1.2K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 38 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Thursdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/adultery Traffic & Engagement r/adultery Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/adultery Most Active Times When r/adultery Is Most Active
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r/adultery Flair Performance r/adultery Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| 🙋♀️Question🙋♂️ | 146 (24.0%) | 4 |
| 📋Read The Rules📋 | 119 (19.6%) | 1 |
| 🧠Thoughts🤔 | 66 (10.9%) | 20 |
| 🌬️Ventilation💨 | 46 (7.6%) | 12 |
| 🔍Search Button🔎 | 32 (5.3%) | 1 |
| 🦮Halp🆘 | 29 (4.8%) | 3 |
| 😬🙃😑🙄 | 25 (4.1%) | 3 |
| 🌬️Ventilation💨 | 23 (3.8%) | 11 |
| 😩Donezo🥩 | 23 (3.8%) | 11 |
| 👨💼Work👩💼 | 22 (3.6%) | 5 |
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r/adultery Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/adultery
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| married | 61 (5.3%) | 3 | 6 |
| affair | 58 (5.0%) | 6 | 11 |
| looking | 54 (4.6%) | 3 | 7 |
| cheating | 37 (3.2%) | 3 | 9 |
| advice | 37 (3.2%) | 1 | 10 |
| need | 35 (3.0%) | 2 | 8 |
| anyone | 35 (3.0%) | 6 | 11 |
| i'm | 31 (2.7%) | 6 | 11 |
| want | 29 (2.5%) | 6 | 12 |
| partner | 25 (2.1%) | 2 | 6 |
r/adultery Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/adultery
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/adultery Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/adultery
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Does anyone else miss being wanted more than they miss sex?
What have I learned in 2 years of affairing?
Hookups in the wild - hotel bars!
I think i just bumped into my spouse on AM
In regards to Phone OpSec
The Cycle of an Affair
40 days. 6 hours. 1 layover. Worth it.
My Top 12 OPSEC Rules (Not an Expert—Just Lessons Learned)
lurkers - you would do well to read these posts
Ladies, our options aren't looking good out there
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Does anyone else miss being wanted more than they miss sex? | 108 | 61 | text | Jul 14 |
| What have I learned in 2 years of affairing? | 100 | 22 | text | Jul 9 |
| Hookups in the wild - hotel bars! | 95 | 35 | text | Jul 20 |
| I think i just bumped into my spouse on AM | 86 | 84 | text | Jul 29 |
| In regards to Phone OpSec | 82 | 25 | text | Jul 12 |
| The Cycle of an Affair | 77 | 41 | text | Jul 17 |
| 40 days. 6 hours. 1 layover. Worth it. | 77 | 24 | text | Jul 11 |
| My Top 12 OPSEC Rules (Not an Expert—Just Lessons Learned) | 76 | 53 | text | Jul 27 |
| lurkers - you would do well to read these posts | 74 | 29 | text | Jul 23 |
| Ladies, our options aren't looking good out there | 70 | 166 | text | Jul 3 |
r/adultery Audience Overlap r/adultery Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/adultery FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/adultery
What's the best time to post on r/adultery?
Based on posting volume, r/adultery is most active on Thursdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/adultery?
r/adultery averages 38 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/adultery get?
Posts on r/adultery average about 5 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/adultery get most?
On r/adultery, most posts are text posts (100%)