1.7K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 57 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (74%).
r/emotionalintelligence Traffic & Engagement r/emotionalintelligence Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/emotionalintelligence Most Active Times When r/emotionalintelligence Is Most Active
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r/emotionalintelligence Flair Performance r/emotionalintelligence Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| discussion | 350 (51.5%) | 32 |
| advice | 323 (47.5%) | 12 |
| peer-reviewed research | 4 (0.6%) | 8 |
| media | 3 (0.4%) | 4 |
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r/emotionalintelligence Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/emotionalintelligence
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| people | 164 (9.6%) | 30 | 13 |
| someone | 139 (8.1%) | 42 | 13 |
| feel | 102 (6.0%) | 16 | 5 |
| emotional | 100 (5.8%) | 34 | 7 |
| love | 87 (5.1%) | 17 | 9 |
| relationship | 76 (4.5%) | 26 | 11 |
| emotionally | 65 (3.8%) | 49 | 14 |
| stop | 65 (3.8%) | 37 | 12 |
| need | 60 (3.5%) | 15 | 5 |
| know | 56 (3.3%) | 9 | 6 |
r/emotionalintelligence Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/emotionalintelligence
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| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 10 | 1 |
r/emotionalintelligence Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/emotionalintelligence
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Growing older is realising everything you were taught was wrong and life works in reverse
You can tell how emotionally intelligent someone is by what happens in the 5 seconds after you tell them “you hurt me.”
Do not take ANYTHING personally
Your nervous system usually knows before your heart is ready to admit it
Unpopular opinion: Being 'understanding' all the time isn't high emotional intelligence it's just low self-esteem
Walk away. Literally walk away from chaos, confusion, negativity, mixed signals. If you get on the wrong train, you should get off at the nearest station.
The surprising peace in letting others be uncomfortable
My best friend of 20 years proposed to me out of nowhere. I said no. Now I don’t want to be friends anymore. Am I overreacting?
Why do women expressing emotions seem to stress men out?
Choosing a partner is choosing which problems you can live with
r/emotionalintelligence Audience Overlap r/emotionalintelligence Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/emotionalintelligence FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/emotionalintelligence
What's the best time to post on r/emotionalintelligence?
Based on posting volume, r/emotionalintelligence is most active on Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/emotionalintelligence?
r/emotionalintelligence averages 57 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/emotionalintelligence get?
Posts on r/emotionalintelligence average about 20 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/emotionalintelligence get most?
On r/emotionalintelligence, most posts are text posts (74%)