939 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 31 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Mondays around 6 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/adultery Traffic & Engagement r/adultery Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/adultery Most Active Times When r/adultery Is Most Active
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r/adultery Flair Performance r/adultery Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| 🙋♀️Question🙋♂️ | 158 (29.2%) | 5 |
| 📋Read The Rules📋 | 97 (17.9%) | 1 |
| 🧠Thoughts🤔 | 63 (11.6%) | 11 |
| 🌬️Ventilation💨 | 44 (8.1%) | 9 |
| 😩Donezo🥩 | 29 (5.4%) | 13 |
| 🔍Search Button🔎 | 25 (4.6%) | 3 |
| 👨💼Work👩💼 | 23 (4.2%) | 1 |
| 🦮Halp🆘 | 21 (3.9%) | 5 |
| 😬🙃😑🙄 | 17 (3.1%) | 2 |
| 😢Whining Spouse Intro Post😭 | 15 (2.8%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/adultery Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/adultery
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| affair | 64 (6.8%) | 9 | 13 |
| married | 57 (6.1%) | 1 | 9 |
| looking | 45 (4.8%) | 2 | 5 |
| want | 34 (3.6%) | 3 | 6 |
| m4f | 28 (3.0%) | 1 | 1 |
| advice | 26 (2.8%) | 1 | 7 |
| wife | 26 (2.8%) | 1 | 4 |
| need | 25 (2.7%) | 2 | 11 |
| love | 24 (2.6%) | 10 | 21 |
| find | 23 (2.5%) | 1 | 13 |
r/adultery Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/adultery
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/adultery Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/adultery
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Husband walked in on me having phone sex with AP 😬
When You Fall in Love w/ Your Affair Partner
I had an affair. Then I discovered ending one can be a hell of a lot harder than starting one.
She found out.
If you can’t beat them, join them.
Should I stay or should I go?
I miss sex with AP
Was it sex magic or am I on Crack??
I use to be against cheating but after 10 years of marriage I understand now.
Leaving footprints you didn’t know you left #OPSEC
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Husband walked in on me having phone sex with AP 😬 | 312 | 94 | text | Sep 27 |
| When You Fall in Love w/ Your Affair Partner | 102 | 50 | text | Sep 26 |
| I had an affair. Then I discovered ending one can be a hell of a lot harder than starting one. | 94 | 53 | text | Sep 22 |
| She found out. | 86 | 62 | text | Sep 5 |
| If you can’t beat them, join them. | 84 | 50 | text | Sep 7 |
| Should I stay or should I go? | 80 | 47 | text | Sep 2 |
| I miss sex with AP | 72 | 19 | text | Sep 16 |
| Was it sex magic or am I on Crack?? | 70 | 69 | text | Sep 21 |
| I use to be against cheating but after 10 years of marriage I understand now. | 60 | 52 | text | Sep 21 |
| Leaving footprints you didn’t know you left #OPSEC | 57 | 57 | text | Sep 18 |
r/adultery Audience Overlap r/adultery Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/adultery FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/adultery
What's the best time to post on r/adultery?
Based on posting volume, r/adultery is most active on Mondays around 6 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/adultery?
r/adultery averages 31 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/adultery get?
Posts on r/adultery average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/adultery get most?
On r/adultery, most posts are text posts (100%)