1.7K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 56 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Thursdays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (79%).
r/emotionalintelligence Traffic & Engagement r/emotionalintelligence Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/emotionalintelligence Most Active Times When r/emotionalintelligence Is Most Active
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r/emotionalintelligence Flair Performance r/emotionalintelligence Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| advice | 343 (48.9%) | 11 |
| discussion | 340 (48.4%) | 21 |
| media | 9 (1.3%) | 8 |
| news-article | 5 (0.7%) | 9 |
| peer-reviewed research | 5 (0.7%) | 1 |
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r/emotionalintelligence Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/emotionalintelligence
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| people | 170 (9.7%) | 38 | 14 |
| someone | 129 (7.4%) | 29 | 14 |
| feel | 127 (7.3%) | 29 | 12 |
| emotional | 111 (6.4%) | 27 | 15 |
| love | 94 (5.4%) | 37 | 13 |
| relationship | 78 (4.5%) | 26 | 27 |
| emotionally | 70 (4.0%) | 22 | 12 |
| know | 67 (3.8%) | 21 | 10 |
| stop | 61 (3.5%) | 12 | 8 |
| feeling | 50 (2.9%) | 6 | 5 |
r/emotionalintelligence Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/emotionalintelligence
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| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 7 | 1 |
r/emotionalintelligence Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/emotionalintelligence
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
As I get older, I understand love differently.
I have to hire someone to take to me my surgery and I don’t know how to not feel very hurt about it 32F.
Has anyone else noticed that trauma-informed people feel different to be around?
Why am I able to cut people off so easily?
I've started saying "Don't do that again" instead of "You hurt my feelings" and my life changed for the better
This goes to both genders actually
A hard lesson about dating I learned way too late
The Lindsay Clancy case is about to ruin my [28F] relationship with my bf [32M]…
Why are people so willing to let go of meaningful relationships, friendships and connections?
What's a subtle sign someone has been through some shit?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| As I get older, I understand love differently. | 989 | 68 | text | Aug 30 |
| I have to hire someone to take to me my surgery and I don’t know how to not feel very hurt about it 32F. | 691 | 126 | text | Aug 11 |
| Has anyone else noticed that trauma-informed people feel different to be around? | 678 | 81 | text | Aug 2 |
| Why am I able to cut people off so easily? | 653 | 221 | text | Aug 22 |
| I've started saying "Don't do that again" instead of "You hurt my feelings" and my life changed for the better | 578 | 35 | text | Aug 28 |
| This goes to both genders actually | 538 | 107 | text | Aug 5 |
| A hard lesson about dating I learned way too late | 464 | 87 | text | Aug 25 |
| The Lindsay Clancy case is about to ruin my [28F] relationship with my bf [32M]… | 438 | 1.2K | image | Aug 23 |
| Why are people so willing to let go of meaningful relationships, friendships and connections? | 431 | 73 | text | Aug 7 |
| What's a subtle sign someone has been through some shit? | 404 | 168 | text | Aug 12 |
r/emotionalintelligence Audience Overlap r/emotionalintelligence Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/emotionalintelligence FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/emotionalintelligence
What's the best time to post on r/emotionalintelligence?
Based on posting volume, r/emotionalintelligence is most active on Thursdays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/emotionalintelligence?
r/emotionalintelligence averages 56 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/emotionalintelligence get?
Posts on r/emotionalintelligence average about 17 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/emotionalintelligence get most?
On r/emotionalintelligence, most posts are text posts (79%)