1.7K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 54 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Thursdays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/DeadBedrooms Most Active Times When r/DeadBedrooms Is Most Active
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r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking Advice | 475 (34.6%) | 13 |
| Vent, Advice Welcome | 421 (30.7%) | 20 |
| Support and Advice Welcome | 168 (12.2%) | 18 |
| Support Only, No Advice | 81 (5.9%) | 34 |
| Relationship Ended or Ending | 41 (3.0%) | 68 |
| Positive Progress Post | 38 (2.8%) | 66 |
| Seeking Advice- From HL | 37 (2.7%) | 21 |
| Seeking Advice- From LL | 23 (1.7%) | 45 |
| Success Story | 23 (1.7%) | 40 |
| Give Me Constructive Criticism | 16 (1.2%) | 23 |
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r/DeadBedrooms Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DeadBedrooms
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| sex | 206 (12.3%) | 32 | 17 |
| dead | 120 (7.2%) | 20 | 10 |
| bedroom | 114 (6.8%) | 24 | 10 |
| years | 99 (5.9%) | 25 | 9 |
| relationship | 77 (4.6%) | 17 | 10 |
| feel | 76 (4.5%) | 13 | 10 |
| partner | 72 (4.3%) | 19 | 9 |
| husband | 59 (3.5%) | 33 | 21 |
| wife | 59 (3.5%) | 56 | 20 |
| advice | 56 (3.4%) | 4 | 7 |
r/DeadBedrooms Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DeadBedrooms
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Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DeadBedrooms Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DeadBedrooms
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I did it
Told gf that I don't wanna marry if sex is not happening properly
Together 6 years, married 2. Wife confessed she deliberately suppressed her sex drive the entire relationship because “she never thought I’d leave.” Moving out in 2 weeks.
She laughed in my face.
Thats it, shops closed. Not going to embarass myself again. Ever. Im done.
Wife wants to go back
The problem with being in a dead bedroom is your partner wants you to pretend you’re not…
I did it!!! I left!!! And immediately started having amazing sex again. Don't lose hope!
After 3 years of trying everything, I think we finally found what was causing our “dead bedroom.”
Butt hair ruined it all
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| I did it | 883 | 76 | text | Jul 7 |
| Told gf that I don't wanna marry if sex is not happening properly | 833 | 237 | text | Jul 12 |
| Together 6 years, married 2. Wife confessed she deliberately suppressed her sex drive the entire relationship because “she never thought I’d leave.” Moving out in 2 weeks. | 818 | 39 | text | Jul 9 |
| She laughed in my face. | 660 | 97 | text | Jul 9 |
| Thats it, shops closed. Not going to embarass myself again. Ever. Im done. | 580 | 126 | text | Jul 15 |
| Wife wants to go back | 533 | 106 | text | Jul 7 |
| The problem with being in a dead bedroom is your partner wants you to pretend you’re not… | 472 | 43 | text | Jul 19 |
| I did it!!! I left!!! And immediately started having amazing sex again. Don't lose hope! | 429 | 105 | text | Jul 8 |
| After 3 years of trying everything, I think we finally found what was causing our “dead bedroom.” | 422 | 42 | text | Jul 15 |
| Butt hair ruined it all | 405 | 154 | text | Jul 13 |
r/DeadBedrooms Audience Overlap r/DeadBedrooms Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DeadBedrooms FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DeadBedrooms
What's the best time to post on r/DeadBedrooms?
Based on posting volume, r/DeadBedrooms is most active on Thursdays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DeadBedrooms?
r/DeadBedrooms averages 54 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DeadBedrooms get?
Posts on r/DeadBedrooms average about 22 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DeadBedrooms get most?
On r/DeadBedrooms, most posts are text posts (100%)