219 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 7 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (91%).
r/becomingsecure Traffic & Engagement r/becomingsecure Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/becomingsecure Most Active Times When r/becomingsecure Is Most Active
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r/becomingsecure Flair Performance r/becomingsecure Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Seeking Advice | 76 (56.7%) | 5 |
| AP seeking advice | 14 (10.4%) | 6 |
| Seeking Support | 14 (10.4%) | 6 |
| Vent | 9 (6.7%) | 4 |
| Romantic relationships ❤️ | 6 (4.5%) | 1 |
| Other | 5 (3.7%) | 23 |
| Break Ups | 4 (3.0%) | 2 |
| Breakthrough! | 3 (2.2%) | 29 |
| Tips 💡 | 3 (2.2%) | 92 |
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r/becomingsecure Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/becomingsecure
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| attachment | 34 (15.5%) | 12 | 7 |
| anxious | 29 (13.2%) | 11 | 8 |
| relationship | 20 (9.1%) | 6 | 10 |
| someone | 20 (9.1%) | 9 | 8 |
| secure | 20 (9.1%) | 7 | 5 |
| love | 13 (5.9%) | 5 | 4 |
| anxiety | 12 (5.5%) | 4 | 7 |
| avoidant | 12 (5.5%) | 9 | 6 |
| need | 10 (4.6%) | 2 | 3 |
r/becomingsecure Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/becomingsecure
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/becomingsecure Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/becomingsecure
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Inner child healing tips 💚
Sharing my excel spreadsheet for my Thesis: do people with different insecure attachment styles behave in similar obsersvable patterns of behavior when they share the same core fears?
For Anxious-Attachers, a big sign of growth is when you start accepting the Avoidant for what they are.
Anxious Attachment 🤮
How do I tell the difference between anxious attachment being triggered and someone genuinely not meeting my needs?
Read this if you miss someone who was genuinely bad for you
How do you actually become secure when you’re independent everywhere except in relationships?
A Proposed Four-Type Behavioral Framework Within Insecure Attachment: Seeking Academic Feedback
My bf dumped me over my anxious attachment, suggesting we be “lovers” instead.
How I healed my anxious attachment
r/becomingsecure Audience Overlap r/becomingsecure Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/becomingsecure FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/becomingsecure
What's the best time to post on r/becomingsecure?
Based on posting volume, r/becomingsecure is most active on Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/becomingsecure?
r/becomingsecure averages 7 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/becomingsecure get?
Posts on r/becomingsecure average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/becomingsecure get most?
On r/becomingsecure, most posts are text posts (91%)