631 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 20 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Sundays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/emotionalabuse Traffic & Engagement r/emotionalabuse Traffic & Engagement
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r/emotionalabuse Most Active Times When r/emotionalabuse Is Most Active
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r/emotionalabuse Flair Performance r/emotionalabuse Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 165 (42.7%) | 4 |
| Support | 78 (20.2%) | 3 |
| Parental Abuse | 45 (11.7%) | 2 |
| Long | 35 (9.1%) | 2 |
| Recovery | 30 (7.8%) | 8 |
| Spousal Abuse | 21 (5.4%) | 6 |
| Medium | 6 (1.6%) | 12 |
| Short | 6 (1.6%) | 7 |
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r/emotionalabuse Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/emotionalabuse
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| abuse | 86 (13.6%) | 4 | 4 |
| abusive | 61 (9.7%) | 4 | 3 |
| emotional | 48 (7.6%) | 3 | 4 |
| feel | 37 (5.9%) | 3 | 2 |
| need | 37 (5.9%) | 3 | 2 |
| know | 37 (5.9%) | 3 | 3 |
| emotionally | 35 (5.5%) | 3 | 3 |
| relationship | 31 (4.9%) | 3 | 2 |
| help | 28 (4.4%) | 3 | 2 |
| advice | 26 (4.1%) | 2 | 2 |
r/emotionalabuse Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/emotionalabuse
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r/emotionalabuse Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/emotionalabuse
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Exposing the "Nice Guy" tactic: How boundary erosion takes place
You don’t have to leave
Great quote from Lundy Bancroft
Told him I wanted a divorce and his response was unexpected
My partner keeps insisting that his version of events should replace my lived experience
Husband is shaming our 4.5 year old by calling him a baby
What to do when they’re having a tantrum/outburst
I hate being the only one who knows the truth of who he is
How did you stop reacting to covert emotional abuse when you still had to live together?
Just a vent: he can dish it out, but…
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Exposing the "Nice Guy" tactic: How boundary erosion takes place | 98 | 9 | text | Aug 9 |
| You don’t have to leave | 90 | 17 | text | Aug 19 |
| Great quote from Lundy Bancroft | 83 | 11 | text | Aug 23 |
| Told him I wanted a divorce and his response was unexpected | 56 | 19 | text | Aug 20 |
| My partner keeps insisting that his version of events should replace my lived experience | 51 | 33 | text | Aug 3 |
| Husband is shaming our 4.5 year old by calling him a baby | 51 | 46 | text | Aug 30 |
| What to do when they’re having a tantrum/outburst | 44 | 18 | text | Aug 10 |
| I hate being the only one who knows the truth of who he is | 42 | 9 | text | Aug 21 |
| How did you stop reacting to covert emotional abuse when you still had to live together? | 38 | 10 | text | Aug 22 |
| Just a vent: he can dish it out, but… | 37 | 3 | text | Aug 26 |
r/emotionalabuse Audience Overlap r/emotionalabuse Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/emotionalabuse FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/emotionalabuse
What's the best time to post on r/emotionalabuse?
Based on posting volume, r/emotionalabuse is most active on Sundays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/emotionalabuse?
r/emotionalabuse averages 20 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/emotionalabuse get?
Posts on r/emotionalabuse average about 4 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/emotionalabuse get most?
On r/emotionalabuse, most posts are text posts (100%)