177 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 6 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Sundays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (70%).
r/DatingHell Traffic & Engagement r/DatingHell Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/DatingHell Most Active Times When r/DatingHell Is Most Active
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r/DatingHell Flair Performance r/DatingHell Flair Performance
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r/DatingHell Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DatingHell
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| dating | 45 (25.4%) | 3 | 4 |
| date | 26 (14.7%) | 8 | 11 |
| red | 15 (8.5%) | 4 | 10 |
| guy | 14 (7.9%) | 1 | 3 |
| flag | 13 (7.3%) | 4 | 11 |
| first | 11 (6.2%) | 3 | 20 |
| ever | 10 (5.7%) | 8 | 15 |
| someone | 10 (5.7%) | 3 | 2 |
r/DatingHell Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DatingHell
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DatingHell Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DatingHell
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I thought it was "just a coffee date" – here's what actually happened
Twinkle Toes
Worst hookup ever
What's the biggest thing you hide from people when you start dating?
I swear there’s always some physical cost/mental cost to dating a man.
What’s an immediate red flag that you avoid in a person?
What's the biggest red flag that makes you stop talking to someone online immediately?
What is the cringiest thing a man has ever said to you
Worst date ever
I got stood up on a first date after traveling out of state
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I thought it was "just a coffee date" – here's what actually happened | 147 | 52 | text | Jun 18 |
| Twinkle Toes | 67 | 57 | text | Jun 22 |
| Worst hookup ever | 31 | 21 | text | Jun 29 |
| What's the biggest thing you hide from people when you start dating? | 28 | 100 | text | Jun 16 |
| I swear there’s always some physical cost/mental cost to dating a man. | 23 | 14 | text | Jun 26 |
| What’s an immediate red flag that you avoid in a person? | 15 | 51 | text | Jun 30 |
| What's the biggest red flag that makes you stop talking to someone online immediately? | 14 | 22 | text | Jun 15 |
| What is the cringiest thing a man has ever said to you | 13 | 47 | text | Jun 26 |
| Worst date ever | 13 | 4 | text | Jun 10 |
| I got stood up on a first date after traveling out of state | 12 | 2 | text | Jun 21 |
r/DatingHell Audience Overlap r/DatingHell Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DatingHell FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DatingHell
What's the best time to post on r/DatingHell?
Based on posting volume, r/DatingHell is most active on Sundays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DatingHell?
r/DatingHell averages 6 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DatingHell get?
Posts on r/DatingHell average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DatingHell get most?
On r/DatingHell, most posts are text posts (70%)