3.4K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 114 posts/day, top 1% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (78%).
r/AvoidantBreakUps Traffic & Engagement r/AvoidantBreakUps Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/AvoidantBreakUps Most Active Times When r/AvoidantBreakUps Is Most Active
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r/AvoidantBreakUps Flair Performance r/AvoidantBreakUps Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Vent/Rant | 535 (33.3%) | 9 |
| DA Breakup | 306 (19.1%) | 8 |
| Avoidant Advice Requested | 267 (16.6%) | 3 |
| FA Breakup | 242 (15.1%) | 6 |
| Personal Growth | 121 (7.5%) | 15 |
| Later Stage Healing - Your Own Inner Work | 38 (2.4%) | 9 |
| From FA’s Perspective | 30 (1.9%) | 9 |
| DA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ | 23 (1.4%) | 6 |
| FA Breakup - LTR 1 Year+ | 17 (1.1%) | 6 |
| Poll | 14 (0.9%) | 4 |
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r/AvoidantBreakUps Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 697 (20.4%) | 10 | 10 |
| relationship | 171 (5.0%) | 5 | 6 |
| back | 171 (5.0%) | 10 | 9 |
| breakup | 158 (4.6%) | 4 | 4 |
| months | 130 (3.8%) | 7 | 4 |
| broke | 129 (3.8%) | 3 | 4 |
| need | 129 (3.8%) | 6 | 3 |
| avoidants | 120 (3.5%) | 13 | 15 |
| love | 119 (3.5%) | 6 | 4 |
| discard | 115 (3.4%) | 10 | 7 |
r/AvoidantBreakUps Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 9 | 3 |
| youtu.be | 8 | 3 |
| instagram.com | 4 | 1 |
r/AvoidantBreakUps Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AvoidantBreakUps
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Death by Avoidant
Female avoidant explains you how they think
Self-sabotage is real
THEY ARE NOT COMING BACK
Dear avoidant
Nobody Told Me This Is What Detaching From an Avoidant Actually Feels Like
He came back 8 years after the discard.
deep inside they are miserable
“Avoidants are like wounded birds. you help heal them & show them it’s safe to fly, and once they are in the air, they shit on you”
This line from Mad Men
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Death by Avoidant | 238 | 91 | text | Sep 27 |
| Female avoidant explains you how they think | 235 | 252 | text | Sep 20 |
| Self-sabotage is real | 221 | 26 | image | Sep 15 |
| THEY ARE NOT COMING BACK | 203 | 68 | text | Sep 28 |
| Dear avoidant | 196 | 29 | image | Sep 13 |
| Nobody Told Me This Is What Detaching From an Avoidant Actually Feels Like | 184 | 73 | text | Sep 19 |
| He came back 8 years after the discard. | 176 | 104 | text | Sep 30 |
| deep inside they are miserable | 165 | 68 | text | Sep 21 |
| “Avoidants are like wounded birds. you help heal them & show them it’s safe to fly, and once they are in the air, they shit on you” | 165 | 32 | text | Sep 1 |
| This line from Mad Men | 157 | 5 | image | Sep 23 |
r/AvoidantBreakUps Audience Overlap r/AvoidantBreakUps Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AvoidantBreakUps FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AvoidantBreakUps
What's the best time to post on r/AvoidantBreakUps?
Based on posting volume, r/AvoidantBreakUps is most active on Wednesdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AvoidantBreakUps?
r/AvoidantBreakUps averages 114 posts per day and ranks in the top 1% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AvoidantBreakUps get?
Posts on r/AvoidantBreakUps average about 8 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AvoidantBreakUps get most?
On r/AvoidantBreakUps, most posts are text posts (78%)