403 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 13 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Thursdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/FearfulAvoidant Traffic & Engagement r/FearfulAvoidant Traffic & Engagement
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r/FearfulAvoidant Most Active Times When r/FearfulAvoidant Is Most Active
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r/FearfulAvoidant Flair Performance r/FearfulAvoidant Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| help me heal / advice needed | 111 (63.1%) | 3 |
| general / meta | 29 (16.5%) | 4 |
| venting | 13 (7.4%) | 7 |
| FA only | 13 (7.4%) | 1 |
| resources | 4 (2.3%) | 1 |
| healing / helpful | 3 (1.7%) | 1 |
| healing | 3 (1.7%) | 17 |
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r/FearfulAvoidant Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/FearfulAvoidant
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 76 (18.9%) | 2 | 2 |
| fearful | 59 (14.6%) | 2 | 2 |
| relationship | 30 (7.4%) | 3 | 4 |
| someone | 28 (7.0%) | 5 | 5 |
| advice | 23 (5.7%) | 1 | 1 |
| help | 22 (5.5%) | 3 | 3 |
| need | 18 (4.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| feel | 17 (4.2%) | 13 | 11 |
| breakup | 16 (4.0%) | 1 | 1 |
| avoidants | 16 (4.0%) | 1 | 2 |
r/FearfulAvoidant Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/FearfulAvoidant
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/FearfulAvoidant Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/FearfulAvoidant
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Anyone feel more peaceful when single?
I hate getting close to people because it’ll inevitably end
I feel so defective
What I’ve learned reconnecting with my ex
Everything makes me pull away
New mods and what's changed
I dread the feeling of liking someone
If I can’t trust someone, I don’t want anything from them.
How many of you have never been in a relationship?
Can fearful-avoidant deactivation feel like genuine disinterest in your partner?
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Anyone feel more peaceful when single? | 75 | 61 | text | Aug 11 |
| I hate getting close to people because it’ll inevitably end | 53 | 34 | text | Aug 30 |
| I feel so defective | 52 | 19 | text | Aug 22 |
| What I’ve learned reconnecting with my ex | 50 | 36 | text | Aug 13 |
| Everything makes me pull away | 40 | 18 | text | Aug 2 |
| New mods and what's changed | 33 | 10 | text | Aug 10 |
| I dread the feeling of liking someone | 27 | 11 | text | Aug 26 |
| If I can’t trust someone, I don’t want anything from them. | 25 | 6 | text | Aug 30 |
| How many of you have never been in a relationship? | 22 | 44 | text | Aug 26 |
| Can fearful-avoidant deactivation feel like genuine disinterest in your partner? | 21 | 28 | text | Aug 6 |
r/FearfulAvoidant Audience Overlap r/FearfulAvoidant Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/FearfulAvoidant FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/FearfulAvoidant
What's the best time to post on r/FearfulAvoidant?
Based on posting volume, r/FearfulAvoidant is most active on Thursdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/FearfulAvoidant?
r/FearfulAvoidant averages 13 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/FearfulAvoidant get?
Posts on r/FearfulAvoidant average about 3 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/FearfulAvoidant get most?
On r/FearfulAvoidant, most posts are text posts (100%)