1.8K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 59 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Sundays around 10 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement r/DeadBedrooms Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/DeadBedrooms Most Active Times When r/DeadBedrooms Is Most Active
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r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance r/DeadBedrooms Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Vent, Advice Welcome | 483 (35.5%) | 26 |
| Seeking Advice | 461 (33.9%) | 11 |
| Support and Advice Welcome | 132 (9.7%) | 25 |
| Support Only, No Advice | 113 (8.3%) | 27 |
| Positive Progress Post | 42 (3.1%) | 27 |
| Success Story | 27 (2.0%) | 65 |
| Relationship Ended or Ending | 25 (1.8%) | 55 |
| Give Me Constructive Criticism | 15 (1.1%) | 17 |
| Trigger Warning! | 15 (1.1%) | 21 |
| Seeking Advice- From HL | 14 (1.0%) | 9 |
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r/DeadBedrooms Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/DeadBedrooms
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| sex | 191 (10.9%) | 25 | 20 |
| dead | 118 (6.7%) | 15 | 11 |
| bedroom | 105 (6.0%) | 17 | 11 |
| years | 91 (5.2%) | 29 | 13 |
| wife | 91 (5.2%) | 60 | 25 |
| feel | 73 (4.2%) | 20 | 9 |
| advice | 67 (3.8%) | 3 | 7 |
| marriage | 66 (3.8%) | 15 | 12 |
| intimacy | 56 (3.2%) | 19 | 9 |
| relationship | 56 (3.2%) | 12 | 14 |
r/DeadBedrooms Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/DeadBedrooms
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Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/DeadBedrooms Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/DeadBedrooms
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Something I recently heard in therapy that I think a lot of us hear can benefit from.
Being a HLF is making me resent other women
I walked in on her masturbating.
Saw my wife in her underwear for the first time in 8 years
Large Toys have helped me cope
I was watching Modern Family tonight and was reminded just how dead my bedroom really is
Officially leaving this community
wife confirmed what i've been dreading. She doesn't desire me
The idea that people just randomly give / receive head is utterly baffling
I feel bad getting validation from a stranger...
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Something I recently heard in therapy that I think a lot of us hear can benefit from. | 941 | 129 | text | Jun 27 |
| Being a HLF is making me resent other women | 891 | 176 | text | Jun 3 |
| I walked in on her masturbating. | 877 | 181 | text | Jun 13 |
| Saw my wife in her underwear for the first time in 8 years | 683 | 121 | text | Jun 7 |
| Large Toys have helped me cope | 532 | 203 | text | Jun 6 |
| I was watching Modern Family tonight and was reminded just how dead my bedroom really is | 502 | 139 | text | Jun 2 |
| Officially leaving this community | 501 | 65 | text | Jun 29 |
| wife confirmed what i've been dreading. She doesn't desire me | 497 | 150 | text | Jun 17 |
| The idea that people just randomly give / receive head is utterly baffling | 478 | 222 | text | Jun 11 |
| I feel bad getting validation from a stranger... | 469 | 57 | text | Jun 10 |
r/DeadBedrooms Audience Overlap r/DeadBedrooms Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/DeadBedrooms FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/DeadBedrooms
What's the best time to post on r/DeadBedrooms?
Based on posting volume, r/DeadBedrooms is most active on Sundays around 10 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/DeadBedrooms?
r/DeadBedrooms averages 59 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/DeadBedrooms get?
Posts on r/DeadBedrooms average about 22 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/DeadBedrooms get most?
On r/DeadBedrooms, most posts are text posts (100%)