485 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 16 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Mondays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly link posts (62%).
r/NRelationships Traffic & Engagement r/NRelationships Traffic & Engagement
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r/NRelationships Most Active Times When r/NRelationships Is Most Active
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r/NRelationships Flair Performance r/NRelationships Flair Performance
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r/NRelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/NRelationships
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| relationship | 43 (8.9%) | 2 | 2 |
| narcissist | 34 (7.0%) | 4 | 2 |
| years | 32 (6.6%) | 1 | 0 |
| narcissistic | 27 (5.6%) | 2 | 3 |
| advice | 27 (5.6%) | 1 | 0 |
| need | 20 (4.1%) | 1 | 1 |
| abusive | 18 (3.7%) | 1 | 0 |
| boyfriend | 17 (3.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| toxic | 17 (3.5%) | 1 | 0 |
| help | 17 (3.5%) | 2 | 1 |
r/NRelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/NRelationships
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| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtu.be | 4 | 5 |
r/NRelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/NRelationships
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
If you are thinking about continuing with them…think about this.
That’s right 😩💔
Has anyone else dealt with memory loss after their relationship with the narcissist?
Told Him He No Longer Has Access To My Body
Narcissistic apology
“I 31f spent $350+ on his 34m anniversary gift, got dressed up for dinner, and then he told me our relationship was ‘fake’.”
To not my love..
Leaving the Narcissist Behind
Has anyone tried baiting a narcissist with a fake vulnerability to ridicule?
Looking for support: Struggling with trauma loops after severe domestic abuse, isolation, and total manipulation
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| If you are thinking about continuing with them…think about this. | 216 | 2 | image | Sep 19 |
| That’s right 😩💔 | 57 | 27 | image | Sep 15 |
| Has anyone else dealt with memory loss after their relationship with the narcissist? | 29 | 9 | text | Sep 20 |
| Told Him He No Longer Has Access To My Body | 21 | 7 | text | Sep 3 |
| Narcissistic apology | 20 | 30 | image | Sep 16 |
| “I 31f spent $350+ on his 34m anniversary gift, got dressed up for dinner, and then he told me our relationship was ‘fake’.” | 20 | 32 | text | Sep 9 |
| To not my love.. | 16 | 4 | text | Sep 7 |
| Leaving the Narcissist Behind | 13 | 4 | link | Sep 30 |
| Has anyone tried baiting a narcissist with a fake vulnerability to ridicule? | 12 | 12 | text | Sep 4 |
| Looking for support: Struggling with trauma loops after severe domestic abuse, isolation, and total manipulation | 11 | 1 | text | Sep 14 |
r/NRelationships Audience Overlap r/NRelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/NRelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/NRelationships
What's the best time to post on r/NRelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/NRelationships is most active on Mondays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/NRelationships?
r/NRelationships averages 16 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/NRelationships get?
Posts on r/NRelationships average about 2 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/NRelationships get most?
On r/NRelationships, most posts are link posts (62%)