1.0K posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 35 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Mondays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (79%).
r/NarcissisticSpouses Traffic & Engagement r/NarcissisticSpouses Traffic & Engagement
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r/NarcissisticSpouses Most Active Times When r/NarcissisticSpouses Is Most Active
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r/NarcissisticSpouses Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/NarcissisticSpouses
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| narcissist | 90 (8.6%) | 11 | 9 |
| narc | 71 (6.8%) | 11 | 12 |
| narcissistic | 46 (4.4%) | 9 | 9 |
| husband | 35 (3.4%) | 11 | 10 |
| feel | 35 (3.4%) | 13 | 10 |
| anyone | 35 (3.4%) | 15 | 12 |
| help | 33 (3.2%) | 7 | 7 |
| relationship | 28 (2.7%) | 8 | 8 |
| i'm | 28 (2.7%) | 9 | 9 |
| know | 27 (2.6%) | 16 | 11 |
r/NarcissisticSpouses Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/NarcissisticSpouses
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| youtube.com | 12 | 1 |
| youtu.be | 6 | 1 |
| i.imgur.com | 4 | 75 |
| facebook.com | 3 | 1 |
r/NarcissisticSpouses Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/NarcissisticSpouses
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
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Today is the day. I’m packing my things, taking my dog, and I’m terrified. Please tell it’s gonna be okay 🥹
Update - I did in fact blow up my life
I don't know guys, I think he deserves a 22nd chance
This is how narcissists keep control in relationships
The Narcissist You Never See Coming. This is the most dangerous type of narcissist
Sad that this is the life I've chosen
“You are so awful and you ruin my life! but you must stay available to comfort me, validate me, let me touch you, and have sex with you”
Living with a narcissist feels like raising a man-child
Your crazy! You need help! I’ve never had this problem with anyone else!
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| . | 200 | 15 | image | Jun 14 |
| Today is the day. I’m packing my things, taking my dog, and I’m terrified. Please tell it’s gonna be okay 🥹 | 166 | 47 | text | Jun 22 |
| Update - I did in fact blow up my life | 150 | 30 | text | Jun 10 |
| I don't know guys, I think he deserves a 22nd chance | 145 | 122 | image | Jun 26 |
| This is how narcissists keep control in relationships | 144 | 40 | text | Jun 7 |
| The Narcissist You Never See Coming. This is the most dangerous type of narcissist | 143 | 50 | text | Jun 15 |
| Sad that this is the life I've chosen | 131 | 39 | text | Jun 4 |
| “You are so awful and you ruin my life! but you must stay available to comfort me, validate me, let me touch you, and have sex with you” | 122 | 50 | text | Jun 15 |
| Living with a narcissist feels like raising a man-child | 120 | 32 | text | Jun 27 |
| Your crazy! You need help! I’ve never had this problem with anyone else! | 113 | 26 | text | Jun 13 |
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r/NarcissisticSpouses FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/NarcissisticSpouses
What's the best time to post on r/NarcissisticSpouses?
Based on posting volume, r/NarcissisticSpouses is most active on Mondays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/NarcissisticSpouses?
r/NarcissisticSpouses averages 35 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/NarcissisticSpouses get?
Posts on r/NarcissisticSpouses average about 11 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/NarcissisticSpouses get most?
On r/NarcissisticSpouses, most posts are text posts (79%)