1.2K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 38 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Saturdays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (82%).
r/NarcissisticSpouses Traffic & Engagement r/NarcissisticSpouses Traffic & Engagement
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r/NarcissisticSpouses Most Active Times When r/NarcissisticSpouses Is Most Active
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r/NarcissisticSpouses Flair Performance r/NarcissisticSpouses Flair Performance
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r/NarcissisticSpouses Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/NarcissisticSpouses
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| narcissist | 93 (8.0%) | 13 | 10 |
| narc | 91 (7.8%) | 12 | 13 |
| narcissistic | 67 (5.7%) | 9 | 9 |
| husband | 49 (4.2%) | 18 | 15 |
| leave | 40 (3.4%) | 10 | 10 |
| anyone | 40 (3.4%) | 16 | 11 |
| abuse | 38 (3.3%) | 7 | 4 |
| help | 37 (3.2%) | 4 | 6 |
| feel | 37 (3.2%) | 16 | 9 |
| know | 36 (3.1%) | 11 | 9 |
r/NarcissisticSpouses Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/NarcissisticSpouses
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtu.be | 5 | 1 |
| tiktok.com | 4 | 2 |
r/NarcissisticSpouses Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/NarcissisticSpouses
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
This has felt so real lately
Feel very humiliated that I was fooled for so long.
I just learned my narc ex killed his wife and himself
What are the biggest signs that someone has narcissistic personality disorder?
How do I leave?
Wow.
is your partner only abusive to you?
He’s ruined ANOTHER evening
My husband saw I’m on this NarcissisticSpouses Reddit,then insulted and gaslit all 32,000 of us!
I wish he would just disappear
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| This has felt so real lately | 415 | 59 | image | Aug 21 |
| Feel very humiliated that I was fooled for so long. | 195 | 34 | image | Aug 22 |
| I just learned my narc ex killed his wife and himself | 180 | 20 | text | Aug 13 |
| What are the biggest signs that someone has narcissistic personality disorder? | 176 | 141 | text | Aug 7 |
| How do I leave? | 172 | 103 | image | Aug 4 |
| Wow. | 163 | 9 | image | Aug 31 |
| is your partner only abusive to you? | 140 | 41 | text | Aug 27 |
| He’s ruined ANOTHER evening | 125 | 39 | text | Aug 2 |
| My husband saw I’m on this NarcissisticSpouses Reddit,then insulted and gaslit all 32,000 of us! | 122 | 83 | text | Aug 13 |
| I wish he would just disappear | 108 | 47 | text | Aug 20 |
r/NarcissisticSpouses Audience Overlap r/NarcissisticSpouses Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/NarcissisticSpouses FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/NarcissisticSpouses
What's the best time to post on r/NarcissisticSpouses?
Based on posting volume, r/NarcissisticSpouses is most active on Saturdays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/NarcissisticSpouses?
r/NarcissisticSpouses averages 38 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/NarcissisticSpouses get?
Posts on r/NarcissisticSpouses average about 12 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/NarcissisticSpouses get most?
On r/NarcissisticSpouses, most posts are text posts (82%)