346 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 11 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (56%).
r/AvoidantRelationships Traffic & Engagement r/AvoidantRelationships Traffic & Engagement
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r/AvoidantRelationships Most Active Times When r/AvoidantRelationships Is Most Active
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r/AvoidantRelationships Flair Performance r/AvoidantRelationships Flair Performance
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r/AvoidantRelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AvoidantRelationships
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| avoidant | 175 (50.6%) | 2 | 2 |
| help | 21 (6.1%) | 1 | 1 |
| advice | 20 (5.8%) | 1 | 2 |
| relationship | 19 (5.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| need | 19 (5.5%) | 1 | 2 |
| attachment | 17 (4.9%) | 2 | 0 |
| love | 17 (4.9%) | 1 | 1 |
| know | 16 (4.6%) | 1 | 1 |
| partner | 16 (4.6%) | 3 | 2 |
| back | 16 (4.6%) | 1 | 1 |
r/AvoidantRelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AvoidantRelationships
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r/AvoidantRelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AvoidantRelationships
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Why are some dismissive avoidants incredibly warm with everyone except their partner?
Dealing with avoidant partners
4 Years Recovered Avoidant M (31) - Recently Discarded by a DA - Ask me anything
Massive breakthrough with my avoidant 🥹
Avoidant discard breakup experience
Sent this to my avoidant partner. How will he react?
Losing attraction
This guy is really avoidant
Avoidant friend discarded me but still reading my messages
Avoidant Narcs
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Why are some dismissive avoidants incredibly warm with everyone except their partner? | 16 | 3 | text | Jul 1 |
| Dealing with avoidant partners | 15 | 17 | text | Jul 21 |
| 4 Years Recovered Avoidant M (31) - Recently Discarded by a DA - Ask me anything | 9 | 22 | text | Jul 6 |
| Massive breakthrough with my avoidant 🥹 | 8 | 0 | text | Jul 9 |
| Avoidant discard breakup experience | 7 | 20 | text | Jul 23 |
| Sent this to my avoidant partner. How will he react? | 7 | 19 | text | Jul 2 |
| Losing attraction | 6 | 2 | text | Jul 1 |
| This guy is really avoidant | 5 | 4 | text | Jul 8 |
| Avoidant friend discarded me but still reading my messages | 5 | 7 | text | Jul 7 |
| Avoidant Narcs | 5 | 2 | text | Jul 22 |
r/AvoidantRelationships Audience Overlap r/AvoidantRelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AvoidantRelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AvoidantRelationships
What's the best time to post on r/AvoidantRelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/AvoidantRelationships is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AvoidantRelationships?
r/AvoidantRelationships averages 11 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AvoidantRelationships get?
Posts on r/AvoidantRelationships average about 1 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AvoidantRelationships get most?
On r/AvoidantRelationships, most posts are text posts (56%)