150 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 5 posts/day, top 50% activity. Most active Sundays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (74%).
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r/WhatMenDontSay Flair Performance r/WhatMenDontSay Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 54 (38.0%) | 2 |
| Discussion | 29 (20.4%) | 7 |
| Venting | 19 (13.4%) | 9 |
| Off My Chest | 16 (11.3%) | 9 |
| Desperate To Chat | 7 (4.9%) | 2 |
| Relationship Advice | 6 (4.2%) | 4 |
| Meme | 5 (3.5%) | 16 |
| Men’s Input Only | 3 (2.1%) | 16 |
| Body Image Issues | 3 (2.1%) | 0 |
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r/WhatMenDontSay Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/WhatMenDontSay
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| men | 19 (12.7%) | 7 | 12 |
| women | 15 (10.0%) | 10 | 20 |
| man | 11 (7.3%) | 10 | 13 |
| need | 10 (6.7%) | 5 | 9 |
| sex | 10 (6.7%) | 3 | 17 |
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r/WhatMenDontSay Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/WhatMenDontSay
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tired
What is the most recent thing a woman has said that made you realize how out of touch she was with men?
So tired of the hypocrisy around women in relationships and what is acceptable
I’m really tired of people telling me a man only needs confidence and a good personality to get a girlfriend
How to get out of this Circle?
I dont like the word Incel
tired
Why is it almost impossible for most men to share their frustrations with women without backlash?
So many posts here break rule 4
I Realized that I Just Want Someone to be Proud of Me
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| tired | 46 | 0 | image | Jun 27 |
| What is the most recent thing a woman has said that made you realize how out of touch she was with men? | 46 | 26 | text | Jun 19 |
| So tired of the hypocrisy around women in relationships and what is acceptable | 44 | 26 | text | Jun 9 |
| I’m really tired of people telling me a man only needs confidence and a good personality to get a girlfriend | 42 | 71 | text | Jun 8 |
| How to get out of this Circle? | 38 | 1 | image | Jun 8 |
| I dont like the word Incel | 38 | 25 | text | Jun 28 |
| tired | 35 | 1 | image | Jun 8 |
| Why is it almost impossible for most men to share their frustrations with women without backlash? | 27 | 32 | text | Jun 20 |
| So many posts here break rule 4 | 27 | 5 | text | Jun 16 |
| I Realized that I Just Want Someone to be Proud of Me | 27 | 17 | text | Jun 25 |
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r/WhatMenDontSay FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/WhatMenDontSay
What's the best time to post on r/WhatMenDontSay?
Based on posting volume, r/WhatMenDontSay is most active on Sundays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/WhatMenDontSay?
r/WhatMenDontSay averages 5 posts per day and ranks in the top 50% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/WhatMenDontSay get?
Posts on r/WhatMenDontSay average about 5 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/WhatMenDontSay get most?
On r/WhatMenDontSay, most posts are text posts (74%)