1.2K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 40 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (75%).
r/FindingAffairs Traffic & Engagement r/FindingAffairs Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/FindingAffairs Most Active Times When r/FindingAffairs Is Most Active
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r/FindingAffairs Flair Performance r/FindingAffairs Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| R4R | 243 (47.6%) | 1 |
| R4R - USA (Southeast) | 72 (14.1%) | 1 |
| R4R - USA (Far West) | 37 (7.2%) | 2 |
| R4R - USA (Southwest) | 36 (7.0%) | 2 |
| R4R - USA (New England) | 34 (6.7%) | 2 |
| R4R - USA (Great Lakes) | 24 (4.7%) | 1 |
| Experience | 19 (3.7%) | 4 |
| R4R - USA (Mideast) | 16 (3.1%) | 1 |
| R4R - USA (Rocky Mountain) | 13 (2.5%) | 1 |
| Venting | 10 (2.0%) | 3 |
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r/FindingAffairs Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/FindingAffairs
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 801 (65.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 417 (34.0%) | 1 | 0 |
| married | 152 (12.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| online | 103 (8.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| connection | 101 (8.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| fun | 76 (6.2%) | 1 | 1 |
| f4m | 73 (6.0%) | 5 | 3 |
| woman | 63 (5.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 60 (4.9%) | 1 | 0 |
| someone | 55 (4.5%) | 2 | 1 |
r/FindingAffairs Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/FindingAffairs
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/FindingAffairs Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/FindingAffairs
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28 F4M currently on work trip with the Boss, while hubby is home.
F22 down to send my nudes for your dick pics just reacct and I'll DM you
I’m a good housewife until husband leaves home. Any bold guy want to make my milf body shake uncontrollably?
28[F4M] anyone else miss having that one person you can talk to about literally anything?
20 [F4M] country girl
Sitting on my couch, waiting for a man who knows how to make a housewife crack..
28F looking for someone in the same situation
26 [F4M] #SEA mmm seeking a hot married fit man or any to satisfy my desire
Emotional affair? 22 F4M
I miss the thrill of having a stranger on my bed when I’m home alone.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 28 F4M currently on work trip with the Boss, while hubby is home. | 44 | 10 | image | Aug 26 |
| F22 down to send my nudes for your dick pics just reacct and I'll DM you | 30 | 20 | text | Aug 6 |
| I’m a good housewife until husband leaves home. Any bold guy want to make my milf body shake uncontrollably? | 27 | 21 | image | Aug 18 |
| 28[F4M] anyone else miss having that one person you can talk to about literally anything? | 20 | 13 | text | Aug 21 |
| 20 [F4M] country girl | 18 | 5 | image | Aug 22 |
| Sitting on my couch, waiting for a man who knows how to make a housewife crack.. | 18 | 6 | image | Aug 22 |
| 28F looking for someone in the same situation | 17 | 22 | text | Aug 13 |
| 26 [F4M] #SEA mmm seeking a hot married fit man or any to satisfy my desire | 17 | 13 | image | Aug 29 |
| Emotional affair? 22 F4M | 17 | 11 | text | Aug 27 |
| I miss the thrill of having a stranger on my bed when I’m home alone. | 14 | 4 | image | Aug 19 |
r/FindingAffairs Audience Overlap r/FindingAffairs Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/FindingAffairs FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/FindingAffairs
What's the best time to post on r/FindingAffairs?
Based on posting volume, r/FindingAffairs is most active on Mondays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/FindingAffairs?
r/FindingAffairs averages 40 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/FindingAffairs get?
Posts on r/FindingAffairs average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/FindingAffairs get most?
On r/FindingAffairs, most posts are text posts (75%)
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