271 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 9 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 8 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (87%).
r/Disorganized_Attach Traffic & Engagement r/Disorganized_Attach Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/Disorganized_Attach Most Active Times When r/Disorganized_Attach Is Most Active
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r/Disorganized_Attach Flair Performance r/Disorganized_Attach Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice (Other than therapy) | 81 (44.3%) | 4 |
| FAs Only (User Flair Required) | 25 (13.7%) | 4 |
| Vent (FAs Only) | 25 (13.7%) | 7 |
| CHANGE ME! | 17 (9.3%) | 4 |
| Trauma Dump | 16 (8.7%) | 3 |
| Resources / Helpful Tips | 14 (7.7%) | 4 |
| Success Story | 5 (2.7%) | 2 |
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r/Disorganized_Attach Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Disorganized_Attach
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 33 (12.2%) | 6 | 9 |
| attachment | 23 (8.5%) | 4 | 3 |
| relationship | 22 (8.1%) | 5 | 5 |
| help | 15 (5.5%) | 2 | 2 |
| someone | 14 (5.2%) | 7 | 7 |
| people | 14 (5.2%) | 5 | 9 |
| anxious | 13 (4.8%) | 4 | 7 |
| love | 12 (4.4%) | 4 | 2 |
| need | 11 (4.1%) | 3 | 3 |
| anyone | 10 (3.7%) | 5 | 4 |
r/Disorganized_Attach Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Disorganized_Attach
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Disorganized_Attach Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Disorganized_Attach
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i’m sick of the avoidant hate club
I hate being the reason I cant have the person I want
I crave love in theory, but the second it becomes real, my body treats it like a threat.
Do you think having no friends is a canon event for FAs?
I think I sabotage relationships because I’m terrified of being abandoned
I’ve gone completely numb & avoidant in my new relationship, idk what to do.
Does anyone else feel more dysregulated when they genuinely admire someone?
Writing this with tears in my eyes
Who dysregulates you more than others?
Why do I ghost people even when I like them, or when they like me?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| i’m sick of the avoidant hate club | 63 | 37 | text | Sep 19 |
| I hate being the reason I cant have the person I want | 50 | 19 | text | Sep 9 |
| I crave love in theory, but the second it becomes real, my body treats it like a threat. | 32 | 7 | text | Sep 16 |
| Do you think having no friends is a canon event for FAs? | 29 | 13 | text | Sep 25 |
| I think I sabotage relationships because I’m terrified of being abandoned | 25 | 9 | text | Sep 6 |
| I’ve gone completely numb & avoidant in my new relationship, idk what to do. | 24 | 7 | text | Sep 22 |
| Does anyone else feel more dysregulated when they genuinely admire someone? | 24 | 4 | text | Sep 27 |
| Writing this with tears in my eyes | 23 | 7 | text | Sep 17 |
| Who dysregulates you more than others? | 22 | 30 | text | Sep 24 |
| Why do I ghost people even when I like them, or when they like me? | 21 | 25 | text | Sep 17 |
r/Disorganized_Attach Audience Overlap r/Disorganized_Attach Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Disorganized_Attach FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Disorganized_Attach
What's the best time to post on r/Disorganized_Attach?
Based on posting volume, r/Disorganized_Attach is most active on Tuesdays around 8 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Disorganized_Attach?
r/Disorganized_Attach averages 9 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Disorganized_Attach get?
Posts on r/Disorganized_Attach average about 5 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Disorganized_Attach get most?
On r/Disorganized_Attach, most posts are text posts (87%)