3.6K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 115 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 5 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (80%).
r/AvoidantBreakUps Traffic & Engagement r/AvoidantBreakUps Traffic & Engagement
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How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/AvoidantBreakUps Most Active Times When r/AvoidantBreakUps Is Most Active
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r/AvoidantBreakUps Flair Performance r/AvoidantBreakUps Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Vent/Rant | 532 (33.2%) | 9 |
| Avoidant Advice Requested | 278 (17.3%) | 3 |
| FA Breakup | 278 (17.3%) | 5 |
| DA Breakup | 273 (17.0%) | 6 |
| Personal Growth | 122 (7.6%) | 12 |
| Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work | 40 (2.5%) | 13 |
| FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ | 19 (1.2%) | 4 |
| From FA’s Perspective | 17 (1.1%) | 3 |
| DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ | 17 (1.1%) | 8 |
| Poll | 13 (0.8%) | 6 |
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r/AvoidantBreakUps Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AvoidantBreakUps
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 775 (21.8%) | 9 | 10 |
| breakup | 193 (5.4%) | 6 | 5 |
| back | 189 (5.3%) | 11 | 11 |
| avoidants | 157 (4.4%) | 17 | 17 |
| relationship | 149 (4.2%) | 5 | 5 |
| contact | 135 (3.8%) | 5 | 7 |
| feel | 128 (3.6%) | 12 | 9 |
| broke | 124 (3.5%) | 3 | 4 |
| advice | 124 (3.5%) | 4 | 4 |
| discard | 123 (3.5%) | 12 | 10 |
r/AvoidantBreakUps Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AvoidantBreakUps
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| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 18 | 4 |
| youtu.be | 6 | 2 |
| instagram.com | 5 | 2 |
r/AvoidantBreakUps Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
1 year post discard: my unconventional advice.
Dating an avoidant man be like…
This made me giggle…….
Things to remember when you yearn for your avoidant (feel free to add to this list)
This hit hard today.
You just wrote four paragraphs proving they abused you, then ended with “but I still love them.” Wake the fuck up.
If you want a laugh. And the truth 😂
Being with an avoidant is like “yeah i’m their insignificant other”
Some of you aren’t doing no contact. You’re silently waiting.
I'm going to keep sharing pictures of my new puppy to heal you guys! 💖💝💖
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 year post discard: my unconventional advice. | 255 | 91 | text | Jul 31 |
| Dating an avoidant man be like… | 244 | 47 | image | Jul 21 |
| This made me giggle……. | 237 | 23 | image | Jul 9 |
| Things to remember when you yearn for your avoidant (feel free to add to this list) | 219 | 81 | text | Jul 11 |
| This hit hard today. | 202 | 27 | image | Jul 26 |
| You just wrote four paragraphs proving they abused you, then ended with “but I still love them.” Wake the fuck up. | 183 | 120 | text | Jul 12 |
| If you want a laugh. And the truth 😂 | 176 | 144 | text | Jul 17 |
| Being with an avoidant is like “yeah i’m their insignificant other” | 171 | 34 | text | Jul 21 |
| Some of you aren’t doing no contact. You’re silently waiting. | 165 | 58 | text | Jul 15 |
| I'm going to keep sharing pictures of my new puppy to heal you guys! 💖💝💖 | 163 | 32 | image | Jul 4 |
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r/AvoidantBreakUps FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AvoidantBreakUps
What's the best time to post on r/AvoidantBreakUps?
Based on posting volume, r/AvoidantBreakUps is most active on Wednesdays around 5 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AvoidantBreakUps?
r/AvoidantBreakUps averages 115 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AvoidantBreakUps get?
Posts on r/AvoidantBreakUps average about 8 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AvoidantBreakUps get most?
On r/AvoidantBreakUps, most posts are text posts (80%)