549 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 18 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 5 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/emotionalabuse Traffic & Engagement r/emotionalabuse Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/emotionalabuse Most Active Times When r/emotionalabuse Is Most Active
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r/emotionalabuse Flair Performance r/emotionalabuse Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 151 (42.9%) | 6 |
| Support | 83 (23.6%) | 5 |
| Recovery | 30 (8.5%) | 3 |
| Parental Abuse | 29 (8.2%) | 1 |
| Long | 24 (6.8%) | 3 |
| Spousal Abuse | 23 (6.5%) | 8 |
| Medium | 8 (2.3%) | 5 |
| Short | 4 (1.1%) | 4 |
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r/emotionalabuse Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/emotionalabuse
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| abuse | 67 (12.2%) | 5 | 4 |
| abusive | 54 (9.8%) | 8 | 6 |
| feel | 41 (7.5%) | 5 | 3 |
| emotional | 37 (6.7%) | 5 | 4 |
| need | 30 (5.5%) | 2 | 3 |
| i'm | 25 (4.5%) | 4 | 3 |
| relationship | 25 (4.5%) | 6 | 4 |
| emotionally | 24 (4.4%) | 9 | 9 |
| help | 21 (3.8%) | 2 | 1 |
| know | 20 (3.6%) | 10 | 5 |
r/emotionalabuse Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/emotionalabuse
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/emotionalabuse Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/emotionalabuse
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
I found out from Reddit that my husband stalked me for 3 years before we got together and I don’t know how to leave.
Saying “Yes” to Sexual Coercion is Not Consent
I've learned the red flags to watch for in an abusive man
Don’t have too much empathy for men…
What is the cruelest thing your abuser said?
I left an emotionally abusive marriage and our mutual friends have chosen his side. Are they right about him?
One year ago I left a 17-year coercively controlling relationship. My abuser was a psychologist. This is what losing ownership of your own reality looked like.
If your list is this long it’s time to leave
if your partner "jokes" about harming you , it means it's their fantasy
Is this emotional abuse? I don’t know what to do.
r/emotionalabuse Audience Overlap r/emotionalabuse Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/emotionalabuse FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/emotionalabuse
What's the best time to post on r/emotionalabuse?
Based on posting volume, r/emotionalabuse is most active on Tuesdays around 5 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/emotionalabuse?
r/emotionalabuse averages 18 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/emotionalabuse get?
Posts on r/emotionalabuse average about 5 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/emotionalabuse get most?
On r/emotionalabuse, most posts are text posts (100%)