208 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 7 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (97%).
r/becomingsecure Traffic & Engagement r/becomingsecure Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/becomingsecure Most Active Times When r/becomingsecure Is Most Active
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r/becomingsecure Flair Performance r/becomingsecure Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking Advice | 44 (47.8%) | 4 |
| Seeking Support | 10 (10.9%) | 4 |
| Anxious/Avoidant Trap | 8 (8.7%) | 8 |
| Vent | 7 (7.6%) | 9 |
| Romantic relationships ❤️ | 7 (7.6%) | 5 |
| AP seeking advice | 6 (6.5%) | 5 |
| Secure Seeking Advice | 4 (4.3%) | 6 |
| Breakthrough! | 3 (3.3%) | 2 |
| Tips 💡 | 3 (3.3%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/becomingsecure Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/becomingsecure
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| attachment | 39 (18.8%) | 5 | 6 |
| anxious | 37 (17.8%) | 5 | 7 |
| relationship | 23 (11.1%) | 3 | 2 |
| stop | 17 (8.2%) | 5 | 6 |
| attached | 17 (8.2%) | 3 | 5 |
| someone | 17 (8.2%) | 4 | 5 |
| avoidant | 16 (7.7%) | 4 | 9 |
| feel | 15 (7.2%) | 5 | 3 |
| secure | 15 (7.2%) | 5 | 4 |
| need | 14 (6.7%) | 3 | 4 |
r/becomingsecure Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/becomingsecure
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/becomingsecure Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/becomingsecure
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
How did I do?
Please, heal your anxious attachment before it's too late.
Sometimes security looks like doing the painful thing
The Complete Beginner's Guide to Healing Anxious Attachment & Becoming Secure
I never wanna date again I just want to be alone.
People who went from avoidant attachment to secure…what did healing actually feel like? 🥹
The Ultimate Guide to Stop Letting Anxious Attachment Control Your Relationships
It’s exhausting texting someone 24/7.
Here's how to stop seeking love and actually become happy being alone
To the Nervous System of Avoidants: the quiet architecture of distance, and the feelings that never stopped waiting
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| How did I do? | 56 | 28 | image | Jul 25 |
| Please, heal your anxious attachment before it's too late. | 46 | 40 | text | Jul 15 |
| Sometimes security looks like doing the painful thing | 24 | 8 | text | Jul 28 |
| The Complete Beginner's Guide to Healing Anxious Attachment & Becoming Secure | 22 | 8 | text | Jul 20 |
| I never wanna date again I just want to be alone. | 19 | 4 | text | Jul 28 |
| People who went from avoidant attachment to secure…what did healing actually feel like? 🥹 | 18 | 16 | text | Jul 13 |
| The Ultimate Guide to Stop Letting Anxious Attachment Control Your Relationships | 18 | 19 | text | Jul 19 |
| It’s exhausting texting someone 24/7. | 18 | 13 | text | Jul 16 |
| Here's how to stop seeking love and actually become happy being alone | 17 | 4 | text | Jul 23 |
| To the Nervous System of Avoidants: the quiet architecture of distance, and the feelings that never stopped waiting | 15 | 1 | text | Jul 19 |
r/becomingsecure Audience Overlap r/becomingsecure Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/becomingsecure FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/becomingsecure
What's the best time to post on r/becomingsecure?
Based on posting volume, r/becomingsecure is most active on Wednesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/becomingsecure?
r/becomingsecure averages 7 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/becomingsecure get?
Posts on r/becomingsecure average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/becomingsecure get most?
On r/becomingsecure, most posts are text posts (97%)