1.3K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 44 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 10 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
Post Format
Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/DeadBedrooms Most Active Times When r/DeadBedrooms Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
Most Active by Day
r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking Advice | 396 (36.4%) | 10 |
| Vent, Advice Welcome | 315 (29.0%) | 26 |
| Support and Advice Welcome | 140 (12.9%) | 24 |
| Support Only, No Advice | 60 (5.5%) | 51 |
| Relationship Ended or Ending | 46 (4.2%) | 60 |
| Positive Progress Post | 44 (4.0%) | 13 |
| Seeking Advice- From HL | 26 (2.4%) | 19 |
| Success Story | 17 (1.6%) | 82 |
| Seeking Advice- From LL | 13 (1.2%) | 8 |
| Trigger Warning! | 11 (1.0%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/DeadBedrooms Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DeadBedrooms
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| sex | 184 (13.8%) | 27 | 16 |
| bedroom | 113 (8.5%) | 21 | 15 |
| dead | 105 (7.9%) | 22 | 15 |
| years | 86 (6.5%) | 25 | 17 |
| feel | 71 (5.3%) | 26 | 14 |
| partner | 55 (4.1%) | 20 | 16 |
| wife | 52 (3.9%) | 43 | 19 |
| relationship | 50 (3.8%) | 44 | 13 |
| want | 42 (3.2%) | 22 | 14 |
| marriage | 40 (3.0%) | 16 | 18 |
r/DeadBedrooms Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DeadBedrooms
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DeadBedrooms Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DeadBedrooms
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Our relationship therapist cried yesterday
No sex for over decade. I finally cheated, and I’m leaving
Just wanted to say goodbye and thank you
Blowjob Argument
First kid free night ever and he was enamored with our waitress
Cheated. Feel wonderful and horrible
I (F32) Cheated and now I hate myself. Feeling Guilty and Lonely.
I am the wife who initiated the dead bedroom and won't sleep with my husband
We had sex!!
Once a week!? Wait, what?!
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Our relationship therapist cried yesterday | 1.4K | 55 | text | Sep 7 |
| No sex for over decade. I finally cheated, and I’m leaving | 1.0K | 194 | text | Sep 11 |
| Just wanted to say goodbye and thank you | 979 | 67 | text | Sep 28 |
| Blowjob Argument | 598 | 80 | text | Sep 17 |
| First kid free night ever and he was enamored with our waitress | 536 | 54 | text | Sep 20 |
| Cheated. Feel wonderful and horrible | 486 | 67 | text | Sep 11 |
| I (F32) Cheated and now I hate myself. Feeling Guilty and Lonely. | 445 | 211 | text | Sep 14 |
| I am the wife who initiated the dead bedroom and won't sleep with my husband | 380 | 122 | text | Sep 12 |
| We had sex!! | 339 | 53 | text | Sep 3 |
| Once a week!? Wait, what?! | 313 | 14 | text | Sep 10 |
r/DeadBedrooms Audience Overlap r/DeadBedrooms Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
Overlapping audiences Communities with overlapping audiences
r/DeadBedrooms FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DeadBedrooms
What's the best time to post on r/DeadBedrooms?
Based on posting volume, r/DeadBedrooms is most active on Tuesdays around 10 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DeadBedrooms?
r/DeadBedrooms averages 44 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DeadBedrooms get?
Posts on r/DeadBedrooms average about 22 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DeadBedrooms get most?
On r/DeadBedrooms, most posts are text posts (100%)