384 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 12 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Mondays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (79%).
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Traffic & Engagement r/DesiMarriedButLooking Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Most Active Times When r/DesiMarriedButLooking Is Most Active
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking Flair Performance r/DesiMarriedButLooking Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| M4F | 303 (79.9%) | 1 |
| F4M | 28 (7.4%) | 3 |
| Discuss | 24 (6.3%) | 1 |
| M4M | 11 (2.9%) | 1 |
| M4C | 7 (1.8%) | 1 |
| F4F | 3 (0.8%) | 1 |
| Question | 3 (0.8%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| m4f | 232 (60.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| looking | 170 (44.3%) | 1 | 0 |
| married | 82 (21.4%) | 1 | 1 |
| desi | 48 (12.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| discreet | 41 (10.7%) | 1 | 0 |
| connection | 40 (10.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| toronto | 37 (9.6%) | 1 | 0 |
| male | 36 (9.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| seeking | 34 (8.8%) | 1 | 0 |
| fwb | 33 (8.6%) | 0 | 0 |
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| redgifs.com | 3 | 1 |
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DesiMarriedButLooking
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
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35F4M India- still searching for the one!
[38F4M] #BayArea/CA - Married Indian woman looking for a long term and discreet affair
Had a relationship with my Indian neighbor’s wife. Are all desi just as spicy as the food?
37 [F4M] Toronto
38 #F4M #Austin
Desi married hijabi
Am i hot👀
❤️
Desi Female and Married for almost 5 years now. What’s the trigger that made you want to explore on the side?
Married woman 44 looking for a slow burn- Toronto, Canada
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 35F4M India- still searching for the one! | 20 | 11 | text | Aug 6 |
| [38F4M] #BayArea/CA - Married Indian woman looking for a long term and discreet affair | 16 | 15 | text | Aug 22 |
| Had a relationship with my Indian neighbor’s wife. Are all desi just as spicy as the food? | 12 | 13 | text | Aug 10 |
| 37 [F4M] Toronto | 10 | 8 | text | Aug 14 |
| 38 #F4M #Austin | 8 | 11 | text | Aug 27 |
| Desi married hijabi | 7 | 5 | text | Aug 2 |
| Am i hot👀 | 7 | 3 | image | Aug 6 |
| ❤️ | 5 | 2 | image | Aug 2 |
| Desi Female and Married for almost 5 years now. What’s the trigger that made you want to explore on the side? | 5 | 8 | text | Aug 26 |
| Married woman 44 looking for a slow burn- Toronto, Canada | 4 | 5 | text | Aug 7 |
r/DesiMarriedButLooking Audience Overlap r/DesiMarriedButLooking Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DesiMarriedButLooking FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DesiMarriedButLooking
What's the best time to post on r/DesiMarriedButLooking?
Based on posting volume, r/DesiMarriedButLooking is most active on Mondays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DesiMarriedButLooking?
r/DesiMarriedButLooking averages 12 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked NSFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DesiMarriedButLooking get?
Posts on r/DesiMarriedButLooking average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DesiMarriedButLooking get most?
On r/DesiMarriedButLooking, most posts are text posts (79%)
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