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Averages 42 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 9 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (70%).

Posts / Day Average posts per day this month. Arrow is change vs the prior calendar month.
42 6%
Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post this month (upvotes minus downvotes). Arrow is change vs the prior month.
1 5%
Avg Comments Mean number of comments per post this month. Arrow is change vs the prior month when that month’s data is available.
0 25%
Activity Rank #2,650 by posts/day among 33,249 tracked NSFW subreddits as of Sep 2026 (Top 10%). Arrow is spots gained or lost vs the prior month.
#2,650 227
Top 10%
Posts w/ Links The percentage of posts that link off-site. This counts true link posts plus text posts with a URL in the body. Image and video posts are not counted.
18%
Low-Reply Rate Share of posts with 0 or 1 comment. A single comment is often an automated mod reply rather than real community discussion.
95%

r/FindingAffairs Traffic & Engagement

Volume and engagement over time

Posts/DayAvg Upvotes02040600123Sep 1Sep 8Sep 15Sep 22Sep 29
Posts/Day Avg Upvotes Mean net upvotes per post in this bucket.

Post Format

Top Post Type Text
Typical Title Length Short (52 chars)
Peak Day Sunday

Upvote Distribution

How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.

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83%
10–99
17%
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0%
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0%
Posts that get upvoted Share of posts that received at least one upvote (2+ net upvotes). Most posts at 1 upvote are excluded. 10%
Median upvoted post Median upvotes among posts that received upvotes. Differs from Avg Upvotes in the snapshot, which includes every post. 3
Top post Highest upvote count on a single post this month. 63

r/FindingAffairs Most Active Times

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#1 Top 3 activity windows

Most Active by Day

Sun 6 PM
Mon 9 PM
Tue 2 PM
Wed 8 AM
Thu 8 AM
Fri 12 PM
Sat 12 PM

r/FindingAffairs Flair Performance

Upvotes and volume by flair

Flair Posts Upvotes
R4R246 (44.0%)1
R4R - USA (Southeast)52 (9.3%)1
R4R - USA (Southwest)51 (9.1%)1
R4R - USA (Far West)43 (7.7%)1
R4R - USA (New England)32 (5.7%)1
Experience31 (5.5%)4
R4R - USA (Great Lakes)29 (5.2%)1
R4R - USA (Mideast)20 (3.6%)1
R4R - Europe (Germany)19 (3.4%)1
R4R - USA (Rocky Mountain)17 (3.0%)1

Post Type Breakdown

Share by text, image, or link

71%text posts

r/FindingAffairs Trending Keywords

Ranked by how often they appear

KeywordMentions ▼UpvotesComments
m4f
855 (68.4%)
10
looking
428 (34.2%)
10
married
147 (11.8%)
20
online
142 (11.4%)
10
fun
85 (6.8%)
10
f4m
84 (6.7%)
43
connection
76 (6.1%)
10
seeking
71 (5.7%)
21
woman
57 (4.6%)
10
someone
55 (4.4%)
10

r/FindingAffairs Mentioned Domains

Most linked sites

This community doesn't link off-site.

Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.

r/FindingAffairs Top Posts

Highest-performing posts

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r/FindingAffairs Audience Overlap

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r/FindingAffairs FAQ

What's the best time to post on r/FindingAffairs?

Based on posting volume, r/FindingAffairs is most active on Mondays around 9 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.

How active is r/FindingAffairs?

r/FindingAffairs averages 42 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.

How many upvotes do posts on r/FindingAffairs get?

Posts on r/FindingAffairs average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).

What kind of posts does r/FindingAffairs get most?

On r/FindingAffairs, most posts are text posts (70%)