361 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 12 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Mondays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (76%).
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Traffic & Engagement r/DesiMarriedButLooking Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking Most Active Times When r/DesiMarriedButLooking Is Most Active
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking Flair Performance r/DesiMarriedButLooking Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F | 292 (82.0%) | 1 |
| F4M | 29 (8.1%) | 4 |
| Discuss | 11 (3.1%) | 1 |
| M4C | 8 (2.2%) | 1 |
| M4M | 6 (1.7%) | 1 |
| C4C | 5 (1.4%) | 1 |
| Question | 5 (1.4%) | 2 |
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 246 (68.1%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 160 (44.3%) | 1 | 0 |
| married | 86 (23.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| desi | 46 (12.7%) | 1 | 0 |
| discreet | 27 (7.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| guy | 27 (7.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 26 (7.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| fwb | 26 (7.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| toronto | 25 (6.9%) | 2 | 0 |
| male | 25 (6.9%) | 1 | 0 |
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
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40F Moving back to India
43 [F4M] London, UK - Online only
45 F4M Toronto or UK
41F4M - Revive my dead heart? #India
[52F4M] #Utah - Married Indian woman looking for discreet affair partner and/or friendship
39 [F4M] Canada
My wife
31 F4M - Married women
36F4M #Mumbai only | Accomplished in my career | Looking for my alpha counterpart
Hopeful/ess Scenario in Social Gatherings?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 40F Moving back to India | 18 | 8 | text | Sep 9 |
| 43 [F4M] London, UK - Online only | 14 | 12 | text | Sep 26 |
| 45 F4M Toronto or UK | 14 | 3 | text | Sep 12 |
| 41F4M - Revive my dead heart? #India | 13 | 9 | text | Sep 24 |
| [52F4M] #Utah - Married Indian woman looking for discreet affair partner and/or friendship | 10 | 14 | text | Sep 15 |
| 39 [F4M] Canada | 8 | 8 | text | Sep 22 |
| My wife | 8 | 15 | image | Sep 1 |
| 31 F4M - Married women | 5 | 8 | text | Sep 14 |
| 36F4M #Mumbai only | Accomplished in my career | Looking for my alpha counterpart | 5 | 3 | text | Sep 25 |
| Hopeful/ess Scenario in Social Gatherings? | 3 | 21 | text | Sep 21 |
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Audience Overlap r/DesiMarriedButLooking Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DesiMarriedButLooking
What's the best time to post on r/DesiMarriedButLooking?
Based on posting volume, r/DesiMarriedButLooking is most active on Mondays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DesiMarriedButLooking?
r/DesiMarriedButLooking averages 12 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DesiMarriedButLooking get?
Posts on r/DesiMarriedButLooking average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DesiMarriedButLooking get most?
On r/DesiMarriedButLooking, most posts are text posts (76%)
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