug 7 |
| He had to block me. | 45 | 6 | text | Aug 26 |
| A message to everyone in NC (one that I need to read as well) | 40 | 12 | text | Aug 29 |
| Looking back | 26 | 6 | text | Aug 10 |
| Were you in love with them, or with the relationship you believed was coming? | 20 | 12 | text | Aug 11 |
| They are losers? Manipulation and Control in these dynamics | 16 | 4 | text | Aug 15 |
| MM was “that guy” | 13 | 5 | text | Aug 19 |
| Vent away | 13 | 22 | text | Aug 29 |
r/theotherwoman Audience Overlap r/theotherwoman Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/theotherwoman FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/theotherwoman
What's the best time to post on r/theotherwoman?
Based on posting volume, r/theotherwoman is most active on Mondays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/theotherwoman?
r/theotherwoman averages 8 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/theotherwoman get?
Posts on r/theotherwoman average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/theotherwoman get most?
On r/theotherwoman, most posts are text posts (96%)