12.7K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 425 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 9 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/MarriedButChatting Traffic & Engagement r/MarriedButChatting Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/MarriedButChatting Most Active Times When r/MarriedButChatting Is Most Active
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r/MarriedButChatting Flair Performance r/MarriedButChatting Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| 🚩Red Flag Alert!🚩 | 17 (35.4%) | 16 |
| 🟨 yellow flag 🟨 | 12 (25.0%) | 13 |
| 🟨 yellow flag 🟨 lack of post/comment history | 8 (16.7%) | 15 |
| 🚩Red Flag Alert!🚩 lack of post/comment history | 6 (12.5%) | 13 |
| Nope. No real women. | 5 (10.4%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/MarriedButChatting Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/MarriedButChatting
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 10.6K (83.0%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 3.7K (29.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| online | 2.2K (17.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| married | 1.2K (9.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| f4m | 994 (7.8%) | 6 | 4 |
| connection | 972 (7.6%) | 1 | 0 |
| someone | 755 (5.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| seeking | 724 (5.7%) | 1 | 0 |
| fun | 694 (5.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| est | 673 (5.3%) | 1 | 1 |
r/MarriedButChatting Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/MarriedButChatting
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/MarriedButChatting Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/MarriedButChatting
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41 [M4F] WOMEN HIT THE UPVOTE - let us know you are at least lurking! Give us hope
33 F4M - I wish there was a dating app for married people.
50/F4M/Anywhere
[Female] Can someone explain something to me?
32F 4 M - Well here we are?!
51 [F4M] Texas - will you be my secret bestie?
48[F4M] I want to be your favorite notification
40[F4A] Sometimes marriage can be so uniquely lonely
36 [F4M] I want to be your favorite notification
39 [F4M] Against my better judgment
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 41 [M4F] WOMEN HIT THE UPVOTE - let us know you are at least lurking! Give us hope | 121 | 19 | text | Sep 27 |
| 33 F4M - I wish there was a dating app for married people. | 107 | 78 | text | Sep 27 |
| 50/F4M/Anywhere | 66 | 25 | text | Sep 30 |
| [Female] Can someone explain something to me? | 61 | 93 | text | Sep 21 |
| 32F 4 M - Well here we are?! | 57 | 26 | text | Sep 2 |
| 51 [F4M] Texas - will you be my secret bestie? | 53 | 31 | text | Sep 21 |
| 48[F4M] I want to be your favorite notification | 53 | 28 | text | Sep 10 |
| 40[F4A] Sometimes marriage can be so uniquely lonely | 52 | 24 | text | Sep 5 |
| 36 [F4M] I want to be your favorite notification | 50 | 13 | text | Sep 16 |
| 39 [F4M] Against my better judgment | 47 | 24 | text | Sep 9 |
r/MarriedButChatting Audience Overlap r/MarriedButChatting Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/MarriedButChatting FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/MarriedButChatting
What's the best time to post on r/MarriedButChatting?
Based on posting volume, r/MarriedButChatting is most active on Tuesdays around 9 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/MarriedButChatting?
r/MarriedButChatting averages 425 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/MarriedButChatting get?
Posts on r/MarriedButChatting average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/MarriedButChatting get most?
On r/MarriedButChatting, most posts are text posts (100%)
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