13.9K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 449 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Thursdays around 9 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/OnlineAffairs Traffic & Engagement r/OnlineAffairs Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/OnlineAffairs Most Active Times When r/OnlineAffairs Is Most Active
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r/OnlineAffairs Flair Performance r/OnlineAffairs Flair Performance
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No flaired posts were found in this month's data.
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r/OnlineAffairs Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/OnlineAffairs
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 10.5K (75.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 4.0K (28.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| online | 2.7K (19.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| f4m | 1.4K (9.8%) | 6 | 4 |
| est | 1.0K (7.4%) | 2 | 1 |
| married | 1.0K (7.3%) | 2 | 1 |
| connection | 1.0K (7.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 766 (5.5%) | 2 | 0 |
| someone | 718 (5.2%) | 2 | 1 |
| removed | 708 (5.1%) | 1 | 1 |
r/OnlineAffairs Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/OnlineAffairs
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/OnlineAffairs Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/OnlineAffairs
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32 [F4M] Married
42 F4M - not sure what i'm doing here...
[29 F4M EST] GRAND REOPENING: SUMMER EDITION
(F4A) 27 Married mom with two kids. Feeling a bit neglected in the bedroom. I don’t really know what I am doing wrong and would like to talk to someone about it/see where things go.
38 [F4M] I like that you're lonely, lonely like me
41 (F4M) the insanity has to got to stop….right?
36F4M - I wanna go deep
41 F4M I don’t even know…
40 F4M - looking for banter, connection, spark.
30 (F4M) Nerd Girl Looking For A Spark
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 32 [F4M] Married | 84 | 56 | text | Jul 27 |
| 42 F4M - not sure what i'm doing here... | 71 | 37 | text | Jul 9 |
| [29 F4M EST] GRAND REOPENING: SUMMER EDITION | 55 | 16 | text | Jul 5 |
| (F4A) 27 Married mom with two kids. Feeling a bit neglected in the bedroom. I don’t really know what I am doing wrong and would like to talk to someone about it/see where things go. | 51 | 39 | text | Jul 7 |
| 38 [F4M] I like that you're lonely, lonely like me | 49 | 20 | text | Jul 23 |
| 41 (F4M) the insanity has to got to stop….right? | 47 | 38 | text | Jul 3 |
| 36F4M - I wanna go deep | 44 | 31 | text | Jul 20 |
| 41 F4M I don’t even know… | 44 | 30 | text | Jul 15 |
| 40 F4M - looking for banter, connection, spark. | 44 | 32 | text | Jul 26 |
| 30 (F4M) Nerd Girl Looking For A Spark | 42 | 25 | text | Jul 12 |
r/OnlineAffairs Audience Overlap r/OnlineAffairs Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/OnlineAffairs FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/OnlineAffairs
What's the best time to post on r/OnlineAffairs?
Based on posting volume, r/OnlineAffairs is most active on Thursdays around 9 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/OnlineAffairs?
r/OnlineAffairs averages 449 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/OnlineAffairs get?
Posts on r/OnlineAffairs average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/OnlineAffairs get most?
On r/OnlineAffairs, most posts are text posts (100%)
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r/OnlineAffairs
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