362 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 12 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Fridays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (84%).
r/Disorganized_Attach Traffic & Engagement r/Disorganized_Attach Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/Disorganized_Attach Most Active Times When r/Disorganized_Attach Is Most Active
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r/Disorganized_Attach Flair Performance r/Disorganized_Attach Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice (Other than therapy) | 185 (51.7%) | 3 |
| FAs Only (User Flair Required) | 62 (17.3%) | 5 |
| CHANGE ME! | 34 (9.5%) | 4 |
| Vent (FAs Only) | 29 (8.1%) | 7 |
| Resources / Helpful Tips | 21 (5.9%) | 3 |
| Trauma Dump | 19 (5.3%) | 2 |
| Success Story | 8 (2.2%) | 7 |
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r/Disorganized_Attach Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Disorganized_Attach
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 76 (21.0%) | 2 | 2 |
| attachment | 42 (11.6%) | 4 | 3 |
| fearful | 39 (10.8%) | 3 | 3 |
| relationship | 32 (8.8%) | 3 | 4 |
| someone | 26 (7.2%) | 5 | 5 |
| anxious | 21 (5.8%) | 2 | 2 |
| anyone | 21 (5.8%) | 3 | 3 |
| partner | 20 (5.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| advice | 20 (5.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| i'm | 19 (5.3%) | 4 | 4 |
r/Disorganized_Attach Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Disorganized_Attach
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Disorganized_Attach Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Disorganized_Attach
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It's a humbling experience when the tables turn
I don’t want to do the work anymore.
How does it feel for you when you realize you have feelings for them as a FA?
People with fearful-avoidant or dismissive-avoidant attachment: Do you avoid initiating contact even when you care about someone and want to get closer to them?
Suddenly feeling disgusted by people I'm dating
What It's Feels Like to Long for Love While Living with a Disorganized Attachment Style
Attracted to men who make me feel like a nuisance/inconvenience
Finally realizing my most debilitating core wound
“Every day, I hoped you’d finally choose me.” I didn’t understand until it was too late.
Any FAs in long-term relationships?
r/Disorganized_Attach Audience Overlap r/Disorganized_Attach Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Disorganized_Attach FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Disorganized_Attach
What's the best time to post on r/Disorganized_Attach?
Based on posting volume, r/Disorganized_Attach is most active on Fridays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Disorganized_Attach?
r/Disorganized_Attach averages 12 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Disorganized_Attach get?
Posts on r/Disorganized_Attach average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Disorganized_Attach get most?
On r/Disorganized_Attach, most posts are text posts (84%)