569 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 19 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly link posts (68%).
r/AvoidantRelationships Traffic & Engagement r/AvoidantRelationships Traffic & Engagement
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r/AvoidantRelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AvoidantRelationships
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 172 (30.2%) | 1 | 1 |
| relationship | 42 (7.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| need | 38 (6.7%) | 1 | 1 |
| back | 31 (5.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| advice | 31 (5.5%) | 1 | 1 |
| partner | 27 (4.8%) | 1 | 1 |
| broke | 25 (4.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| someone | 25 (4.4%) | 1 | 0 |
| love | 24 (4.2%) | 1 | 0 |
| know | 23 (4.0%) | 1 | 0 |
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r/AvoidantRelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AvoidantRelationships
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The silent treatment is just an immature, nasty way to assert control over communication. It's not about space or being overwhelmed
Living with a person presenting dismissive avoidant traits feel like living alone and having to have a secret life just to not die inside...
DA Long term versus short term
Seeing him differently now
The push-pull pattern that keeps happening even when I can see it coming
How do I break the cycle?
A farewell poem to my avoidant
Is it unrequited love with Avoidants?
I slept with a mutual friend after he cut me off now he’s devastated
The End, finally
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| The silent treatment is just an immature, nasty way to assert control over communication. It's not about space or being overwhelmed | 12 | 2 | text | Sep 17 |
| Living with a person presenting dismissive avoidant traits feel like living alone and having to have a secret life just to not die inside... | 11 | 0 | text | Sep 17 |
| DA Long term versus short term | 8 | 29 | text | Sep 16 |
| Seeing him differently now | 8 | 9 | text | Sep 23 |
| The push-pull pattern that keeps happening even when I can see it coming | 8 | 7 | text | Sep 16 |
| How do I break the cycle? | 7 | 1 | text | Sep 18 |
| A farewell poem to my avoidant | 6 | 0 | text | Sep 23 |
| Is it unrequited love with Avoidants? | 5 | 3 | text | Sep 2 |
| I slept with a mutual friend after he cut me off now he’s devastated | 5 | 8 | text | Sep 4 |
| The End, finally | 4 | 1 | text | Sep 22 |
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r/AvoidantRelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AvoidantRelationships
What's the best time to post on r/AvoidantRelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/AvoidantRelationships is most active on Mondays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AvoidantRelationships?
r/AvoidantRelationships averages 19 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AvoidantRelationships get?
Posts on r/AvoidantRelationships average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AvoidantRelationships get most?
On r/AvoidantRelationships, most posts are link posts (68%)